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As you probably figured out, i'm not very confident in myself, but i'm also impatient to get some results. I'm naturally a very shy and quiet person, and i still blush when i talk to a girl i really like, and look down a lot. I sometimes can't help this, but i want to become a handsome, assertive and confident man who doesn't need to do this. I hope to be like the guys in the movies who take the girls hand and kiss them romantically when he sees her 
-but unexpectedly, like how Chase recommends.
Anyway, ever since i moved to the city, i met a lot of really great and helpful guys at university who help me improve my posture, confidence and behaviour around women. They tell me that looks don't matter so much but confidence and presentation is very important. They tell me lots of stories about their time in clubs and bars and stuff. It sounds like a great place to meet women, who are interested too! But i'm really nervous about this.
For a start, this will be a totally new experience for me. I imagine clubs and bars are like what i see in movies. Really loud, dark and seedy places. I'm not sure it's something i can get used to, but if i have my friends with me, i think i'll be fine.
1. If you go to bars and clubs, do you recommend it?
2. From what i've assumed, i thought only 'bad girls' went to those kind of places. I don't to do anything too intimate with those kind of girls, i don't want to catch a disease. Is it mainly those kind of girls who go to bars and clubs, or are there normal girls too?
3. How late do you have to stay out? If i'm home any later than 10pm, my parents will go insane. But i can't do anything about that because i live in their house and i can't move out because of crazy rental prices.
Thank you for your help
(Maybe i should just stick to daygame?)
-but unexpectedly, like how Chase recommends.Anyway, ever since i moved to the city, i met a lot of really great and helpful guys at university who help me improve my posture, confidence and behaviour around women. They tell me that looks don't matter so much but confidence and presentation is very important. They tell me lots of stories about their time in clubs and bars and stuff. It sounds like a great place to meet women, who are interested too! But i'm really nervous about this.
For a start, this will be a totally new experience for me. I imagine clubs and bars are like what i see in movies. Really loud, dark and seedy places. I'm not sure it's something i can get used to, but if i have my friends with me, i think i'll be fine.
1. If you go to bars and clubs, do you recommend it?
2. From what i've assumed, i thought only 'bad girls' went to those kind of places. I don't to do anything too intimate with those kind of girls, i don't want to catch a disease. Is it mainly those kind of girls who go to bars and clubs, or are there normal girls too?
3. How late do you have to stay out? If i'm home any later than 10pm, my parents will go insane. But i can't do anything about that because i live in their house and i can't move out because of crazy rental prices.
Thank you for your help
(Maybe i should just stick to daygame?)
