Wingmen/Where are you located?

[D3.]

Even though this forum doesn't have a huge amount of members right now, there might still be a small chance that a member lives in your area, which could lead to a potential wingman. I think it would be interesting to have like-minded people around, and learn from each other and all that, you know what I'm talking about. And hopefully there'll be a lot more people joining in the future, making it more likely that you find a good wingman in this forum.

With that said, and if you're willing to, post the name of the city youre in and when youre available, etc.
Im in Germany right now, any people in Munich?

If nobody lives around (and this is more of a general question), where do good wingmen come from? Do you just ask someone to be your wingman? Or do they have to be your friend because you already understand each other? I realize that there should be a good relationship between 2 guys, but maybe sometimes you dont know anybody who is "enlightened" in this matter.

 

[douchecookie]

Hey Im in wichita!
So you are probably nowhere near me . But you should just go out alone and don't look for wingmen when you are out socializing. Plus when you are out by yourself you can do whatever you want without having to ask people if theyr fine with leaving the bar to go to another one. Annnnd it will force you to talk to people and gain social momentum/experience because if you arent talking to people you are just sitting there bored. Finally when a girl does ask if you went out alone you just say yes and act like its not a big deal and continue on with the conversation... it gets em pretty good

Good luck bud!

 

[douchecookie]

Oh yeah and I forgot to say that when you approach women by yourself... its seen as rather ballsy and it shows that you have a lot of confidence in yourself that is assuming that you are not "drunk". Just have 1 or 2 beers when you do this and a lot of them will notice that you are sober which is a positive!

 

[D3.]

Well seing as I havent done that much approaching myself, I feel its kinda nervewrecking to go out alone, and its also mentioned around the articles that Chase or Ricardus only started going out alone a bit later, if im not mistaken. And also with a wingman I probably wouldnt have that much anxiety or anything, would make things a lot easier

 

[Eric]

South Bay, Cali here.

Been a caveman lately though, and cooped up.

 

[AFCnoob]

Errr, Shanghai.... I just lost my standby wingman, [Red-1], for the next month or so (or longer). I have other stand-ins but I guess you guys are pretty much out of the question. I would kill for a wingman who was either very socially savvy, or just as into PU as I am (or both, ideally). Very often I feel like my wingmen just aren't as "committed" as I am, hehe.

 

[Silluger]

Very often I feel like my wingmen just aren't as "committed" as I am, hehe.

Wow you just read my mind right there. It's so hard to find like-minded people who are committed into PUA as well. I've been trying to go out solo but it's a really nerve wracking process. I'm near Toronto btw

 

[Light]

Errr, Shanghai.... I just lost my standby wingman, [Red-1], for the next month or so (or longer). I have other stand-ins but I guess you guys are pretty much out of the question. I would kill for a wingman who was either very socially savvy, or just as into PU as I am (or both, ideally). Very often I feel like my wingmen just aren't as "committed" as I am, hehe.

I'd love to visit Shanghai one day... if you take me around I'll wing you every night! lol

 

[Anonymous]

South Florida here. I have had similar experiences. My first cold approaches were with experienced guys that were very good with women. I later moved a couple of times and now do approaches on my own. Gotta say doing pickup completely sober can be intimidating but exciting at the same time.(probably the hardest thing to club game in my opinion) Some of my friends are shocked at watching me interact with women while they wouldn't dare approach with anything less than a few shots of liquid courage. The next step would be to find a wingman or woman to take our skills to the next level. Cant wait to hear some more advice and insights.

 

[Thinkingenigma]

I'm near Memphis, TN. I'm not quite old enough to hit the clubs yet, but there's plenty of other places to pull besides Beale St. if you know the area.

 

[Seeberman]

From North Jersey and ALWAYS looking for a good wingman/confident guys to approach/become friends with, PM ME IF YOU LIVE IN JERSEY!!!!!

 

[Landlord]

Errr, Shanghai.... I just lost my standby wingman, [Red-1], for the next month or so (or longer). I have other stand-ins but I guess you guys are pretty much out of the question. I would kill for a wingman who was either very socially savvy, or just as into PU as I am (or both, ideally). Very often I feel like my wingmen just aren't as "committed" as I am, hehe.

You don't need a wingman or game in Shangers...just go to The Apartment and start shooting fish in the barrel.

 

[Landlord]

Saint Louis here

 

[Cam87]

Seattle here.

I'm conflicted about wingmen. One buddy is really good with women, so we usually have a good time, but he can make me look bad at times. Then I have other friends who are a bit lame and have a hard time talking to any women.

When I've gone out with a group of women I tend to have good luck. I can float around between them and then move off to do my own thing. Then move back to them. It's like having a comforting homebase but not to the point where you are just hanging out with them.

 

[thedude]

From North Jersey and ALWAYS looking for a good wingman/confident guys to approach/become friends with, PM ME IF YOU LIVE IN JERSEY!!!!!

Sup dude, I live in North Jersey as well. You know the Garden State Plaza?

 

[Seeberman]

Hell yeah man I go there all the time haha, so many hotties, I have pulled quite a few girls from there, I live about 20min from there, how about yourself?

 

[thedude]

Hell yeah man I go there all the time haha, so many hotties, I have pulled quite a few girls from there, I live about 20min from there, how about yourself?

It takes me around that time to get to GSP as well. I live in a little town called Emerson if you know it.

 

[Whizzy]

I'm from Southern NH/Northern MA if anybody is looking to partner up in that area

 

[D3.]

Im curious to see if anybody is from Amsterdam, so im bumping this thread up again because it could be useful.

Im going to spend one day in Amsterdam waiting for a flight (arrive early in the morning, leave around noon), so I decided to visit the place and if there was someone interested in also having fun with girls, that would be sweeet for me.

And if new people come, they can always say where they're from and so. Who knows, maybe youll find your soulmate here

 

[Furry Wall]

Any guys in Jersey still using this forum ?