Why she mentions other girls?

[Lithuanian]

I'm dating one girl and I think she likes me. ON the last date she mentioned about girls several times. She asked me, how long is my lunch break. I said, that my boss doesn't control the lenght of lunch break and she said "you probably have time to chat with some girls". Later she mentioned something similar and said that I probably talk to other girls. How to respond to such remarks?

Also, she started using my name quite often. What does that mean?

 

[Mr K.]

I'd put myself into the beginner category with women at the moment. So you could take this with a grain of salt if you want however my guess concerning her questioning your interaction with other girls is that she is testing your pre selection with other women, she's gauging your response to determine whether other women are attracted to you or not. Your job should be to respond in a way which neither proves if you do or not, keep her guessing cause that will make her think about whether you do talk to women or not, which is investment on her behalf and investment leads to attraction. You could reply to such a question with something along the lines of "of course, I've got time to do a lot of things during my break" and then move the conversation onto focusing on her.

As for her using your name a lot more I see that as her trying to make your interactions a lot more personal, I think its on you now to take the interaction to the next level; she's done her part as a women now its your turn as a man . From this little information I'd say that this girl is attracted to you and you should look to go in for the kill soon, don't let her slip away you will regret that a LOT more than if the relationship goes south (which is unlikely provided she is testing you and basically asking you to step it up, women are very subtle in how they communicate that they want more). And even if things do not workout, take it as a lesson learnt or experience and realise that if she doesn't go with you, chances are she wouldn't go with you even if you took things a lot slower, cause the slower you take things the more attraction expires and you slowly start falling into the dreaded friend zone category, so just man up and do it. Push things forward as a way of screening her to see if she's really interested.

Focus on the logistics and sexual/chase frames for your next date and follow the articles on how to take a woman to bed and LMR, because remember a girl is not 'yours' unless you take her to bed. AND if you really want to keep this girl, I recommend you read Chase' article https://www.girlschase.com/content/make- ... es-or-less and Ricardus' article https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-b ... rl-orgasms because if you give her good (aim for great) sex she'll be back for more in no time

Well that's my 2 cents worth I hope it helps you understand the situation better, and if anyone else sees anything wrong with what I've suggested feel free to critique

Mr K