Would you rather have an unattractive gf or no gf?

[Slick]

Interesting in seeing what you guys think.

Advantages of unattractive gf
-sex/companionship
-social status of having a gf
-might do things for you like cook and may be well behaved

Advantages of having no gf
-freedom to pursue hotter girls
-don’t have to deal with bad sex
-won’t have to be seen in public with someone you aren’t attracted to

 

[Velasco]

attractive fb

best of both worlds

 

[Lofty]

The advantages listed for unattractive girlfriends are not necessarily exclusive to that group. Really, they are just traits that girls might provide regardless of relationship status, obviously withholding the public recognition of having a girlfriend. Though, being known to be skilled with girls oftentimes will carry more prestige than having a girlfriend anyway - if that is even chosen to be communicated to a social group at all.

If relationships must have a name attached to them, communicating an open relationship would include many of the positives that you seem to be referencing.

Also, being attracted to someone and satisfied with the sex that they provide are pivotal to any sexual experience - long-term or not. If either person cannot meet these expectations, then it is likely best for both parties to look elsewhere.

 

[Troy]

This post reminds me, just this month actually, my best friend, who is a female she wanted to introduce me to her coworker who is single.

I am currently single and I inquired more about this girl. My best friend let me know right away that her coworker has a sweet personality and is fat. The conversation went something like this via Whatsapp message:

Best friend: Hey Troy, do you like fat chicks?
Me: I like all girls, why?
Best friend: I have a coworker who wants a boyfriend, she is fat and has a sweet personality
Me: Has she seen me before?
Best friend: she has not, send me a nice pic of you and I will show her
Me: sure I will send it tomorrow

(fast forward to the next day)

Me: hey Shad (best friend), I thought about it, I think your friend is amazing, and I want the best for your friend. I want her to be happy. For the past 4 months I have been on intermedient fasting so I only have 1 meal a day and as you know Shad, I work out 2 times a day for at least 2 hours. I will pass, I hope your friend finds a man that rocks he world".

My best friend was very understanding. I know I did send the text message sounding a lot nicer than what I typed above because I want to be very respectful.

Now here is a very interesting part, when I spoke with her again on recently, due to a Whatsapp post, I found out that fat girl my coworker wanted me to date likes to suck dick.

Even that did not turn me on at all. I don't want no fat chick giving me no blowjob. Are my standards too high? I dont know. So yeah I would prefer to stay single and look for higher caliber girls than settle for some fat, unattractive girl.

If I dont feel proud walking with a girl in public, I dont even want sex from her. Period

 

[FunGuy]

I can't be in a relationship with someone im not attracted to.

 

[Protean]

Who cares?

The point of honing your seduction skills is so you don't get stuck having to make a choice like this. Take questions like that to Reddit

Protean

 

[jonjames]

I wouldn’t make a girl a girlfriend unless she is one of the hottest girls I’m capable of getting. If a girl isn’t really hot (to me) I’m not getting involved.

If you are only fucking fives and then a six likes you that would make sense. But if you can regularly fuck new fives you don’t want to wife one up. If you’re regularly fucking 7-8s then you’re not going to want to be in a committed relationship unless the girl is a nine.

I am probably in the minority here. I like having girlfriends. 4-6 months then move on to another. I don’t look to cheat but will under certain circumstances. And When I’m single I’ll be fucking everybody 6 and up but won’t get serious with a girl who isn’t at least an 8.

 

[Troy]

@jonjames

It's month 5 and 29 days counting, do you just break up with a girl once it gets to 6 months maximum? Have you ever found a girl you just fell in love with and broke the rule because she was so special?

Your comment is very unique. I never heard a guy say before he ends relationships once a certain time frame passes. It sounds like you have not found your "perfect 10" (there is really no such girl but you get the point) that makes you really want to stay.

 

[jonjames]

@jonjames

It's month 5 and 29 days counting, do you just break up with a girl once it gets to 6 months maximum? Have you ever found a girl you just fell in love with and broke the rule because she was so special?

Your comment is very unique. I never heard a guy say before he ends relationships once a certain time frame passes. It sounds like you have not found your "perfect 10" (there is really no such girl but you get the point) that makes you really want to stay.

I straight up do my own thing. At first that is very attractive. But they’ll start trying to change you. When they can’t they get frustrated. Every time out of frustration they do something that makes me not want to be with them. Normally once they become a bitch I’ll start looking for another. But if I end up being single a couple months I’m cool with it. The timeline is about 4-6 months pretty typically. I just ride it out. And yes I’ve been in longer relationships, I’ve been heartbroken, I’ve been in what I thought was love.

 

[helloladies21]

Do not settle for a girl you're unattracted to. Your time is finite and you should be using it to find someone good. Plus, your self esteem will take a hit if you're with someone who doesn't do it for you.

 

[Tank]

I once tried having a gf I found not so attractive but we got along well. It didn't take long until I was both fairly unhappy and subconsciously pushing her away.

 

[hater58]

Per some of Chase's articles here, as a newbie you shouldn't pass up opportunities to casually date/hookup with women who are at least average and not crazy.

That does not mean you should be exclusive with them in favor of working towards hotter girls.