Would you be putty in this girls hands? Answer honestly

[Virgin101]

I don't know about you, but this girl could fuck with me so easily. You see it isn't often that you come across a girl like this, and with regular girls (that are bangable), it is easier to act cool and also have it come off as believable.

If a regular girl shit tests you, and lets say asks you to hold her bag or something, you can just say "I'm not here to hold your bag for you" or the like. But if this girl asked me to hold her bag, of course I'd know not to say yes. But I couldn't picture myself saying 'no' and not sounding like I'm doing so in a defiant manner. And even if I could, I would just feel as if she knows I'm trying to prove a point. It's like as if no man can pretend that she's not pretty. No man can act as if they've some place better to be, if it is that they get a high every time she speaks to you in that soft voice. You know she's fucking with you, but you don't know how to act.

So I don't know if it would be wise to act as cool as I usually might around a girl this hot. If I did, my demeanor could come across as really incongruent. If I tried to ignore her presence, who would I really be fooling?

Now watch how this girls fucks with the chode in the movie. In the case of the first video below, at 0:35, my response would be to shout her friend's name and just repeat the same question.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hQ4CVe6ood8

As for the "will you walk me home?" question she gave later in the movie; if I hadn't been acting my best and a girl asked me that, I would not let her fuck around with me by wasting my time walking her home just in case there's a 1% chance she'd sleep with me.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tCTOJM0AZ8M

However, don't waste your time with the movie guys!

 

[ThePhoenix]

Putty in her hands? Nope.

I mean, she's certainly not ugly. Permanently stranded on a deserted island alone with her, I'd probably give in and have some fun with her. But she's really not my type. I've probably walked by any number of her without a second look. I'd guess a good 50% or 60% of girls her age from the Dinka or Nuer tribes I'd smash way before her.

Well, I know that's probably not the answer you were looking for, and I'm probably a few standard deviations off the average guy, but I thought it's useful to point out that there is literally no woman on this Earth who is beyond the resistance of any man on Earth.

Ironically, I'd probably be able to do much better with her than the average guy, because if she gave me a shit test, I could look at her in a "what, do you think you're God's gift to mankind" frame, and actually mean it!!

Now, this girl I'd have to watch myself around! She is so fucking beautiful, God help me. Well, her type isn't worshipped by 99.99% of the planet, so maybe the risk wouldn't be quite as bad, but I'd certainly have to watch myself, still.

It's a good question, though, whether you'd be at risk of coming across as incongruent or defiant.

I have to think it boils down to experience. It's not like any given woman is the only one that pretty. There are how many women on this planet? 3.8 billion. She's not the only damn one. The more you interact with extremely pretty girls, the easier it gets, I would think. Sure, you'll bend like a reed in the wind the first number of times, but each time, you or I would have some conscious awareness after the fact of what she did and why our reaction was wrong. Over time, we'd come to anticipate her shit, and when it's nothing new to us, we'll no longer be incongruent. i.e., the learning process is the same at each level in the food chain. Well, that's what I would expect, anyway.


I had to stop your second clip after 1:19. I'm like, no. Please. No. Please tell me he's not going t... Jeesh.

But some really good examples of shit tests. Food for thought!

 

[foggy]

read this:

I am the PRIZE. she is trying to get me to like her or trying to win me over whether it be in the sense of attraction, acceptance or validation. she wants me so bad that she is trying to make me sleep with her. The both of us are going to sleep together, but only if she lives up to my standards and expectations.

now read your post again from the viewpoint of this mindset. does it sound different?

 

[ThePhoenix]

Just thought I'd add a couple ideas about dealing with that kind of shit test. Well, this is more hypothetical, since most of the shit tests I've actually encountered so far have been more subtle.


You don't want to go with just a flat out refusal, such as, "I'm not here to hold your bag," because you feel you can't do this congruently and feel you will come across like a defying child? All is not lost!

Best idea:

When she tells you what to do, direct her to some alternative solution that doesn't involve effort from you. So,

"Hold my bag."

"Just put it on the bench." As you're pointing to the bench.

I think this is a much better approach because (i) it need not come across as defiant, and (ii) you are leading her. I can see doing this to a girl regardless of how beautiful and being congruent.

Alternative idea:

This one is probably not as good, but maybe the above is not convenient in the situation.

Just look at her and say, "You want me to hold your bag." Rhetorically, in a playful mocking way like she is being a silly little girl. Then change the subject.

The frame here is, you're above having to defy her. You're laughing at her cute little games because you're above it completely.


btw, love this:

In the case of the first video below, at 0:35, my response would be to shout her friend's name and just repeat the same question.

 

[Virgin101]

read this:

I am the PRIZE. she is trying to get me to like her or trying to win me over whether it be in the sense of attraction, acceptance or validation. she wants me so bad that she is trying to make me sleep with her. The both of us are going to sleep together, but only if she lives up to my standards and expectations.

now read your post again from the viewpoint of this mindset. does it sound different?

I think that mindset only works if the girl is a small bit out of your reach. Otherwise, it's easier said than done to just be able to trick your own mind.

 

[foggy]

read this:

I am the PRIZE. she is trying to get me to like her or trying to win me over whether it be in the sense of attraction, acceptance or validation. she wants me so bad that she is trying to make me sleep with her. The both of us are going to sleep together, but only if she lives up to my standards and expectations.

now read your post again from the viewpoint of this mindset. does it sound different?

I think that mindset only works if the girl is a small bit out of your reach. Otherwise, it's easier said than done to just be able to trick your own mind.

Watchu mean? every girl is within your reach from within that mindset. And you're right. It is easier said than done to trick ur mind into truly believing that. That's why you fake it till you make it! If you truly internalize this mindset, your ways with women will change for the better. take it on a test drive for 21 days

 

[Richard]

Men are NEVER putty in a girls hands, homie.

Weak women submit to weak men and strong men.
Weak men submit to stronger women but not weak women.
Strong women submit ONLY to strong men.
Strong men submit to nobody.

So, if you're putty in a girls hands it's because you see her as being more valuable than you.