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long story short, met this woman we had had an amazing attraction to each other, great chemistry, great connection, great energy with each other...did not end up sleeping together, heavy makeouts, we were all over each other after about 15 minutes into the date...she had an early morning at 6:30am the next day so I didn't push to take her home/go home with her, although I could tell she was really considering it and even said out loud "I'm really thinking about skipping the meeting but I need to build my client base..." kinda to herself and then she was like "We can get to that on date 2"...note that I was very aggressive with her...I made the move to kiss her within 15 minutes of meeting although I could tell she wanted it as we were sitting very close to one another, knees touching, I was gently and then more forcefully pulling her hair while kissing her, rubbing her up and down, grabbing her ass, etc...I even went to move her hand on my c0ck, which she stopped and laughed and was like "I know what you are trying to do! I'm not doing that in a bar with all these people around!" I just laughed it off, whatever...so just so I am framing this properly in that I was not timid, shy, at all...I expressed confidence and went for what I wanted. At one point she told me "I love how you aren't shy about kissing me in front of all these people" and I told her "I don't give a fvck about them, I'm only interested in you right now" to which she responded by passionately tonguing me down.
Got home, she sent me a thank you text that night thanking me for the drink, meeting and all the hot kisses we shared...I let it ride til the next day, texted her back asking how her "rash" was doing on her face(she had said I was going to give her a rash cause I had some scruff on my face from all the kissing we weer doing), and we chatted for a little bit...she said "I know its early but if you wanted to come out to x event she was having you could be my partner, etc"..told her I was busy that night, and then she offered me to come be her date last night at an event and to meet some friends or that I could wait til next Saturday and have her all to myself. I declined the Saturday invite with friends as I had already made plans, but I told her that would be cool for next week.
Said he was glad we made plans, etc, etc...then she started asking to add me on FB...told her I didn't have FB...then asked about any other social media..instagram, linked in, etc....told her I don't do any of those either...she said she just is trying to get to know me...I'm thinking she is going on a fishing expedition...advised her that she will just have to get to know me the old fashioned way, which is in person and spending time together...she seemed OK with that, but then I noticed the frequency of her texts have declined and her replies have become short. I believe she thinks I am trying to hide something from her and that she is kinda unsure at this point and/or got advice from friends that I'm not trustworthy.
I was planning to let her know plans for this weekend coming up tomorrow, but now I'm thinking I might want to attack this issue head on rather than let it fester...attraction usually amplifies with lack of contact but doubts tend to fester and become worse...I was planning on just calling her up and directly bringing up that I'm getting the vibe that she might be having some uncertainties with things regarding the fact that "I'm trying to hide" things, etc, which I'm not. Basically, the goal is to get things out in the open before setting up a date rather than setting up a date which she will accept more than likely but then likely cancel due to these issues festering.
Looking for advice on the best way to approach this and ensure we meet up again, because once that happens we will be good I think, just need to manage to get to that point...
long story short, met this woman we had had an amazing attraction to each other, great chemistry, great connection, great energy with each other...did not end up sleeping together, heavy makeouts, we were all over each other after about 15 minutes into the date...she had an early morning at 6:30am the next day so I didn't push to take her home/go home with her, although I could tell she was really considering it and even said out loud "I'm really thinking about skipping the meeting but I need to build my client base..." kinda to herself and then she was like "We can get to that on date 2"...note that I was very aggressive with her...I made the move to kiss her within 15 minutes of meeting although I could tell she wanted it as we were sitting very close to one another, knees touching, I was gently and then more forcefully pulling her hair while kissing her, rubbing her up and down, grabbing her ass, etc...I even went to move her hand on my c0ck, which she stopped and laughed and was like "I know what you are trying to do! I'm not doing that in a bar with all these people around!" I just laughed it off, whatever...so just so I am framing this properly in that I was not timid, shy, at all...I expressed confidence and went for what I wanted. At one point she told me "I love how you aren't shy about kissing me in front of all these people" and I told her "I don't give a fvck about them, I'm only interested in you right now" to which she responded by passionately tonguing me down.
Got home, she sent me a thank you text that night thanking me for the drink, meeting and all the hot kisses we shared...I let it ride til the next day, texted her back asking how her "rash" was doing on her face(she had said I was going to give her a rash cause I had some scruff on my face from all the kissing we weer doing), and we chatted for a little bit...she said "I know its early but if you wanted to come out to x event she was having you could be my partner, etc"..told her I was busy that night, and then she offered me to come be her date last night at an event and to meet some friends or that I could wait til next Saturday and have her all to myself. I declined the Saturday invite with friends as I had already made plans, but I told her that would be cool for next week.
Said he was glad we made plans, etc, etc...then she started asking to add me on FB...told her I didn't have FB...then asked about any other social media..instagram, linked in, etc....told her I don't do any of those either...she said she just is trying to get to know me...I'm thinking she is going on a fishing expedition...advised her that she will just have to get to know me the old fashioned way, which is in person and spending time together...she seemed OK with that, but then I noticed the frequency of her texts have declined and her replies have become short. I believe she thinks I am trying to hide something from her and that she is kinda unsure at this point and/or got advice from friends that I'm not trustworthy.
I was planning to let her know plans for this weekend coming up tomorrow, but now I'm thinking I might want to attack this issue head on rather than let it fester...attraction usually amplifies with lack of contact but doubts tend to fester and become worse...I was planning on just calling her up and directly bringing up that I'm getting the vibe that she might be having some uncertainties with things regarding the fact that "I'm trying to hide" things, etc, which I'm not. Basically, the goal is to get things out in the open before setting up a date rather than setting up a date which she will accept more than likely but then likely cancel due to these issues festering.
Looking for advice on the best way to approach this and ensure we meet up again, because once that happens we will be good I think, just need to manage to get to that point...
