Hey everyone 
Just to add my little thing, i was thinking like the OP just a few times ago : "Yes why do i have to be lover, get first date sex when i just want a girlfriend whic i can have in a 3 dates format".
Correct me if i'am wrong , but i just "discovered" that in GC the advices given are not only about doing the things well with women, but also doing them in a way that not only efficient in the side of seduction, but efficient in our life in general so we don't loose much time or energy.
Chasing girls can be an exhausting task, i know many kf my friends who are good with girl but loose a lot of time, money and energy doing that.
So yes Having sex in first date is always better because less time, less money spent.
-Texting over phone calls , tossing the ball in her court after 4 attemps (according to the article) not because it can be efficient or it will get you surlu the girl but because at one moment you have to move on a go see other ones.
-Asking the girl out or going to instant date , yes you don't go aroud the bush not becaus it's sexy but because you have ti take care of the others things in your life.
and so on
Hope it helps to give a different perspective.
Just to add my little thing, i was thinking like the OP just a few times ago : "Yes why do i have to be lover, get first date sex when i just want a girlfriend whic i can have in a 3 dates format".
Correct me if i'am wrong , but i just "discovered" that in GC the advices given are not only about doing the things well with women, but also doing them in a way that not only efficient in the side of seduction, but efficient in our life in general so we don't loose much time or energy.
Chasing girls can be an exhausting task, i know many kf my friends who are good with girl but loose a lot of time, money and energy doing that.
So yes Having sex in first date is always better because less time, less money spent.
-Texting over phone calls , tossing the ball in her court after 4 attemps (according to the article) not because it can be efficient or it will get you surlu the girl but because at one moment you have to move on a go see other ones.
-Asking the girl out or going to instant date , yes you don't go aroud the bush not becaus it's sexy but because you have ti take care of the others things in your life.
and so on
Hope it helps to give a different perspective.
