Why most lawyers and doctors are not successful in seduction?
Doctors, lawyer, businessmen, politicians and so on are usually perceived as hard working and intelligent people – and they are. But at the same time they are perceived as rather boring. Who has time to sit so many years on his ass and study? Who works so many hours to build his business at such early age? Who has the need and time to organize meetings and “lead” others?
Although these are exciting professions they all imply one bad thing. When a girl sees him she thinks: He is stable, intelligent and hardworking guy who cares a lot about his life, and about those who are in his life. He is also a righteous man – so how much more fucking boring can this guy be? What is his deal to care so much about every fucking thing? But she also sees that this guy already has or will have great access to finances and social circles. After all, she is a very social person. This guy is working so hard on being such a Great Provider, thus he definitely deserves a chance to provide for her. One day. The harder he works the more he can provide for her!
So she thinks he definitely deserves a chance to be a Great Provider. I’ll let him wait till I am at least 30, she says to her friends, and then I’ll make him happy and let him finally provide for me: He can have family with me, pay for me, have a big house built for me. How exciting this guy is, all he has to do is keep working hard and wait!
And the guy works hard, waits, waits and waits. He can’t get any girls because he is so fucking boring, he cares about everything, and he sees life as either good or bad; black and white, right or wrong. He is a fucking hero too - he always fights for the right things!
Finally, with lots of effort he then gets used girl who is around 30, with many of miles on her. She’ll make him happy anyway; he is so forgiving and was never in love like this before, he never met woman like this before who cared for him so much. This guy is in seventh heaven now. In his mind, she’s bored with all the Losers now and finally chose The Great Guy – him. Finally, all his hard work is paying off!
And they get married and they live happily ever after. Except if he gets too independent, too out of control, too hungry for younger, skinnier and prettier girl who doesn’t bitch as much as she does. In that case she’ll divorce him, now he no longer he deserves her. But that is actually exciting too – the more money he made, the bigger house he has built, the bigger provider he was all these years - the better for her!
But she is only 20 now. She sees a guy who doesn’t give a damn about education; he has no job and no money, maybe is just using alcohol and drugs. There are holes in his pants and he’s got weird haircut, how cool. He could care less about right or wrong, good and bad, he doesn’t even understand that. All he knows is that his business is good, he makes much more money by selling drugs than by working. He is simply having fun without any consequences; there is no way he can provide for her in the future, he’ll be probably in jail anyway. But he is such a fun right now. So he can provide a lot of fun for her now; him and his friends too. After all, she is very social. Now she is young and can fuck as much as she wants, no one is judging her. How exciting this guy is!
Doctors, lawyer, businessmen, politicians and so on are usually perceived as hard working and intelligent people – and they are. But at the same time they are perceived as rather boring. Who has time to sit so many years on his ass and study? Who works so many hours to build his business at such early age? Who has the need and time to organize meetings and “lead” others?
Although these are exciting professions they all imply one bad thing. When a girl sees him she thinks: He is stable, intelligent and hardworking guy who cares a lot about his life, and about those who are in his life. He is also a righteous man – so how much more fucking boring can this guy be? What is his deal to care so much about every fucking thing? But she also sees that this guy already has or will have great access to finances and social circles. After all, she is a very social person. This guy is working so hard on being such a Great Provider, thus he definitely deserves a chance to provide for her. One day. The harder he works the more he can provide for her!
So she thinks he definitely deserves a chance to be a Great Provider. I’ll let him wait till I am at least 30, she says to her friends, and then I’ll make him happy and let him finally provide for me: He can have family with me, pay for me, have a big house built for me. How exciting this guy is, all he has to do is keep working hard and wait!
And the guy works hard, waits, waits and waits. He can’t get any girls because he is so fucking boring, he cares about everything, and he sees life as either good or bad; black and white, right or wrong. He is a fucking hero too - he always fights for the right things!
Finally, with lots of effort he then gets used girl who is around 30, with many of miles on her. She’ll make him happy anyway; he is so forgiving and was never in love like this before, he never met woman like this before who cared for him so much. This guy is in seventh heaven now. In his mind, she’s bored with all the Losers now and finally chose The Great Guy – him. Finally, all his hard work is paying off!
And they get married and they live happily ever after. Except if he gets too independent, too out of control, too hungry for younger, skinnier and prettier girl who doesn’t bitch as much as she does. In that case she’ll divorce him, now he no longer he deserves her. But that is actually exciting too – the more money he made, the bigger house he has built, the bigger provider he was all these years - the better for her!
But she is only 20 now. She sees a guy who doesn’t give a damn about education; he has no job and no money, maybe is just using alcohol and drugs. There are holes in his pants and he’s got weird haircut, how cool. He could care less about right or wrong, good and bad, he doesn’t even understand that. All he knows is that his business is good, he makes much more money by selling drugs than by working. He is simply having fun without any consequences; there is no way he can provide for her in the future, he’ll be probably in jail anyway. But he is such a fun right now. So he can provide a lot of fun for her now; him and his friends too. After all, she is very social. Now she is young and can fuck as much as she wants, no one is judging her. How exciting this guy is!
