Wingmen bad with girls

[andrewzx]

Hey GC community, I have a close friend who i will be going on vacation with and plan on picking up girls. My friend however is not the most socially adept person in general, and worse when it comes to women. I want my friend to have a good time, and start getting comfortable with women. I also want to have fun and figured a vacation would be a great opportunity for the both of us.

Put simply, my wing-man is inexperienced; how do I make sure he enjoys himself and doesn't come away feeling negative about his success (or lack there of) with women on this vacation, all while not bringing myself down (probably going to have to find a balance between these two goals). Haha, well thanks for any input as always! Looking forward to the responses

,Andew

 

[Zoro]

Well you can start out by realizing even failures are valuable as lessons. When you fail flesh out why you failed and what you could have done different. Frame the vacation as a learning experience for the both of you and do your best. You may take home some cuties, you may fall on your face, but when you learn from your mistakes... that's a fulfilling experience to have.

And about your wingman, if he's willing to work on his fundamentals, take some advice on social arts and has the balls to make some moves, I'd say he may be a potential good wing and you could help him out.

But if he's resistant to it or just clueless or unable/unwilling to better himself then I wouldn't spend too much energy on helping him. Better off solo while he watches and show him by example, maybe inspire him.

My wing always asks his girls if they have cute friends and then hits me up for a double date and then we isolate our girls. Talk about a good wing, if he's generous like that he's a keeper but as you can see even on a double date we "go solo" even though we are all hanging out together.

 

[Mr. oblivious]

Depending on how it is with him why not go pre vacation shopping or something get him fundamentally set up right

Even discuss some of the GC content with him (me and my friends usually had "guy" talks where we discuss women etc.)


Open groups of two and kinda do the initial ground work for him


He will gain lots of experience just watching you and if you are successful and he is not you could always mention the website and get him looking at the content

is he socially awkward when wasted (drunk)?