After listening to Derrick Jaxn years ago putting men down and uplifting women and giving them advice and tactics I got a question. Will women continue to evolve the play games be the way that they are when it comes to shutting down the Man's advances. There's also women on youtube teaching girls stuff as well like what to get out of a man and celebrities like Steve Harvey's little stupid book Think like a Lady Act Like a Man that teaches women. There is so much empowerment for women and I believe it's turning men gay or willing to fight for the love of women. Since female nature is the way that it is now that I understand it to some degree(it's a mess), will this cycle of having to play games back and forth ever end and we just be happy; having dating & marriage be like it was when it was good and not bad?
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@BlandMan0 dude dating isn't bad now or good then, yes female "empowerment" and the feminist agenda is shit and it's changed societies views and what's deemed acceptable. It's tamed men and and the rise of social media gives girls constant validation that and online dating which gives girls a lot more choice but they're unhappy with the men they meet, it gives guys who can actually approach and interact with girls an advantage when we're out in the field because girls aren't used to being seduced properly...
Women have always had game, from objections, shit tests, testing your principles/beliefs and trying to gain validation and compliance. Seduction has always been a dance.
Some girls might learn game and how to act to get things from men but attraction is attraction, they've always played games, they always will. When they play games unless you know the rules you stop playing. They'll usually come straight back dude
Women have always had game, from objections, shit tests, testing your principles/beliefs and trying to gain validation and compliance. Seduction has always been a dance.
Some girls might learn game and how to act to get things from men but attraction is attraction, they've always played games, they always will. When they play games unless you know the rules you stop playing. They'll usually come straight back dude
I see. Well I've dealt with ones who thought that bossing me around and trying to take me on shopping sprees was their game. I seen past that bullshit. Why does a girl want to submit after they have kids vs when they're single and mingling before that. They not fooling nobody. Only a lame will take care of someone else's responsibilities. Meanwhile 2017 was a big deal breaker for me with one chick. She was the biggest asshole known to mankind for the things she did stated above. I don't fall for smiles and fake shit. These women are fake as ever but I know that's they're way of surviving when there's men who live here as well.
This is only for Beginners to Learn from my Mistakes
If a girl uses a friend who also uses other women to get info out of you that's a red flag.
The chick(the one mentioned earlier) who thought she would do this shows that she has social dominance over a man and thus use it against me. She even mad fun of my small circle of friends even though she has thousands of friends on FB, Instagram, and Twitter. I automatically cut ties with her on all three. Meanwhile she had some girl who drove me to work one day say something in the order of me cutting her off without mentioning my name or hers. It's sneaky and I don't like it but hey that's what women are. Using sex as a weapon also which she lied about me having it with her and her sleeping with another man and other things she lied about. I been through a lot with this girl and she's the reason for her troubles. I remember calling her beautiful back in high school and didn't get a reply back. Close to the end of high school I gave her my number so we could talk and she called me while she was getting fucked by another man and then hung up. I saw the man on FB and she thinks that she's using that sexual experience to shut me down but I moved on. She didn't even won't dude kissing her in one of the pics. That's how I knew girls got game. She thought that she can have her cake and eat it too. Testing me. So I talked to other girls after high school was over with.
Fast forward to 2017 The moment I got attention from girls when I was into Spanish, here come her hating ass speaking in Spanish in 2017 about fuck those girls and other ignorant stuff about me(she was guilty of how she treated me and tried to use the sex as an apology but I like power more than sex when it comes to this one). She told me she's my karma as if she know me which she clearly don't at all. She invited me to her place but didn't tell me where she was at(which was good because I didn't want to go anyways I wanted to learn). I ignored this chick. Meanwhile she went to where I lived and I found her smiling in front of me and my Lyft driver as I was 1 min away from where I stay but she didn't follow me all the way back. I knew she was a tease so I didn't pursue. In the back of my mind I wanted to get even on a social level because I suck at talking with people. A few guys also told me when it comes to her to just move on from her and I been did that but I wanted to learn the game especially hers. I was seeing other chicks at work which she didn't like because I knew she had kids and I don't want to deal with her because she was too easy for me to have just for the sex; I knew she'd give me hell because I don't have the proper game to keep her and maintain her. She wanted to settle down with me and I'm not having that shit.
She has 3 kids so far maybe more but I'm not counting anymore. She's been with 15 guys sexually so she thinks she knows a man and what he does out the back of her head which is not the case.
I want to get socially up now but I heard the older you get the less friends you have. How do I go about getting social proof, find some good friends to be with and build something out of that. Social Game. I also want to experience sex now. These girls have no mercy on man and wonder why they end up alone when they're older.
If a girl uses a friend who also uses other women to get info out of you that's a red flag.
The chick(the one mentioned earlier) who thought she would do this shows that she has social dominance over a man and thus use it against me. She even mad fun of my small circle of friends even though she has thousands of friends on FB, Instagram, and Twitter. I automatically cut ties with her on all three. Meanwhile she had some girl who drove me to work one day say something in the order of me cutting her off without mentioning my name or hers. It's sneaky and I don't like it but hey that's what women are. Using sex as a weapon also which she lied about me having it with her and her sleeping with another man and other things she lied about. I been through a lot with this girl and she's the reason for her troubles. I remember calling her beautiful back in high school and didn't get a reply back. Close to the end of high school I gave her my number so we could talk and she called me while she was getting fucked by another man and then hung up. I saw the man on FB and she thinks that she's using that sexual experience to shut me down but I moved on. She didn't even won't dude kissing her in one of the pics. That's how I knew girls got game. She thought that she can have her cake and eat it too. Testing me. So I talked to other girls after high school was over with.
Fast forward to 2017 The moment I got attention from girls when I was into Spanish, here come her hating ass speaking in Spanish in 2017 about fuck those girls and other ignorant stuff about me(she was guilty of how she treated me and tried to use the sex as an apology but I like power more than sex when it comes to this one). She told me she's my karma as if she know me which she clearly don't at all. She invited me to her place but didn't tell me where she was at(which was good because I didn't want to go anyways I wanted to learn). I ignored this chick. Meanwhile she went to where I lived and I found her smiling in front of me and my Lyft driver as I was 1 min away from where I stay but she didn't follow me all the way back. I knew she was a tease so I didn't pursue. In the back of my mind I wanted to get even on a social level because I suck at talking with people. A few guys also told me when it comes to her to just move on from her and I been did that but I wanted to learn the game especially hers. I was seeing other chicks at work which she didn't like because I knew she had kids and I don't want to deal with her because she was too easy for me to have just for the sex; I knew she'd give me hell because I don't have the proper game to keep her and maintain her. She wanted to settle down with me and I'm not having that shit.
She has 3 kids so far maybe more but I'm not counting anymore. She's been with 15 guys sexually so she thinks she knows a man and what he does out the back of her head which is not the case.
I want to get socially up now but I heard the older you get the less friends you have. How do I go about getting social proof, find some good friends to be with and build something out of that. Social Game. I also want to experience sex now. These girls have no mercy on man and wonder why they end up alone when they're older.
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Women have always had game over men. That's how they get what they want
Trust me it's getting to the point where girls stalk your FB account and other uses of info just to run game. A weird chick thought I had a son but I know they gossip too much. Even when I gave a compliment to another chick before I thought it was lame that years later another chick threw the same compliment at me. I thought that compliment I told the one was lame as hell but I know they talk. Never shut up. How can they cheat if they talk so much and use it as status? Everyone just keeps quiet to get in their good graces and talk behind their back.
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Nahhhh. Dating is and always will be a game of balance.
Women want men, men want women... the only reason we are not fucking each other senseless all day every day is because in dating every one is looking to get the best mate they can possibly get and that forces a point of balance.
Sex is a scarce resource after all (much more for women).
In places where males outnumber females, males have to up their game if they want to get the good females.
In places and times where men have been scarce, women lower their expectations to get the best possible deal out of the limited pool of available males.
At the end there's always a balance.
A subset of women developing their own form of game is just a consequence of their perception that there are getting bad deals... "not enough good men"... "best men always go for looks"...
This is ironically a side consequence of modern feminism.
There are many available men in most first world major cities, sometimes even more than women but they have been educated to be wimpy followers and most women don't want to settle for second best.
And now women have to step up their game to get the good catches.
I agree this makes dating in big cities feel much more frustrating but I don't think this affects your overall chance of ending up with a good girlfriend/wife (or several).
It's just the zeitgeist, I guess... the never ending arms race of status/attractiveness.
Women want men, men want women... the only reason we are not fucking each other senseless all day every day is because in dating every one is looking to get the best mate they can possibly get and that forces a point of balance.
Sex is a scarce resource after all (much more for women).
In places where males outnumber females, males have to up their game if they want to get the good females.
In places and times where men have been scarce, women lower their expectations to get the best possible deal out of the limited pool of available males.
At the end there's always a balance.
A subset of women developing their own form of game is just a consequence of their perception that there are getting bad deals... "not enough good men"... "best men always go for looks"...
This is ironically a side consequence of modern feminism.
There are many available men in most first world major cities, sometimes even more than women but they have been educated to be wimpy followers and most women don't want to settle for second best.
And now women have to step up their game to get the good catches.
I agree this makes dating in big cities feel much more frustrating but I don't think this affects your overall chance of ending up with a good girlfriend/wife (or several).
It's just the zeitgeist, I guess... the never ending arms race of status/attractiveness.
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I don't know about a good wife or girlfriend. Like you said they won't settle for second best; they fake it until they make it and usually take their aggressions on you if you're being too nice. It will hurt you in the long run if you're wimpy or too nice of a person. Since we were raised by single mothers there was little to no teaching about dating and the nature of women. Girls use to hate on one another because they knew each other when it comes to being nice, faking it till you make it, manipulation, and other forms of their game. So as man being conditioned to be a wimpy follower you're conditioned to be nice like a woman because that's who you surround yourself with. Being left out on the experience that these women play and then stepping into this battlefield we call the dating world is going to give life lessons when the solution was to keep a good male figure in the household. This tough love stuff is wrong. Spoiling daughters while being tough on your sons is the dumbest thing ever. It's the blind leading the blind but that's up for another discussion.
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@BlandMan0 , I'm gonna be straight to you because I think it's the best for your development.
Reading your last post, I feel you have some serious negative outlooks on dating.
I don't think you are terrible either but you are showing some beliefs that may be blocking you from feeling confident and moving forward.
I see that you talk a lot about fake it til you make it, girls being manipulative, etc...
This is true, this indeed happens, but it is not a hard rule that every single woman follows... you can find many many girls that are shy, innocent and noble and just looking for a strong man they can rely on.
Women are also insecure and usually the ice cold bitches you find in nightclubs are women who went through some bad experiences and now are putting a barrier.
If you can focus on dating inexperienced, shy, young women, you will find that most of them are quite sweet.
They will not be stunning, though... because they don't dress to impress nor like to call too much attention.
Check this article> https://www.girlschase.com/content/youre-passing-hottest-coolest-girls
And this one> https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-many-partners-has-your-girlfriend-had-find-out-here
And this leads me to another question. Where are you meeting women?
Nightclubs are filled with validation seeking women, online has a big rate of bitter women too... if these are the only places where you meet women, you're going to be heavily biased.
I know ugly, socially dumb guys who have very nice, decent to hot girlfriends they met at church... imagine that!!
Also, and this really concerns me.... you seem to look at dating like a battlefield.
You fight, she fights, the best one gets the prize.
This is a very detrimental way of thinking and even if you get a good girlfriend/FWB, your relationships are going to be strained because your need for competing.
Your whole experience will be much better if you think of dating and relationships as a cooperative game.
Check this article> https://www.girlschase.com/content/do-not-compare-yourself-women
And finally, about being a generation of men raised by women.... while it is true that the western world is becoming more and more feminine, you have to consider this as a big opportunity for the masculine man.
Yes, it's harder to find good role models.
Yes, many men are either tamed or bitter.
But if you manage to become a masculine man, your life will be 10 times better because you will be a scarce resource that is in huge demand.
Besides, if all men were masculine and determined, society would have collapsed already.
How much do you think democracy would last if everyone wants to be boss?
Being a masculine man today is the greatest of opportunities... you get to be the leader and shape your world at your will while dealing with low competition.
Seems like a good deal to me.
Reading your last post, I feel you have some serious negative outlooks on dating.
I don't think you are terrible either but you are showing some beliefs that may be blocking you from feeling confident and moving forward.
I see that you talk a lot about fake it til you make it, girls being manipulative, etc...
This is true, this indeed happens, but it is not a hard rule that every single woman follows... you can find many many girls that are shy, innocent and noble and just looking for a strong man they can rely on.
Women are also insecure and usually the ice cold bitches you find in nightclubs are women who went through some bad experiences and now are putting a barrier.
If you can focus on dating inexperienced, shy, young women, you will find that most of them are quite sweet.
They will not be stunning, though... because they don't dress to impress nor like to call too much attention.
Check this article> https://www.girlschase.com/content/youre-passing-hottest-coolest-girls
And this one> https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-many-partners-has-your-girlfriend-had-find-out-here
And this leads me to another question. Where are you meeting women?
Nightclubs are filled with validation seeking women, online has a big rate of bitter women too... if these are the only places where you meet women, you're going to be heavily biased.
I know ugly, socially dumb guys who have very nice, decent to hot girlfriends they met at church... imagine that!!
Also, and this really concerns me.... you seem to look at dating like a battlefield.
You fight, she fights, the best one gets the prize.
This is a very detrimental way of thinking and even if you get a good girlfriend/FWB, your relationships are going to be strained because your need for competing.
Your whole experience will be much better if you think of dating and relationships as a cooperative game.
Check this article> https://www.girlschase.com/content/do-not-compare-yourself-women
And finally, about being a generation of men raised by women.... while it is true that the western world is becoming more and more feminine, you have to consider this as a big opportunity for the masculine man.
Yes, it's harder to find good role models.
Yes, many men are either tamed or bitter.
But if you manage to become a masculine man, your life will be 10 times better because you will be a scarce resource that is in huge demand.
Besides, if all men were masculine and determined, society would have collapsed already.
How much do you think democracy would last if everyone wants to be boss?
Being a masculine man today is the greatest of opportunities... you get to be the leader and shape your world at your will while dealing with low competition.
Seems like a good deal to me.
@uriel Thanks man. I have to reread the first one again but that second one was on point. I'm not a woman. I may not like the conditions of being raised in a single parent home but it should add character to my development. I used to be mad at the ones pulling the strings in this World but I want to get even and taking it out on women was wrong.
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@BlandMan0 Don't worry, we are all in the same ship.
My father died shortly before I was born and I was raised by my mother in a house full of women.
When I was 24 I went through a big depression and bitterness phase after I realized that I couldn't get a girlfriend despite being "such a great guy".
It took years to deprogram myself so I could understand that men and women are fundamentally different and be comfortable with my own masculinity.
It's a path many of us share.
My father died shortly before I was born and I was raised by my mother in a house full of women.
When I was 24 I went through a big depression and bitterness phase after I realized that I couldn't get a girlfriend despite being "such a great guy".
It took years to deprogram myself so I could understand that men and women are fundamentally different and be comfortable with my own masculinity.
It's a path many of us share.
Same here different raising. I had a stepdad who didn't teach us anything because he didn't know much himself so basically my mama was single and raising us while the stepdad was lazy. Been around women also Aunts and mama. Uncles where never around and a waste (they're my competition unfortunately since one of my uncle showed out that he won't help me out with game and girls; he was subtle with his hating insecure ass). Game hasn't changed with him so now I'm going to have to get it together.
Coming back to this. I thought this was a great post. I'm building my future towards it.