Why were girls attracted to me before Girlschase?

[Dimes]

Thinking back. Before I found this site I knew a few girls who very interested in despite me not having any game (at least I thought had no game) was this attraction based off looks alone?

What is that type of attraction called? I once had a girl with a bf crush on me so hard that I felt I could sleep with her anytime.

But why? Literally all I the game I did for her was play rnb songs together. I never said anything sexual verbally but I did give her bed eyes.( I think I might have subconsciously knew some game tho). AND I NEVER verbally stated I like her or even complimented her. I was hiding my banana. And she still crushed on me


What was I doing something right back then or was it just attraction of looks and subconscious fundamentals?

This was social circle by the way.

 

[Franco]

What was I doing something right back then or was it just attraction of looks and subconscious fundamentals?

This was social circle by the way.

It was probably a combination of that and social proof. Social circle is how most guys end up with girlfriends because there's a natural pre-selection process that takes place as well as a level of comfort that's much higher since the girls know you.

That being said, sometimes it can work against you (and a girl won't sleep with you since you're in the boyfriend role. The best way to escape this is to try to get her into bed quickly and then become very aloof if she plays games with it and flirts but doesn't let you move forward).

Of course, cold approach is still a superior skill in the sense that the world is your oyster when it comes to your selection of women -- you only have a small amount of girls available to you in your social circle.

- Franco