why should she come to my part of town? what to tell her?

[thats_a_penis_disgustang]

I live 30 min from city center. and for obvious reasons always tell them to come to my part of town

some girls just say ok and later I find out that was hour or hour and a half commute for them.

some, on the other hand, engage in power play "why don't you come to my part of town instead?" and I never do that.

but some ask why? I answer "because I live 3 min from this bus stop and all the cinema, parks and cafes are here"

is there a better answer, or is it just her lack of compliance with which nothing can be done?

 

[TheHustler]

You could try telling them that theres this great place near you that she has to come with you to see. I make it a short drive from my home so that I can ask her to pick me up so that we can go to the place together. This sets up perfect logistics for her being at your house after the dinner or whatever. To ask her if she wants to go inside. (They already expect to come inside).

Disclaimer: I have never dealt with women THAT far away but finding something near you and hyping up the value of the place might work (To give her a reason the drive that distance). Doesn't hurt to try it.

"Lets go to my favorite place you will love it" "It's my favorite because blah blah"

good luck!

 

[thats_a_penis_disgustang]

thank you! I actually did just that with her

 

[naturalmikey]

date younger girls. then say “because you live with your parents.” if you haven’t had sex you’re gonna have to accept that with your logistics a lot of women just wont come that far. a lot changes once you’ve got her off. girls will travel great distances to a guy who cares about their sexual pleasure, because most don’t.

 

[thats_a_penis_disgustang]

it is actually much less of a problem than one might think from my post. most of these girls do 30-40 minute commutes to college every day, so if they say that it is too far away mostly it is just one of many ways to flake, which also happens very rarely these days. I just thought guys will tell me one good thing to say to her.

 

[thats_a_penis_disgustang]

update:
yeah, when asked for conformation she said that she doesn't like that neighborhood (bullshit) and bla bla whatever.
if only I had 5 more numbers collected this week...
oh wait
I do!