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Why can I feel confident talking to some girls but not others.

AdamEngineer

Space Monkey
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I have no issue talking with my female coworkers whom are attractive. Of course they're married and or taken. I am 24, they are within 3 years of me. Conversation is generally work related or small talk with things outside of work. Why is the ability of talking to these women easier than talking to women at a bar or club?
 
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Fluxcapacitor

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AdamEngineer dude!

No fear of rejection, social setting (reduces rejection, ya will interact in the environment) by now ya will know these girls or at least some not to mention ya have written yourself off already so there's no pressure.

Go an strike a conversation with a stranger, it's different to talking to ya friends dude.

Then look at the environment, loud clubs or bars, distractions, music, girls can be on guard cause they expect to be hit on by drunk guys.

Tell me about ya hobbies dude, ya will feel confident. Tell me about something ya don't know an ya won't be confident.

Confidence comes from success, ya can't be confident when it's unknown. Yet another reason to assume attraction, this will bring confidence dude
 
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