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To begin, in the past, I've occasionally found the time between when you've moved a girl to your room and getting her into bed to be kind of awkward/rough. It's not always a smooth transition. To paint a picture, let's say you've gotten her into your room because in your conversation at dinner, the topic of artwork comes up. So you tell her you've got some really cool artwork you think she might like and that she's gonna have to at least come upstairs and check it out later. So now the two of you are in your room, just as you had planned. But now what? This part can be tricky if you're at a beginner/intermediate level, and although I wouldn't consider myself to be advanced yet, I'm sure experts still run into some awkward moments here from time to time, too.
Hopefully you've at least done some deep diving and sexual framing with her. This will certainly help. But here's where the baby pictures come in. When girls meet a new guy, they LOVE to use what they see in his room as implicit information about who he is. They think they've uncovered all sorts of mysteries you didn't tell them about yourself, and it makes them feel like they've outsmarted you.
I started noticing that every girl I brought into my bedroom would glance around at certain things and ask me about them. What's crazy is I realized, they all made note of the SAME THINGS in my room! One of the items they ALL noticed was the stack of baby pictures I had sitting on the corner of my desk. And I learned fairly quickly how to use this to my advantage. It would usually go something like this:
Then, she'll usually set down the pictures and crawl into bed to console me. And the battle is won.
Now, here's why I think it works
Finally, once she's in the bed with me, I just caress her body and say something like, "It's just amazing how fast we grow up. It seems like just yesterday I was the boy in those pictures. And now we're all grown up... yada yada yada." Now all that's left is for you to make her yours, and since all the dirty work is done already, closing the deal will be the least of your worries.
I want to hear from ya'll regarding what you think about this tactic. So shoot me some replies.
~ Cheers
Hopefully you've at least done some deep diving and sexual framing with her. This will certainly help. But here's where the baby pictures come in. When girls meet a new guy, they LOVE to use what they see in his room as implicit information about who he is. They think they've uncovered all sorts of mysteries you didn't tell them about yourself, and it makes them feel like they've outsmarted you.
I started noticing that every girl I brought into my bedroom would glance around at certain things and ask me about them. What's crazy is I realized, they all made note of the SAME THINGS in my room! One of the items they ALL noticed was the stack of baby pictures I had sitting on the corner of my desk. And I learned fairly quickly how to use this to my advantage. It would usually go something like this:
- Her: Oh my god! These pictures are sooo cute! Is this one you? Are these your brothers?
- Me: Oh...yeah that's me and those are my brothers. [said in a monotone/reluctant voice, as if you're embarrassed she just found those]
- Her: I love looking at baby pictures! Ahh, this one's my favorite.
- Me: Yeah, that's a good one. I can't believe I left those out. I feel so silly now...
- At this point, I fall into bed in "embarrassment." I roll up into a ball and grasp my covers. Then I'll say something like, "Why don't you tell me when you're finished admiring cute baby pictures so I can at least have some of my dignity back." [this time, said in more of a sexy/sarcastic tone]
Then, she'll usually set down the pictures and crawl into bed to console me. And the battle is won.
Now, here's why I think it works
- (a) She feels like she's really broken down your barriers. She's discovered that you do have a weak spot and you're not just some stoic robot man. She sees you have feelings, and girls like a guy who's willing to show that from time to time.
- (b) She feels like she's gotten to know you more. In the 15-20 seconds she's spent looking at the pictures, she's seen what you looked like as a toddler, what you did as a baby, possibly what your siblings looked like, what your family dynamics might have been like, etc. She's getting a visual history of you and your life. And she feels a stronger connection to you as a result.
- (c) Obviously, in your embarrassment, you've fallen into bed. Now you're not in your bed for just no reason. And now she has a reason to join you. She must console you after breaking down your barriers.
Finally, once she's in the bed with me, I just caress her body and say something like, "It's just amazing how fast we grow up. It seems like just yesterday I was the boy in those pictures. And now we're all grown up... yada yada yada." Now all that's left is for you to make her yours, and since all the dirty work is done already, closing the deal will be the least of your worries.
I want to hear from ya'll regarding what you think about this tactic. So shoot me some replies.
~ Cheers
