Work girl throwing IOIs but confusing and now eyeing other guys

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Ok. It's not really that confusing, she may or may not like either of you or both of you. It doesn't matter. She may have decided she likes the other guy more, or more likely she likes you more but your less attainable (or giving mixed signals). As you say she's confusing you, so that means instead or presenting a rock solid frame your presenting a frame of "Indecisive". Make the decision and maintain your frame/composure.

What matters is your interest in her, if she isn't interested in you keep escalating and getting compliance until she either States it outright or gives you clear signs she's not interested.

Or if as you say, she isn't worth the hassle then "be a man" and let it go, just enjoy her company if you can do that or just back way off.

You are right.

 

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Dude, are you single?

If so, why aren't you meeting other girls? College girls even? Your age doesn't matter.

This seems like a huge waste of energy. ioi's are not compliance. Compliance is the name of the game.

She never complied, you never asked for any, and you have NO IDEA what she really thought about you.

All you know, she flirted with you a bit and only appreared to flirt with one other guy at the office. That shit means nothing. Especially for a college girl. Maybe she would've maybe not.

just, you know if she's flirting with you, you can meet more girls like her if you wanted to and just, if you want to, which you seem like you do, why aren't you?

Radeng

True. I never asked for compliance in the form of getting her number and trying to meet up. I guess that is the cause of my confusion, i.e., I don't know what she really thought cause I never pushed to see. However, she did seem to comply with some other things, but then again, that doesn't really matter - those are only indications that she may comply if I pushed further. All I know is that she indicated a bit of leser compliance, qualified herself to me a few times, and responded to "kino", but that is where I stopped short.

I have had some other reasons not wanting to discuss why I haven't been meeting other girls - health related over the last 5 years or so.

But I see our point, thanks for the response.