Women's day, what are you doing?

[DeepShadow]

How do you use women's day in various cases?

1) Do you use it as an excuse to re-approach women you still have to sleep with or date them with?

2) How do you behave on this day with girls you only have sex with?

3) How do you deal with women you care about?

4) And do you treat this day equally to Valentine's Day and other holidays where women have some expectation of exit, messages etc?

Usually in the first 2 cases I don't go out with anyone and I don't write to anyone and if they tell me something I say that I was too busy. While with the third option I see myself simply but without giving gifts etc. if not something related to the more romantic atmosphere in the bedroom linked to the event, so in addition to more romantic it can be some chocolates or small thoughts.

 

[Troy]

To the 4 questions you asked, I don't think it matters on Women's Day. The day passed and even women themselves were not celebrating it. And I was too busy working on my self development to care. Just ignore Womens Day bro!

National Women's Day is not some romantic day so no don't get chocolates and all that. Especially if you ain't already married her or in some deep long term relationship. That's a good way to immediately come across as a beta male.

 

[ulrich]

With all the political charge it has been getting in the last years, I simply ignore Women’s day.

I awkwardly congratulate the women in my family (making it clear that I don’t even get if you’re supposed to do that) and any other woman I strike a long conversation with that day.

If the subject comes, I try to dismiss it with a “I don’t really like where this is going in the last years”.

And that’s all.

PS - A friend of mine had his workplace organize a free yoga session for the women (I think that’s cute) and an optional “new masculinities” workshop for the men (that creeps me out).

 

[DarkKnight]

I simply ignore Women’s day.

This

 

[Searcher]

Best thing to do on women's day is to celebrate by having sex with women.
Extra time giving the D, since it's women's day

 

[POB]

I simply ignore Women’s day.

No no no, all these bullshit calendar dates are perfect for re-engaging via texting!
Do not dismiss them...they present the perfect excuse to text old leads out of the blue!

I'll let @Skills chime in because he is the king of holiday texting lol

 

[Beck Bass]

No no no, all these bullshit calendar dates are perfect for re-engaging via texting!
Do not dismiss them...they present the perfect excuse to text old leads out of the blue!

This!

I wished the girls on my IG (that I talk to anyway, I made a new IG that is really low profile to talk with girls I intend to have threesomes with my gf) a happy womens day and they thanked me, even started building some rapport out of the blue with some girls I hadn't texted in a while. Any excuse to text girls can lead to some booty, boys, you gotta open your mind to the possibilities

 

[Skjöldr]

when was it? 8th of march right?
literally no idea what i did that day lol

 

[Regal Tiger]

There's a women's day!?

 

[DeepShadow]

No no no, tutte queste cazzate date del calendario sono perfette per impegnarsi di nuovo tramite sms!
Non respingerli... sono la scusa perfetta per inviare messaggi a vecchi contatti di punto in bianco!

Lascerò che @Skills intervenga perché è il re degli sms per le vacanze lol

exact according to me they are pretexts to be used as plausible deniability to hook old girls or even recent ones

 

[DeepShadow]

i read this of @Chase https://www.girlschase.com/content/what-do-your-girlfriend-valentines-day.
Chase and others do you apply these principles to other festives? I mean, do you find that other feasts apply some pressure to girls who need to do something about it? In my opinion, based on the degree of relationship, any party that leaves mental space and reflection and that would make you think of spending the type with some person you hang out with puts some sort of pressure on a girl even if less with Valentine's Day. It certainly varies according to the cultures and the perception of girls in those cultures towards that type of festives.

 

[Skills]

No no no, all these bullshit calendar dates are perfect for re-engaging via texting!
Do not dismiss them...they present the perfect excuse to text old leads out of the blue!

I'll let @Skills chime in because he is the king of holiday texting lol

Yeah but here i am in the i have never field tested, is like "happy martin Luther king" and "happy women day" those are just in the "weird" category for me..... I have never heard of women day till recently... But yeah holidays good to ping, just i have never done "womens' day" that is the weird white night territory so may be seen as try hard...

these are good pings: saint patrick (in usa seems in other parts of the words no the same), halloween, christmas, mothers day, thanksgiving (usa), valentines,new years, 5 de mayo(usa)... (all the other ones are i don't know):

Martin Luther King Jr. Day

Mon, Jan 17, 2022​

Memorial Day

Mon, May 30, 2022​

Independence Day

Mon, Jul 4, 2022​

Labor Day

Mon, Sep 5, 2022​

Veterans Day

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^ veterans day may be ok if she was in the military...

 

[Troy]

Yeah but here i am in the i have never field tested, is like "happy martin Luther king" and "happy women day" those are just in the "weird" category for me..... I have never heard of women day till recently... But yeah holidays good to ping, just i have never done "womens' day" that is the weird white night territory so may be seen as try hard...

these are good pings: saint patrick (in usa seems in other parts of the words no the same), halloween, christmas, mothers day, thanksgiving (usa), valentines,new years, 5 de mayo(usa)... (all the other ones are i don't know):

Martin Luther King Jr. Day

Mon, Jan 17, 2022​

Memorial Day

Mon, May 30, 2022​

Independence Day

Mon, Jul 4, 2022​

Labor Day

Mon, Sep 5, 2022​

Veterans Day

​

​

^ veterans day may be ok if she was in the military...

This is how I would do it. Hey ladies...

Labor Day - "Girl let me work in your pussy tonight. Let me plough you with hard dick"

Independence Day - "2 girls coming over tonight to kiss my balls and relieve them from semen slavery"

Martin Luther King Day - "Ladies I have a dream that you will have raging orgasms tonight....(DRAMATIC EFFECT) I have a dream that you will swallow me tonight. I HAVE A DREAM!!!!!"

HAHAHA

Just kidding

 

[POCCN9lHNH]

Here in Russia it's a national holiday and pretty big deal. Dunno why you guys hating or ignoring it. I enjoy congratulating my mom and babushkas. As for the seduction not the best day. Lots of attention for women and lots of competition. But women dress really nice and go party/hangout with other women so 50/50.

 

[Vision]

In Eastern Europe, it's a completely different thing than it is in the West... in the East, it's like a day where women get flowers... their dad, teacher, boss, whoever is a man in their lives, gives them a flower to celebrate them as a woman.

In the West, it's like a women's equality/rights day or some shit... I get mixed messages. Honestly, I had never really heard of it until I was in Ukraine and saw all these women walking around with flowers and I was like, "wtf is going on... it's not V day... what is this? What is happening right now?"

Turns out it was this exciting day for women, called "Women's day" and they got flowers and were celebrating being beautiful or some shit.

Then I went back out West and saw that nobody really celebrates it and the only people mentioning it were feminists that were angry about flowers and patriarchy or some stupid shit like that.

Not sure how it would come across to women in the west that you were dating, feels a bit try hard to me unless someone knows how to frame this in a non-supplicating way.

 

[POCCN9lHNH]

Hmmm.. haven't knew that. Well... Thanks communism I guess

 

[Alpha13SC]

In Eastern Europe, it's a completely different thing than it is in the West... in the East, it's like a day where women get flowers... their dad, teacher, boss, whoever is a man in their lives, gives them a flower to celebrate them as a woman.

In the West, it's like a women's equality/rights day or some shit... I get mixed messages. Honestly, I had never really heard of it until I was in Ukraine and saw all these women walking around with flowers and I was like, "wtf is going on... it's not V day... what is this? What is happening right now?"

Turns out it was this exciting day for women, called "Women's day" and they got flowers and were celebrating being beautiful or some shit.

Then I went back out West and saw that nobody really celebrates it and the only people mentioning it were feminists that were angry about flowers and patriarchy or some stupid shit like that.

Not sure how it would come across to women in the west that you were dating, feels a bit try hard to me unless someone knows how to frame this in a non-supplicating way.

Indeed, that s how it is in Eastern Europe.

Even more, on 1st of March, females are receiving this little trinkets, with a "have a wonderful spring" and 8 March is women's day with flowers and so on. It s cultural thing.

It s actually a bit of surprise you guys in the West don t have this(didn t know).

In my region, boys are receiving too this little trinkets on 1st, and girls on 8. When I moved out of my city and saw I don t receive any I was like wtf.

On topic: just using this day to make her feel special, along with a good sex.

 

[Skills]

In Eastern Europe, it's a completely different thing than it is in the West... in the East, it's like a day where women get flowers... their dad, teacher, boss, whoever is a man in their lives, gives them a flower to celebrate them as a woman.

In the West, it's like a women's equality/rights day or some shit... I get mixed messages. Honestly, I had never really heard of it until I was in Ukraine and saw all these women walking around with flowers and I was like, "wtf is going on... it's not V day... what is this? What is happening right now?"

Turns out it was this exciting day for women, called "Women's day" and they got flowers and were celebrating being beautiful or some shit.

Then I went back out West and saw that nobody really celebrates it and the only people mentioning it were feminists that were angry about flowers and patriarchy or some stupid shit like that.

Not sure how it would come across to women in the west that you were dating, feels a bit try hard to me unless someone knows how to frame this in a non-supplicating way.

wowow great observation, had no idea of this ^ ( i actually thought op was kind of trolling, cultural differences)

 

[POB]

I though of a way to handle it...

Straight ask her about it:
"Hey, just heard today it's Women's day, congratulations!...how exactly do you guys celebrate it?"
Yeah, we do, blah blah blah.
"Cool! Do you think I should try and do something cool for a special girl in this occasion?"
(now you start to sarge and play with her...if she is receptive, straight segway to soft close)

 

[Chase]

As @Vision notes, celebration of this one is highly dependent on where in the world you live.

I just learned about Women's Day for the first time this year, on Women's Day, from a woman, who was just telling me about it. At first I thought she was making it up. I asked her, "Is there something you are supposed to DO on this holiday?" and her answer was "No."

Anyway, now that I know about it, and also know there is nothing you are supposed to do on it and that it simply exists, I have safely tucked it away into my bag of holidays I have heard about but do not know what day of the year they fall on and do not otherwise care about, like President's Day, Columbus Day, Earth Day, etc.

Just waiting for them to come up with a "Man's Day", where men are allotted some sort of special treatment... blow jobs from girls at the office maybe? Just spitballing here...