Why do experience guys tend to vanish?

[Lotus]

After making my first journal entry in almost 8 months, it got me thinking. Why do guys get to a certain level and peter off journaling? Why did I stop?

It's such a great way to enforce accountability on oneself as we look to progress.....

The first thing that comes to mind is that as one progresses with girls they progress with life and have less time to spend in self-analysis. You learn to manage your time better and schedule more with that time....the result being less here.

But is that the truth? Or an excuse to satisfy one's ego once it reaches a certain point....

 

[Drck]

I believe that this has alrady been discussed here...

IMO there is more issues... You learn enough stuff to get some good girl. Why continue, why moving from one girl to another? You also learn that there is way more stuff that you really need. I believe that an average guy doesn't really need that much, he needs 10% of what is described here.

Another thing, the questions are the same over and over, in summary it is just: How to get that one special girl... How to approach, what to say, how to lead her and so forth... It's been already covered hundreds of times in different words... The summarized answer is also quite easy, it is usually: Keep improving yourself and keep approaching different girls...

 

[trashKENNUT]

Lotus,

Your goals become more specific. Guys asking you questions and not being humble enough. irritating questions and there's many more. You just lazy. There's too many girls to start with. You write your own note pad. Guys won't appreciate if you write on a forum anyway.

people don't want to hear boring reality shit.

Zac

 

[PrettyDecent]

Building on what Zac and Drck were saying, places where beginners can come in are awesome.

Eventually though, the analysis that you can come up with becomes deeper than 95% of other people on the boards. Most people are trying to figure out the big picture, and advanced people are interested in nuances. So there becomes not as many interesting discussions for those people.

Anyway, places like this are breeding grounds for new talent. And experienced guys love seeing if they can turn someone with promise into someone great. That's one of the reasons why some experienced people actually end up staying.

Nick