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[King]

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[FunGuy]

A girl I'm talking to, is leaving for vaca for about a month with her family next week, have not been able to go on a date or anything. Things have progressed over the last couple of months but yeah she soft rejected a date, which I knew would have happened anyways, still gaming her as usual and its all good.

Can you clarify what the part I highlighted in red means? I'm confused as the context of the relationship you have with this woman. I am probably wrong but from what I am understanding it sounds like she has been friend-zoning you for months (red part) and has very low compliance (black-bolded part and blue part).

I personally think you should stop talking to this chick as she seems disinterested, I don't think its a good idea to talk to a chick for months if you aren't even dating her or having sex with her. You can't build connection/chemistry/rapport/attraction through text all of that has to be done in person so you really have nothing to gain by talking to her for weeks/months if you aren't actually hanging out in person. Girls will talk to you and string you along even though they have no interest in you or intentions of moving things in a romantic direction. As a guy I don't understand why they do that but I'm guessing it feeds their ego or validates them.

You shouldn't be texting or talking for more than like a day or 2 before you ask a girl out, and then if she rejects the date or flakes you abort and pursue other women. A month is way too long, honestly even a week is extremely excessive.