why do I do stupid crap like this?

[Limp]

So I went out to watch a ball game and there were a number of great looking girls out. Initially, per my usual MO, I did nothing the entire first half. Around halftime, I talked to one that came up to the bar. she was very nice seemed like she might have liked me, but got pulled to a table by some friends. I was going to go talk to her at the table after the 3rd, but they left as I was getting up.

There was another girl I spoke with briefly when she came up to the bar. She was from out of state and rooting for the other team. Decided to go and talk to her towards the end. We happen to be mutual fans of some other teams though. She started getting very flirty, was talking sexually and making sexual gestures and put her arm around me a few times. I returned in kind, putting my arm around her, at first briefly, then longer. Her friend then wanted to sit down and called her to a table for the last 3 minutes.at first I thought nothing of it.

When the game was over, I was a bit upset over the odd finish and stopped by. tried to be playful in calling her team cheaters, not sure it came off right. Was going to ask for her number, but her friend seemed alarmed for some reason that I was back by them so I bailed like a chicken. Then my first urge when I get home is to see if I can find out who she is online so I can message her, which is just creepy.

Your thoughts?

 

[Smith]

I think it would have been better to persist both of them, especially the 2nd girl, to stay with u for 5 more minutes when her friends are calling her, and then move fast with her or get her number. then you don' need to go back to her and get her number when the conversation has already ended.
Don't worry though, there are plenty of women out there, no need to track them down on fb or something

 

[Ross]

Get the number when the temperature is hot. When y'all had your arms around each other, it'd be a great idea to naturally go for the number, perhaps say something relevant to the situation,

"Woah, I'm going to need your number before we go putting our arms around each other!"

Or something of the sort. Even straight up asking for her number would work in this situation.

Also, jack is right on the mark; persist if you want to make a connection out of the experience.