Hey guys,
I just have an update on my situation, I am finding myself leaving the beginners circle, and am developing solid game and ability to attract women. Needless to say, it has come with a lot of pain and a lot of work.
I have been reading this site for about 6 months, and it has changed my outlook on getting women drastically. I didn't start getting lays over night, there is no real on/off switch in this game.
I have been approaching women on a fairly regular basis. I have done about 10 approaches a week on average for the last two months or so. Before then, I had crippling approach anxiety, and could barely talk to a girl.
Within the last two months, I have had sex with 4 women, and they are all very attractive. One, my friends regarded, as "the most attractive girl in the club." I still have a lot to learn though, but I am making a lot of progress very quickly. Needless to say, I am thrilled with the progress I have made.
The point I wanted to get across to all the newbies, is that you are going to go through a lot of pain, and that those who put in the work will succeed. I have found it best to take it one step at a time.
It wasn't until I got organized until I started improving my skill set.
I worked on the fundamentals a lot- posture, clothing, walking, speaking, etc.
I then worked on approaching women, getting over my approach anxiety.
I then tried to improve my ability to build sexual tension and attraction, through negative compliments.
I learned how to build rapport, and time bridge.
And lastly, I learned how to close.
My point is that, I wasted a lot of time in my early stages by focusing on levels I wasn't at yet. I was at level 1, and I would be spending a lot of energy thinking about level 10. If you learn it one step at a time, you will be able to record your progress, and focus on the task at hand.
I just have an update on my situation, I am finding myself leaving the beginners circle, and am developing solid game and ability to attract women. Needless to say, it has come with a lot of pain and a lot of work.
I have been reading this site for about 6 months, and it has changed my outlook on getting women drastically. I didn't start getting lays over night, there is no real on/off switch in this game.
I have been approaching women on a fairly regular basis. I have done about 10 approaches a week on average for the last two months or so. Before then, I had crippling approach anxiety, and could barely talk to a girl.
Within the last two months, I have had sex with 4 women, and they are all very attractive. One, my friends regarded, as "the most attractive girl in the club." I still have a lot to learn though, but I am making a lot of progress very quickly. Needless to say, I am thrilled with the progress I have made.
The point I wanted to get across to all the newbies, is that you are going to go through a lot of pain, and that those who put in the work will succeed. I have found it best to take it one step at a time.
It wasn't until I got organized until I started improving my skill set.
I worked on the fundamentals a lot- posture, clothing, walking, speaking, etc.
I then worked on approaching women, getting over my approach anxiety.
I then tried to improve my ability to build sexual tension and attraction, through negative compliments.
I learned how to build rapport, and time bridge.
And lastly, I learned how to close.
My point is that, I wasted a lot of time in my early stages by focusing on levels I wasn't at yet. I was at level 1, and I would be spending a lot of energy thinking about level 10. If you learn it one step at a time, you will be able to record your progress, and focus on the task at hand.
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