Was reading this advanced thread about crazy women not being worth the lay. Very interesting and got me thinking:
1. These last years (when not in a relationship) I've come close to 40 lays and have had lots of cool sexual experiences with women.
2. I've been diagnosed with some mental issues - not very serious but enough to make me a little handicapped in some areas in life. Things that come in easy for other guys are difficult for me (relationships, money, career, not being addicted to drugs, partying and alcohol, and so on).
I've seen a trend in my seductions; when I hit it off with a woman, she tends to be a little crazy herself.
They're also into me and we connect a lot faster. Sex with these women seems to be stronger as well. They're simply not boring.
When I am in a social setting with many people, I tend to - very quickly and instinctually - find the crazier women. And they find me.
On some rare occasions, I find a secure hight quality girl I get to know better. I am flirtatious and can pull off a date or two, but it usually never leads anywhere.
My hunch about this is that I subconsciously send a vibe that often matches women that are on the same level as me. Secure girls don't seem to come on my radar, or I can find them boring. I am also in a domestic partnership with a loving, loyal, and secure woman that I totally adore - altho I know deep down that she isn't as exciting as the crazy girls I tend to meet here and there.
Are crazy easier to connect and have sex with than high-quality women? Or do likes attract on a subconscious level?
1. These last years (when not in a relationship) I've come close to 40 lays and have had lots of cool sexual experiences with women.
2. I've been diagnosed with some mental issues - not very serious but enough to make me a little handicapped in some areas in life. Things that come in easy for other guys are difficult for me (relationships, money, career, not being addicted to drugs, partying and alcohol, and so on).
I've seen a trend in my seductions; when I hit it off with a woman, she tends to be a little crazy herself.
They're also into me and we connect a lot faster. Sex with these women seems to be stronger as well. They're simply not boring.
When I am in a social setting with many people, I tend to - very quickly and instinctually - find the crazier women. And they find me.
On some rare occasions, I find a secure hight quality girl I get to know better. I am flirtatious and can pull off a date or two, but it usually never leads anywhere.
My hunch about this is that I subconsciously send a vibe that often matches women that are on the same level as me. Secure girls don't seem to come on my radar, or I can find them boring. I am also in a domestic partnership with a loving, loyal, and secure woman that I totally adore - altho I know deep down that she isn't as exciting as the crazy girls I tend to meet here and there.
Are crazy easier to connect and have sex with than high-quality women? Or do likes attract on a subconscious level?