You know, that's an interesting question. Most guys probably don't care that much, maybe because they don't feel the real pain of rejection or failure. I know when I was in my teens, some guys used to read magazines about relationships, I always thought that it was ridiculous, too girly, even gayish...
I only assume that many guys feel the same way. Personally I started to search online when I went through serious rejection, when I felt the real pain and was clueless about what's actually going on between guys and girls...
Another point, recently I read couple comments here from more experienced guys. I'll tell you, some of the stuff they became to believe must be so weird from point of view of people who don't spend time on seduction. Really awkward, too much psychology, too much ego, too many believes that are rather dissociated with reality... That all just points to one thing - personal problems, labile moods... some could even call it sick puppies LOL
Many times I get the impression that experienced guys here just walk from woman to woman, fuck her anytime they want, walk away while she keeps dreaming about them, till they show up again in her life... She then drop everything including her BF, sleep with him because he is so cool and amazing, much cooler and hundred times better than any other guys she knows... All that while they are keeping the most amazing woman that ever lived on the side as a GF for years...
WAKE UP, get off the weed, it's a delusion... Just because you can vibe with girl and understand each other, just because you learned couple tricks online doesn't really mean you are better than other guys out there. Great vibes and understanding is happening between most people, who never even heard about seduction... She may really like you, I'm not saying not, but at the same time she likes bunch of other guys as well. Chances are that she is also banging other dudes even when you are around, so after all - not really that big of a deal...
I'm not saying I'm any different, I know that my views are way off the main stream, and my Ego is also big, huge and beautiful... I've also invested time into large portion of psychology in my life, and believe it or not, sometimes it is just obstacle with dealing with girls, there are simply things than men are not supposed to know. Why? Because we are fucking men and not sensitive pussies who can't deal with life and emotions...
Men should be simple, easy, manly, masculine, focused on achieving - that is what women are really looking for, not psych majors who "understand" female emotions and other "stuff"... I'm at least aware of reality, in reality if it is me versus decent guy who behaves like a man, we both have equal chances - regardless what he knows about seduction... In reality I even lost to guys who were clueless about seduction, they had no clue about the simplest things... But they got the girl - only because they behaved more manly...
In reality, dealing with girls is not that really that difficult, it is rather simple and natural process. After all, mating with opposite gender goes on for millions of years between millions of species, out of which 99.999999% are not even using language... I believe most guyssomehow know that intuitively, they somehow feel it, so there is really no reason for "studying" seduction for months, years....
Seduction should be easy, not a science...
