Date Plans Would it be useful to use the 2 date model here?

[Fluxcapacitor]

I was out over the weekend in a night club, and I pulled this girl. It was going really well up until she told me she couldn’t take me home that night. I was unsure whether this was resistance, a test or a logistics reason. I stayed unfazed and she went on to explain that it’s that time of the month. Which actually seems genuine because she took my number, we attempted to schedule a date (this is mostly my question – to follow) and she’s been texting over the weekend (and Monday + Tuesday since writing this) showing a lot of interest.

When we “attempted” to schedule a date I asked when she was free, and she had a lot of availability. Trying to avoid new year’s eve/day and to get it within a week Monday night seemed perfect. She accepted it but quickly said that it would still be that time of the month which made me question it. I’m not after a relationship so this didn’t seem like a good idea. We looked for another day a bit later on but due to our schedules it would have been in about 10 days’ time. From experience if I don’t see someone within a week it usually never happens.

Now I’m wondering if am best to see her again within the week and use the black dragon 2 date model or to remain cool and just see her later when I’ll be able to fully escalate. I’m thinking I could easily fuck up over text the longer we leave it and maybe it’s better to go the 2 date route, but this could give of the impression that I’m interested in a relationship with this girl if I’ll willingly meet her when I can’t escalate. Any thoughts?

(She's been trying to suck me into conversation and I could easily over tease/over game while waiting. I dunno whether to get her out in between so we can actually interact or to just keep pinging back the occasional text)

 

[Fuck This]

I've had limited experience with rendezvous postponed on the basis of the Red Tide. A week should do it unless she has an ungodly heavy period.

Let her know you have limited time to talk over text. Like 15 minutes a night. Plan a dinner date at your place. Use your texts to find out what she likes to eat...tell her she is gonna have to help...Alternately make the date at her place. Either way you need to be in the building where there is a bed to do the deed. Her place might be more comfortable for her to deal with her "personal" stuff. Bring dinner ingredients or alcohol. Talk on text about those logistics and preload a time constraint.... Let her make innuendos, play along. Avoid boring and pointless topics.

 

[Skills]

She is basically telling you Yes to sex, don't do 2 date model do the 3 bounce method

 

[Fluxcapacitor]

@Fuck This dude! My only experience of it being postponed a have been able to finish what I started within 4 days. This one is looking like 10 days
Met Fri, suggested Mon (still bad time) - wanted to avoid Tuesday/Wednesday (new years) - she's at a family party sat (I used this in the seduction: "I'm going to my cousins 21st on Saturday" "whoah moving a little fast aren't we? I've just met you an ya already inviting me to a family party?" she loved it :') ) so that's like next mon. Texts from me are very limited bout 3 times a day, all been fun/teasing/logistic based.

My experience of not meeting a girl within a week from meeting her significantly reduces the odds that I ever will again which is why I thought the 2 date model might have helped.

@Skills dude! Thanks for the reply. I technically used the 3 bounce method the Friday a met her. We live less than 5 mins between each other and the local area isn't great for the 3 bounce method. There's 3 pubs an fuck all else an there all about a suitable date location. 2 pubs then bounce to her place might work?? might be overkill. If a can go straight round I have already done the bounces to create the connection.

My issue is not fucking up in the 10 days (next 4-5 days) over text. Just cause she's said yes to sex doesn't mean she won't change her mind if a fuck up. She seems very hooked in her texts which is good!

Thanks dudes!!

 

[Skills]

Meet her at the pub, so it doesn't trigger asd. Then bounce to yours or hers do not worry about fucking up in text, but 10 days is an eternity if you have not bang

 

[Fluxcapacitor]

Thanks @Skills dude! Yeah your telling me! I'm 5 days in an it feels like 5 years :') which is why I'm worrying about fucking up over text :')