Why Mentors are Assholes

[trashKENNUT]

Hello,

Mentors, teachers. Men do not have all the answers.
We do not know why we are here on earth.

The issue here is genuine area of unknown (ambiguity), and her anxiety.

To make it simple, the reason that you cannot escape the friendzone is because she feels anxiety but you are also not authority, and if you are Gen Z, you have not accept yourself as Earth's protector.

Thus, why you fail.

 

[trashKENNUT]

I was thinking about @Bigjo question.

And I thought I wanted to share something. I was planning to meet a client this week and things are what I felt as a 'done deal'.

But things took a swerve.
And it surprised me by a big margin.

Here's the thing: the thing that drives everyone crazy is ambiguity.
-Genuine life ambiguity
-crafted ambiguity
-perceptive ambiguity

And my client took a big swerve was a surprised to me. And it reminds me that I can do everything right and still fail. I can do everything wrong and still get the girl. I have seen girls popping up left and right when I'm pissed.

Starting from today, I will only share patterns. I don't believe in absolute. I just don't. And @Bigjo question reminds me of my calling that I need to complete my blueprint fast.

Because the blueprint is based on what I have found. It has always been patterns below the surface.

And yea, even Girlschase notes, I will only share the similar patterns that drives results. One can say I'm afraid of failure.

I'm just more humbled by life I guess.

z@c+

 

[CassieDon]

What do you consider an "asshole"? You go to a mentor for guidance in acquiring skills/knowledge in a field you want to understand and improve in.

As for why we're here on earth, there could be some scientific theories that attempt to explain how it randomly occurred. But if you're looking for a meaning behind why each life form exists, and if there is a purpose. No mentor will do that for you. Anyone will say you will need to solve that existential cookie yourself. Though, there could be no meaning, and those leaning towards Existentialism would tell you to create your own meaning, and anyone tending towards Nihilism would tell you it is pointless to try doing that. Then you get the Absurdists, who will tell you to accept there is no meaning and do what is interesting while you're around.

If you want to escape the friend zone, you could try. If you can't, it may not necessarily because you aren't an authority figure. You may just not be her type. Or maybe you consistently fail her particular shit tests are some period apart. Or perhaps, you're just not her type and never will be. There could be many reasons - but a friendzone fixation might suggest oneitus that needs fixing.