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Who do these hot girls match with?

masked_energy

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Do you guys match with the hottest girls on Tinder/other apps?

I see loads of them but can’t consistently match them (probably 1 out of 30 but then unresponsive). So I am wondering who the hell they match with.
I have tuned my pics with Photofeeler. Tips on what I can improve? In daygame/nightgame I get much much better results than online but I have limited time to go out lately

I’m 26, my profile has short bio “curious optimist with big dreams”. I’m 180 cm, speak English and Italian. Hobbies: travel, techno, skiing, surfing, and the gym. Lookin for short-term, but long-term ok

Pic 1: me smiling on the beach
Votes: 73
Smart: 6.9
Trustworthy: 6.6
Attractive: 9.7

Pic 2: me with a surfboard
Votes: 42
Smart: 6.6
Trustworthy: 8.9
Attractive: 9.6

Pic 3: funny selfie with friends
Votes: 17
Smart: 4.7
Trustworthy: 9.5
Attractive: 9.3

Pic 4: me sitting on the beach
Votes: 20
Smart: 8.8
Trustworthy: 8.2
Attractive: 9.2
 

Aussiedude

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Depends on the app, although I heard they vary based on location.

But in my experience... Tinder is by far the worst hands down. How that app maintains popularity is unbelievable. It's so bad. Like it's a steaming pile of dogshit. Complete scam.

Bumble seems to be the most legit, I can honestly say I match with the hottest girls on it. And I don't have down periods or anything like that. Just consistent matches. I don't pay for premium either.

I used to match pretty consistently with the hottest girls on Hinge generally. But sometimes it just won't show my profile to anybody for like a few weeks or something. So it goes up and down. But I still will get a few matches a weeks with average/decintish looking women. And those girls are always pretty keen to meet up.

There's heaps of cope around dating apps. I made a women's profile one time on Bumble, and holy fuck mens profiles are terrible.

You can make em work, just have to have good pics. And 99% of men just do not understand what good pics are.

I kinda suck at cold approach but I manage to do decent enough through the apps.

I don't believe in websites like photo feeler for various reasons, I don't believe they're nearly as useful as people make them out to be.

Make a womens profile, and compare your photos to the other dudes on the app, if you feel like you fall into the average, you have your answer. I did that, and I know for Bumble anyway. My profile is better than 99% of mens profiles. Also plenty of women i've been on dates comment I have a really good profile lol.

Anyway, hope that answers your question.
 
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Ragnar

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west indian is right that some are bots and there are some girls who are just on there for an ego boost. however, there are girls on dating apps actually trying to meet someone. i suck with girls and yet i've met several, and a few i would consider hot.

with dating apps, having good pictures and a good profile really improves your chances. girls don't swipe right on lots of guys when using apps, so you really gotta make yourself standout. obviously i can't see your pictures, but you seem to have pictures of yourself doing activities which is the right thing to do.

i think a really good opener is "what's something fun you're looking forward to?" it's different, and much better than opening with hey or how are you. i've had success using that line.

keep trying to get matches, i'm sure your luck will change for the better soon.
 

Aussiedude

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west indian is right that some are bots and there are some girls who are just on there for an ego boost. however, there are girls on dating apps actually trying to meet someone. i suck with girls and yet i've met several, and a few i would consider hot.

with dating apps, having good pictures and a good profile really improves your chances. girls don't swipe right on lots of guys when using apps, so you really gotta make yourself standout. obviously i can't see your pictures, but you seem to have pictures of yourself doing activities which is the right thing to do.

i think a really good opener is "what's something fun you're looking forward to?" it's different, and much better than opening with hey or how are you. i've had success using that line.

keep trying to get matches, i'm sure your luck will change for the better soon.
Agreed here, I'm certain Bumble has no bots, Tinder has heeaps. And I'm not sure about Hinge, but I think Hinge overall is fairly legit. They just cycle your profile in and out.
 

ulrich

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I have a theory that Tinder boosts inactive hot girl profiles to make you believe you have a chance but they are not even active in the app.

Technically those aren’t bots but it is still a scam.

The way I know is because I am quite handsome and photogenic, I know I am good at giving first impressions and one of my glaring “disadvantages” is that I am somewhat short (which is easy to hide in apps)… despite all those advantages, I never got matched with the super hot ones.

Heck! I once paid premium to see “all the hotties” that wanted to meet me but none of them was even a 7.

If I had found at least a couple of 9-10 girls in the list who matched with me but didn’t respond to my messages, I would consider my profile or my messaging was the problem.
But it seems that the pool of options is just overwhelmingly mediocre (at least in my city).
 

Aussiedude

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I have a theory that Tinder boosts inactive hot girl profiles to make you believe you have a chance but they are not even active in the app.
100%, I noticed this as well.

Tinder is such a bad app and yet it has the largest userbase of all the dating apps. First mover advantage is hell of a thing.
 

West_Indian_Archie

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The League and Raya are apps with higher "quality" girls, but you have to have really have something going for yourself.

I knew a chick that was on it, pretty half white, half Thai blonde, and she was choosing between Rhodes scholars and bulge bracket bankers. She was only impressive facially. All the dudes were well accomplished, rich, famous or all of the above.

If you're dead set on rejecting offline pickup and continuing to ruin your self image and play a game that's rigged against you, you need to 100x your life game to get on one of these apps.
 

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I have a theory that Tinder boosts inactive hot girl profiles to make you believe you have a chance but they are not even active in the app.
That's not just a theory, it's 100% the truth.

It's easy to test. Whenever you open the app, the first girl it will show you will always be a mega hottie, but you will never ever match with her. Usually it's at least the second or third swipe. It's such an obvious psychological trick.

Just one of many reasons why Tinder is trash.
 

Aussiedude

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The League and Raya are apps with higher "quality" girls, but you have to have really have something going for yourself.

I knew a chick that was on it, pretty half white, half Thai blonde, and she was choosing between Rhodes scholars and bulge bracket bankers. She was only impressive facially. All the dudes were well accomplished, rich, famous or all of the above.

If you're dead set on rejecting offline pickup and continuing to ruin your self image and play a game that's rigged against you, you need to 100x your life game to get on one of these apps.
Still plenty of good looking girls on regular apps. Don't see why this would be necessary tbh. Just gotta have good photos.
 

ulrich

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Still plenty of good looking girls on regular apps. Don't see why this would be necessary tbh. Just gotta have good photos.
I think it depends on the location. Maybe tastes too.

I can confirm that where I live good looking girls (8 and above) no longer hang out in Tinder.

I assume you are in Australia… could it be that Aussie girls behave differently from Mexican girls?
 
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