Why do you hide the truth?

[Avalanche]

I just read Colt's latest article, "women in their early 20s and late 20s". And in that article he perfectly says how slutty women really are, and how they don't have any regard for a man's life by saying how women use men for their purposes. But yet, the rest of you guys say how amazing women are. And how you should love for what they are? And what exactly is there to love, if women really are like that? I apologize for asking these sort of questions. But since no one gives me a clear answer on these topics, I have to ask.

I'm not bitter towards women. I have always loved them, starting from my mother. But whenever I hear these type of things, it just confuses me. And it doesn't help me in understanding women. Also it makes me feel like a fag. As a 22 year old, now I just feel like all these women around me have fucked many guys, while I'm still here taking baby steps, struggling to make the first move. And if what they really want is to fuck like animals with any random guy, why should I even bother too much thinking of loving them and giving them the greatest sex they ever had in their whole life? Do they even need a man like me? I just can't understand a fucking thing...

 

[Franco]

Avalanche,

I would follow up that article with this one:

• She'll Do What She Has to to Get What She Wants

Understanding how women think is key to understanding how to bring out the aspects that we love about them.

- Franco

 

[headsup38]

The truth with women isn't black and white. There is a lot of subtly and contradictions. If you go into this trying to be logical, you will lose. I felt like this when I was 22, so I swore off gaming women. I soon realized females were going to test and punk me whether I was trying to game them or not. It is worth working on your interactions with women just to protect yourself from getting taken advantage of.

Your age plays a role in this. You'll have trouble landing females your age because you don't have enough experience(life or sexual). The girls you are seeing are probably hitting it up with much older men. When you reach your 30s assuming you keep working on your interactions with girls, you'll start seeing changes with your position in the dating market.

 

[BrandonCodi]

Girls are not unlike us men. They want sex too. This doesn't make them bad people. Society labels them as whores, but in reality it is no different than a guy fucking the shit out of a girl. Sometimes they want to have the shit fucked out of them. This does not make them bad people.

You sound like you respect women. I think that's great. We should all respect women. You just can't be too respectful in an approach. It isn't wrong to sexualize things. If you have too much respect for women though, you may feel that you are disrespecting them by doing this when this is not true. You are simply flirting with them. You will learn very quickly whether or not the girl is into it or not because she'll shut you down in no time or flirt back. If you never flirt with a girl though you will never find yourself in that situation which comes back to "how much respect is too much?"

I don't know if this helps you or not, but I feel it is relevant to the conversation.

Cheers, brother

 

[GeneralFap]

Ive always wondered about this too. Women are the gatekeepers to sex. If she willingly gives herself away to many men, it should mean that she has less value than the girl who is picky about choosing the right genetics. Thats why really hot girls sleep around less than ugly or average girls. Its the opposite for men. Men gain value if the fuck a ton of girls because it shows hes been preselected by many of them. Men are called losers in western society if the cant get laid and women are called sluts so the shaming is mutual.
I feel the guys over at returnofkings are more honest about this truth than girlschase. I dont agree with being perfectly ok with women just slutting around. It definitely decreases their value in my eyes. Kudos to you for seeing this and not just blindly following everything that is said here. I respect chase, I just dont agree with everything he says.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Generalfap,

i feel where you are. I can see why you think that way and maybe Franco is not relating or maybe even Zac is trying to be you because he says he feels where you are.

But only two things

1)it takes time until you forget about it or it's your standpoint (and everyone has their standpoint)
2)you see from a higher perspective due to age or knowledge (someone walking with you in the mental part)

Number 2 is impossible because most ppl are idiots. WIITM (what's in it for me). So it takes time. 2) can happen but not so often.

Zac

 

[CaptainHenley]

I was wondering that myself.

But even Chase isn't saying that exactly.

There are women out there, who are smart, amazing, interesting and beautiful. Top ranks. Well, they are worth it, and they also have a lower partner count. (You are missing out on the coolest girls article) Thats what Chase is going for in the long run, and me as well.

But you cant practice on with the top 0.5%. Theres not enough of it. So you gotta accept some things in order to get you going with the rest of the women so you can hone your skills.

My 2 cents.

 

[Lover]

And in that article he perfectly says how slutty women really are, and how they don't have any regard for a man's life by saying how women use men for their purposes. But yet, the rest of you guys say how amazing women are. And how you should love for what they are? And what exactly is there to love, if women really are like that?

You don't have to love them, but it's more fun!

If you can at least accept and respect the fact that they have a sexual side and share it with the men that can satisfy this part of them, you are already ahead of many guys.

But is this even necessary? I mean.. women are just human beings. Even though they use their brains in a different way, and their bodies differ from men, they're still human beings with basic needs. Sex is one of those needs. But it seems like some people forget all of this in the mating game.

Also it makes me feel like a fag.

Care to elaborate why loving women's true selves makes you feel like this?

As a 22 year old, now I just feel like all these women around me have fucked many guys, while I'm still here taking baby steps, struggling to make the first move.

Well, women took their baby steps to play their part of the courtship once they wanted guys. It just sounds like you had a late start. Keep going at it, and you'll get there.

And if what they really want is to fuck like animals with any random guy, why should I even bother too much thinking of loving them and giving them the greatest sex they ever had in their whole life?

You don't have to. Withdraw from the mating game, and there'll be more women for the rest of us.

Joke aside. if you become above-average in sexual skills and relationships, chances are you can keep them around long enough to make them wonder if you could be more than just a potential fuck. If you don't do this, some other guy probably will. Or she'll settle with a nice guy.

Do they even need a man like me?

I read somewhere that attention and validation are to women what sex is to men. If this is true, then yes, women need men (also you) for all their selfish purposes -platonic, romantic, sexual validation etc. You must eventually decide which kind of validation you want to give them, and how you can get what you want from them. Since you're on these boards, I can almost guess what kind of validation you want to give them

 

[Big Daddy]

If she willingly gives herself away to many men, it should mean that she has less value than the girl who is picky about choosing the right genetics. Thats why really hot girls sleep around less than ugly or average girls.

OK, but what is your point?

There are low quality women, just as there are low quality men (that isn't to say that girls who sleep around are necessarily low quality), as you pointed out. You will still find higher quality girls who don't sleep around regardless of how many sluts are there.

EDIT: I would say your criteria is only valid if looked into proportions – a girl not sleeping around doesn't equal being picky. Now if she has 100 good looking, jacked and highly interesting men approaching her and she only fucked one of them, then sure, we can make a point about her obviously knowing her value in the dating market and being picky because of it.

Just to put in perspective – it's like women arguing that there shouldn't be pussies anymore and all guys should have fucked at least 50 girls so they'd have droves of high quality men to choose from.