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I can’t figure out if this woman likes me, hates me, has me wrapped around her finger, or if I have her wrapped around my finger. Somebody wanna help me make some sense out of this?
I met a girl in a certain city shortly before leaving it. We were going to meet up but she flaked out and we didn’t. I left. I wasn’t really planning on reengaging with her because I didn’t care, but she continued persistently messaging me so I just decided to flirt with her like hell. We eventually began full-bore constant sexting and it was so intense and consistent that it led me to believe that when I was back in town something would definitely happen.
When I did get back in town, the girl proved incredibly flaky, canceling numerous dates, to the point that I concluded she had no intention of meeting up at all and I played her own game right back at her, making several dates and canceling at the last minute, just because I was pissed and didn’t care if we met or not. We did eventually meet up for a couple hours. Sadly, I was in a bad mood and not fully “on” and wasn’t able to pull her back home. I think it was my fault, but she may also have just been screwing with me and planning to never give me a crumb from the start, just intending 100% to screw with me.
About this girl. She’s a woman who has a lot of experience with both women and men. She’s been to bed with as many girls as I have and that’s not a small number. I really think she understands everything that goes into game. I can tell from the way she responds to me, and that’s new. She also loves to hear about my conquests with other women.
Anyway, in the three weeks that I was in town, we ended up meeting only twice. All this while the sexting and teasing continued full force. One of the main focuses of this teasing was threesomes. I believe I only managed to make the second meetup happen because I actually pulled another girl to my house the day before. That girl momentarily expressed interest in a threesome and I told the girl that is the focus of this post. This seemed to get her attention and she came over to my house the next day and we both got drunk. I thought there were very good vibes this time throughout the entire thing, but again I couldn’t get a crumb out of her. She would let me touch but not kiss her, claiming to like only sex and not kisses. I eventually got frustrated and put her hand on my crotch to see if that would work, but she just asked me why I was doing that and went on as if nothing had happened.
She left. Who would do this, actually going to someone’s house and then freezing them out completely? After canceling multiple dates while sexting furiously throughout?
I’d probably conclude I was just being played except for a couple things. I still think it’s possible this is some insane unknown level of female game meant to get me obsessed with her. But she told me she didn’t want to have sex because she was afraid of getting attached to me, after gushing over my positive qualities. That might be the truth too, that there really is attraction on her side and she’s afraid of it. It seems equally as likely to me as the possibility that she doesn’t give a shit at all. I also saw that she posted a pic she took at my house on social media with the caption “My (my name)
.”
Why would someone do all this? I’ve never been so confused by a woman. I’ve been playing major hot-cold game with her and jerking her all around as much as I can. Honestly, I think she enjoys it and she knows what I’m doing, which is interesting and refreshing. What I can’t decide is if it’s at all worth my time to put any more effort into this. I simply cannot read her intentions. Maybe she’s just crazy and it’s all fruitless.
Any thoughts?
I met a girl in a certain city shortly before leaving it. We were going to meet up but she flaked out and we didn’t. I left. I wasn’t really planning on reengaging with her because I didn’t care, but she continued persistently messaging me so I just decided to flirt with her like hell. We eventually began full-bore constant sexting and it was so intense and consistent that it led me to believe that when I was back in town something would definitely happen.
When I did get back in town, the girl proved incredibly flaky, canceling numerous dates, to the point that I concluded she had no intention of meeting up at all and I played her own game right back at her, making several dates and canceling at the last minute, just because I was pissed and didn’t care if we met or not. We did eventually meet up for a couple hours. Sadly, I was in a bad mood and not fully “on” and wasn’t able to pull her back home. I think it was my fault, but she may also have just been screwing with me and planning to never give me a crumb from the start, just intending 100% to screw with me.
About this girl. She’s a woman who has a lot of experience with both women and men. She’s been to bed with as many girls as I have and that’s not a small number. I really think she understands everything that goes into game. I can tell from the way she responds to me, and that’s new. She also loves to hear about my conquests with other women.
Anyway, in the three weeks that I was in town, we ended up meeting only twice. All this while the sexting and teasing continued full force. One of the main focuses of this teasing was threesomes. I believe I only managed to make the second meetup happen because I actually pulled another girl to my house the day before. That girl momentarily expressed interest in a threesome and I told the girl that is the focus of this post. This seemed to get her attention and she came over to my house the next day and we both got drunk. I thought there were very good vibes this time throughout the entire thing, but again I couldn’t get a crumb out of her. She would let me touch but not kiss her, claiming to like only sex and not kisses. I eventually got frustrated and put her hand on my crotch to see if that would work, but she just asked me why I was doing that and went on as if nothing had happened.
She left. Who would do this, actually going to someone’s house and then freezing them out completely? After canceling multiple dates while sexting furiously throughout?
I’d probably conclude I was just being played except for a couple things. I still think it’s possible this is some insane unknown level of female game meant to get me obsessed with her. But she told me she didn’t want to have sex because she was afraid of getting attached to me, after gushing over my positive qualities. That might be the truth too, that there really is attraction on her side and she’s afraid of it. It seems equally as likely to me as the possibility that she doesn’t give a shit at all. I also saw that she posted a pic she took at my house on social media with the caption “My (my name)
.”Why would someone do all this? I’ve never been so confused by a woman. I’ve been playing major hot-cold game with her and jerking her all around as much as I can. Honestly, I think she enjoys it and she knows what I’m doing, which is interesting and refreshing. What I can’t decide is if it’s at all worth my time to put any more effort into this. I simply cannot read her intentions. Maybe she’s just crazy and it’s all fruitless.
Any thoughts?
