Why can’t I get over a last minute rejection?

[Dario]

I had a date the other night that ended in a LMR (FR:https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=19110 ). I can not stop thinking about it and I don’t know why. I followed up and no response. She unmatched me so I just deleted her contact information. It was my “cant win em all” move. However, it’s really bugging me that I got ghosted. I’m already chatting up another girl and I’m working etc. Any advice on dealing with this? What do you think the root cause is?

Thanks for your feedback fellas

 

[dcman]

It happens where you are close to having a girl and for one reason or the other it did not work out. The brain keeps thinking what could have been done differently and about the mistakes that were made. The best way to recover is to start meeting new girls like you are doing and learn to manage your brain from thinking about this girl.

good luck

 

[razir110]

And remember to NOT CHASE HER. Us guys start chasing women precisely when we fail to get the girl and realize that we could have done something differently.
Don't fall into this trap because I have, we all have! What is done, is done and it can't be changed.

If you try to remedy the situation there is a 99% chance of you getting yourself in a lot of discomfort, chasing, waiting for messages, etc while she will be just having you as an orbiter, not as a potential lover.

When you don't get the girl, write her off. Keep her a C plan in the archives, maybe text her every 6 months or so to see if she want to meet.

But meanwhile just keep meeting new girls, this is THE ONLY WAY to make you feel better. There are no tricks to make a girl change her opinion on you.

To directly answer your question, why you can't get over it? Because you don't approach other women. Sorry for the boldness, but this is what I think

Best!