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... or almost TOO much.
So I know the real answer to this is "just learn to game them better!"... but I have to ask you guys if it's just me or does anyone else feel the same sometimes?
I find it so much since moving to the city. I'm the the mid-late 20's "Young Professional" category. You meet a lot of women who are obviously educated, work and live in the city and have some things going for them. Sure, these girls are in demand, I get it.
But sometimes you feel there are so many that live in this deluded Sex and the City world they have concocted for themselves. Don't get me wrong, I'm not meaning the sound as bitter as this probably comes across. But I've met so many women who just come across the same way.
- Upon meeting them they'll instantly be telling you what high powered exec's they are. One I met lately, I learned soon after actually had just taken a job at my company, in the same division, basically an assistant to one of the VP's in our department. She basically gets coffee and I've received many an email since sent around the office asking "If ayone lost a pair of sunglasses in the canteen, they're at my desk". Yet, to talk to her initially, I thought she was some high powered exec that I could only WISH to be.
- Professional Daters. They just like the idea of dating. Not for anything, not to meet anyone. Just for... well... I don't know... stories? A night out? They will GLADLY give you their number and tell you what hotspots they like in town, just don't ask twice. Now, if a girl is a drop dead 10, sure... but often they are just 5, 6, 7's maybe will delusions of this lifestyle.
- Obsessed with food, fashion, and being seen as in "it" girl around town. You see it, the facebooks, the instagrams, checking in at every place they go 10 times a day. gain, "Look where I am", "Woo, girls night!", "Ooooh, Oysters..." etc, etc...
I don't even know why I'm asking this. It's just not something I find outside a metropolitan area.
Now obviously, the answer is, well, play them at their own game, be MORE desirable, and ramp your game up to meet their standards. But as I said... if she's a drop dead 10... I get it. You need to compete. But often they are not. They are girls I wouldn't give a second look to but they'll absolutely toy with any friends of mine who dare approach them. Personally, I find them childish and not worth the effort. If a girl is a solid 8, but just believes in her heart of hearts that she is an 11. What's even the point? It's insufferable.
I don't even know what I'm asking here though, it's just an observation. I get a little frustrated when you encounter so many of these when actually trying to meet quality women. But what is it about them that irks me so much?
Strangely, it's like "girl game". By protraying themselves as such high status people, I've seen friend after friend get totally sucked in, chewed up and spat out... while standing back and looking thinking... What does he see in her? She's like a 6, looks, personality and lifestyle.
So I know the real answer to this is "just learn to game them better!"... but I have to ask you guys if it's just me or does anyone else feel the same sometimes?
I find it so much since moving to the city. I'm the the mid-late 20's "Young Professional" category. You meet a lot of women who are obviously educated, work and live in the city and have some things going for them. Sure, these girls are in demand, I get it.
But sometimes you feel there are so many that live in this deluded Sex and the City world they have concocted for themselves. Don't get me wrong, I'm not meaning the sound as bitter as this probably comes across. But I've met so many women who just come across the same way.
- Upon meeting them they'll instantly be telling you what high powered exec's they are. One I met lately, I learned soon after actually had just taken a job at my company, in the same division, basically an assistant to one of the VP's in our department. She basically gets coffee and I've received many an email since sent around the office asking "If ayone lost a pair of sunglasses in the canteen, they're at my desk". Yet, to talk to her initially, I thought she was some high powered exec that I could only WISH to be.
- Professional Daters. They just like the idea of dating. Not for anything, not to meet anyone. Just for... well... I don't know... stories? A night out? They will GLADLY give you their number and tell you what hotspots they like in town, just don't ask twice. Now, if a girl is a drop dead 10, sure... but often they are just 5, 6, 7's maybe will delusions of this lifestyle.
- Obsessed with food, fashion, and being seen as in "it" girl around town. You see it, the facebooks, the instagrams, checking in at every place they go 10 times a day. gain, "Look where I am", "Woo, girls night!", "Ooooh, Oysters..." etc, etc...
I don't even know why I'm asking this. It's just not something I find outside a metropolitan area.
Now obviously, the answer is, well, play them at their own game, be MORE desirable, and ramp your game up to meet their standards. But as I said... if she's a drop dead 10... I get it. You need to compete. But often they are not. They are girls I wouldn't give a second look to but they'll absolutely toy with any friends of mine who dare approach them. Personally, I find them childish and not worth the effort. If a girl is a solid 8, but just believes in her heart of hearts that she is an 11. What's even the point? It's insufferable.
I don't even know what I'm asking here though, it's just an observation. I get a little frustrated when you encounter so many of these when actually trying to meet quality women. But what is it about them that irks me so much?
Strangely, it's like "girl game". By protraying themselves as such high status people, I've seen friend after friend get totally sucked in, chewed up and spat out... while standing back and looking thinking... What does he see in her? She's like a 6, looks, personality and lifestyle.
