I've talked a lot about my natural friend. There has always been one thing with him - he can get laid but only once or twice. He never gets into a relationship even purely physical one. And I've been thinking a lot about this. If he could sleep with those girls on a more regular base with no romantic attachments why wouldn't he.
Why sleep with a girl only once when you can sleep with her lots of times.
A couple of hours ago we started talking about sex. The conversation started when a girl he likes is tall like almost 6 feet. And I made a remark that it might be better if a girl is a bit shorter cause it'll be easier to move her around. At least that's how I think it it.
And he asked me why the fuck would you need to move her or lift her.
And I told him that the way I imagine having sex is a bit rougher. I mean pinning her against the wall while kissing her. Pinning her arms. Throwing her on the bed. Dominating her. Lightly choking her. Spanking her. Dirty talking. Even tying her up.
And he was shocked almost angry. He told me "wow it really shows that you have't had sex. Girls don't like this stuff.. it's not a porno. Girls only enjoy missionary slow and gentle and soft and not dominating her in any way.".
And I told him that this sounds super vanilla and boring. I want to have passionate, raw, rough, animalistic sex with the girls I'm bedding.
He started laughing and said again that It shows that I have no experience with women, cause they really don't like that stuff.
During this conversation I figured out that this was most probably the reason why he only slept with girls once. The sex is boring for the girls and they don't want any more of it. And he's always complaining that things never work out with girls if he wants something more serious than just sex one time. And how girls are horrible liars and the few girlfriends he's had all cheated on him, because women are horrible.
I realized that those girls don't want anything more cause the sex is not good and he's handling way to gentle. And that's why they cheated on him - they were seriously sexually bored.
I told him this and he refused and stated how girls don't like rough sex and only enjoy slow and soft sex.
I wander how can he be good with getting the girls to sleep with them, but the moment the clothes come off - he turns into a giant pussy and acts like one.
And when I told him how I'd have rough and passionate sex with the girls I bed. He told me "yeah good luck with keeping a girl with that. they'll walk out on you while you're trying that rough sex stuff. Maybe only a super slut or a porn star or prostitute might like rough/passionate sex". And I bet he's communicating this to them. That if she likes dirty, rough, passionate, kinky sex - she's a slut. So they can't even open up and tell/show him that they do actually like this kind of sex, because they fear being judged - which they will be if they admit it.
It's weird being able to get a girl to be but not being able to give her good sex and keep her around.
I honestly feel like most guys think this way too. That girls are super pure and should be handled really carefully during sex, like she'll break. I simply don't want that. I want rough passionate sex that will make me and the girl get to total exhaustion and not being able to catch our breaths after we're finished. To the point where she can't say her name and has a huge silly grin on her face that stays there the whole day and she can't wait for round 2.
Why sleep with a girl only once when you can sleep with her lots of times.
A couple of hours ago we started talking about sex. The conversation started when a girl he likes is tall like almost 6 feet. And I made a remark that it might be better if a girl is a bit shorter cause it'll be easier to move her around. At least that's how I think it it.
And he asked me why the fuck would you need to move her or lift her.
And I told him that the way I imagine having sex is a bit rougher. I mean pinning her against the wall while kissing her. Pinning her arms. Throwing her on the bed. Dominating her. Lightly choking her. Spanking her. Dirty talking. Even tying her up.
And he was shocked almost angry. He told me "wow it really shows that you have't had sex. Girls don't like this stuff.. it's not a porno. Girls only enjoy missionary slow and gentle and soft and not dominating her in any way.".
And I told him that this sounds super vanilla and boring. I want to have passionate, raw, rough, animalistic sex with the girls I'm bedding.
He started laughing and said again that It shows that I have no experience with women, cause they really don't like that stuff.
During this conversation I figured out that this was most probably the reason why he only slept with girls once. The sex is boring for the girls and they don't want any more of it. And he's always complaining that things never work out with girls if he wants something more serious than just sex one time. And how girls are horrible liars and the few girlfriends he's had all cheated on him, because women are horrible.
I realized that those girls don't want anything more cause the sex is not good and he's handling way to gentle. And that's why they cheated on him - they were seriously sexually bored.
I told him this and he refused and stated how girls don't like rough sex and only enjoy slow and soft sex.
I wander how can he be good with getting the girls to sleep with them, but the moment the clothes come off - he turns into a giant pussy and acts like one.
And when I told him how I'd have rough and passionate sex with the girls I bed. He told me "yeah good luck with keeping a girl with that. they'll walk out on you while you're trying that rough sex stuff. Maybe only a super slut or a porn star or prostitute might like rough/passionate sex". And I bet he's communicating this to them. That if she likes dirty, rough, passionate, kinky sex - she's a slut. So they can't even open up and tell/show him that they do actually like this kind of sex, because they fear being judged - which they will be if they admit it.
It's weird being able to get a girl to be but not being able to give her good sex and keep her around.
I honestly feel like most guys think this way too. That girls are super pure and should be handled really carefully during sex, like she'll break. I simply don't want that. I want rough passionate sex that will make me and the girl get to total exhaustion and not being able to catch our breaths after we're finished. To the point where she can't say her name and has a huge silly grin on her face that stays there the whole day and she can't wait for round 2.
