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Whizzy

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There is this model that I've been seeing recently and last night I found out in two weeks she is going to Holland (europe) for six months. I'm having trouble deciding if it's worth continuing to talk/see her and we can pick things up when she gets back since we're both normally crazy busy anyways. I'm also not entirely sure how to ask her what she thinks on it since I may not have a chance to see her before she goes and I'm huge on doing things in person, but that doesn't seem like an option. Right now it's looking like i'll keep improving myself either way but any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!
 

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Proceed as usual, challenge youself to score before she leaves. What have you got to lose apart from her?
 

Whizzy

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Nothing to lose and everything to gain :)
 

Light

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You should do whatever you can, providing that you obey the Law of Least Investment.

Push for some results before she leaves, but don't come accross pushy, aggressive or needy. Stay cool.

Once she is gone, let her go, and send her a "how you're doing text " every now and then. Don't go chasing after her.
 

Whizzy

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She appreciates the fact that I'm not shoving anything down her throat like a lot of guys are apparently.


Light,
Once she is gone, let her go, and send her a "how you're doing text " every now and then. Don't go chasing after her.

Is this even worth the time of doing? I will more than likely forget to send her anything until she is back, and even then only if I hear from her first as we're both busy.
 

Light

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Whizzy said:
She appreciates the fact that I'm not shoving anything down her throat like a lot of guys are apparently.


Light,
Once she is gone, let her go, and send her a "how you're doing text " every now and then. Don't go chasing after her.

Is this even worth the time of doing?

You really don't have 10 secs to spare? You must be a really busy guy!

Is it worth it? That all depends whether you think it is or not.

But in my case, if I do think of her, it doesn't hurt to whip out my phone and send her a quick text just to let her know that I still remember her. Girls appreciate that. But if you really don't have 10 secs to spare within 3 months then my god you must be really busy ;)
 

Whizzy

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Hey Light,

You really don't have 10 secs to spare? You must be a really busy guy!
Is it worth it? That all depends whether you think it is or not.
But in my case, if I do think of her, it doesn't hurt to whip out my phone and send her a quick text just to let her know that I still remember her. Girls appreciate that. But if you really don't have 10 secs to spare within 3 months then my god you must be really busy ;)

It's not that I do not have 10 seconds to spare, since I'm seeing a few other girls and talking to even more constantly I may just forget to...after all six months is a decent amount of time to keep a girl I met once in my head! However apparently her cell phone is getting turned off for the trip so I would have to communicate with her through facebook, which may cause unneeded drama should my relationship status change for even a day?
 

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haha, thats cool. yea, I know what you mean. I wouldn't bother going through the hassle of messaging her on Facebook either unless she message me first.

I'm sure you're going to be pretty busy with other girls just as I am ;)
 

Whizzy

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As a whole I try to keep facebook separate from all the girls I'm talking to at a given time, that being said think it's even worth adding her on there to give her the option of messaging me?
 
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Light

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Whizzy said:
As a whole I try to keep facebook separate from all the girls I'm talking to at a given time, that being said think it's even worth adding her on there to give her the option of messaging me?

Yes
 

Whizzy

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She wanted me to add her on skype to talk when she is away, and she admitted she wanted to creep on my facebook page when she is gone to keep up with me. Sounds like things are looking good. I am hoping to have her leave strong and meet back up whens he comes back even stronger
 
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