Why Process IS Forever

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As i think about the superstars and guys who have fallen from grace, once their superb lifestyle and have everyone flaunt to them. What makes all the success and people come to them? Process. Have you notice why people say, "Don't be too happy, something is going to happen, and you be sad", It's Process. It's process that makes you happy, the happiness is the result.

Have you notice why is it that a women feels bored and anger after years, even if the guy was the same guy that she loves? Process. Process of keeping everything afresh sparingly, Process of flirting with other women sparingly so his skills is up to date, and help her make her happy. Process of self expansion so that you and her are always on the verge of new ideas, new enjoyment, new hobbies together.

Process is what makes billionaires, still billionaires. Most of them don't retire, because they realise Process is what producing for them what they having. And to them, it's fun. Process is skills. Process is separating that a man can be rich or average, good with women or average. They say what distinguishes the great players from the good players is your head.

What are the processes running in your mind? What are the things that you do that makes women chase you, that is good and you want to remind yourself to keep it? and what are your process in your other life that you can make efficient and effective. It's not that what you doing is wrong or right, or this is what i am telling you to do or not to do. No, it's not like that at all. This is patterns, you can create for yourself, and It may be the thing you been missing.

I'm working on it, No perfect human being. GAH.. Make this a habit for me to keep this in mind.
Zac

 

[Chase]

Zac-

As i think about the superstars and guys who have fallen from grace, once their superb lifestyle and have everyone flaunt to them. What makes all the success and people come to them? Process. Have you notice why people say, "Don't be too happy, something is going to happen, and you be sad", It's Process. It's process that makes you happy, the happiness is the result.

Yes - you hit the nail on the head here.

I've watched a lot of people flash up and get big and then crash. One-hit wonders and college stars who fail in the pro leagues are great examples. One of the best examples out there of a guy who just killed it because his process was so damn good was Jerry Rice, the American football wide receiver. There was a guy without much natural ability, who was late to join the game (he didn't even want to play football, and didn't learn how until the coach asked him to join the team at 16), but once he was doing it, he was so religious and so intense in his training regimen that he outplayed almost everybody else, and did so significantly late into his career. He played 10 years longer than most wide receivers are able to make it in the NFL, and he was still putting up very solid numbers when he retired. The only reason was process.

Most people see a little success, and then tell themselves, "Okay, I've made it! Now I can rest," and then that's it, they abandon their processes. As soon as you abandon that, life comes crashing back down on you again, and you're right back where you started. All the college ball stars who ease up on practicing because they're so used to being the best that they think being the best at their school means they'll be the best in the big leagues, and they never make it. I'm almost certain that's the reason for the "Heisman curse"... once most guys win a Heisman, the highest honor in collegiate football, given to only one outstanding player every year, they're doomed in the professional leagues. They get that, they KNOW they're now the best... and then, they lose their hunger, abandon their process, and fade into obscurity.

That's probably the hard part. How do you keep that hunger necessary to stick to process, even after success, even as you age? Almost everybody wants to let his guard down at some point, but you're either improving or declining. You seem to need to have at least one eye on the downside, and to know that the instant you stop busting your back, you're going to start losing your edge and someone else hungrier than you are who wants your spot more than you want to hold onto it is going to come along and take it.

Chase

 

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[Marty]

Great post, Zac. Thanks for bumping!