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Hi
So there is this girl who I started seeing late last year that I'm still interested in but not sure how to progress things. When I say I was seeing her it was about once a week for about 2 months. We kind of just hung out, watched movies at her place or went on very casual dates. I have slept with her about three times but not had sex with her yet. All we have really done is hook up(kiss). I have tried to get more sexual with her but it never quite works out. I even confronted her about why she does not want to advance things in the bedroom(which i kind of regret being so blunt) and she sort of just replied I don't want to "add to my numbers" and then she said shes not looking for a relationship. This left me a bit confused at what to do next and we kind of just continued doing the same stuff for a while. Then the new year/holiday season came up and i get a text from her saying she needs some "space for a while" and that shes too busy with work, family and other commitments to see me. So I don't see her for over a month and don't even text her(just the odd snapchat).So try arranging to meet up again and about two weeks ago we go on a very causal date/catchup. At the end i tell her I'm gonna take her to a movie next week. But it never happnens. She ignores a text to try set up a date then i get one later saying shes wants space again.
So now it's two days a way from valentine's day(which is a silly day). but im wondering if you guys think it's an opportunity to try and 'rekindle' things with this girl?( is sending flowers stupid?)
Or even just some advice on how to approach this situation would be appreciated.
Cheers.
So there is this girl who I started seeing late last year that I'm still interested in but not sure how to progress things. When I say I was seeing her it was about once a week for about 2 months. We kind of just hung out, watched movies at her place or went on very casual dates. I have slept with her about three times but not had sex with her yet. All we have really done is hook up(kiss). I have tried to get more sexual with her but it never quite works out. I even confronted her about why she does not want to advance things in the bedroom(which i kind of regret being so blunt) and she sort of just replied I don't want to "add to my numbers" and then she said shes not looking for a relationship. This left me a bit confused at what to do next and we kind of just continued doing the same stuff for a while. Then the new year/holiday season came up and i get a text from her saying she needs some "space for a while" and that shes too busy with work, family and other commitments to see me. So I don't see her for over a month and don't even text her(just the odd snapchat).So try arranging to meet up again and about two weeks ago we go on a very causal date/catchup. At the end i tell her I'm gonna take her to a movie next week. But it never happnens. She ignores a text to try set up a date then i get one later saying shes wants space again.
So now it's two days a way from valentine's day(which is a silly day). but im wondering if you guys think it's an opportunity to try and 'rekindle' things with this girl?( is sending flowers stupid?)
Or even just some advice on how to approach this situation would be appreciated.
Cheers.
