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FU  X2: Too aggressive, too eager

thedude

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Two times I met really fucking pretty girls on the train and two times now I've screwed things up.(One took a lot less time than the other).

With thefirst girl it was on from the start, we joked with each other, she was touching me, we go on our first date and the same shit continues.

I bring her back to my place after getting coffee, sitting in a park and then looking at a local art exhibit.

Turns out she's a pstor's daughter and although she's broken away from being super religious, she still isn't down ofr sex so soon. I push too hard, she resists, we make plans for another time to cook food at my place, I never see her again.

Today I'm on a train and this kid is yelling up a storm so I go to the other side of the train car, I see this beautiful south american girls, turns out she is from Venezuela, she compliments me on my eyes and I think this is where I first screw up(other than leaning in too damn much).

She tells me if I nice eyes, we chat about them and how I have two different sized pupils too, and I decide to compliment her eyes, she gives a "that's bs face". She had regular brown eyes but I think they looked nice on her anyway.

And during the conversation I didn't "Push" once, sometimes I do it well or I do a chase frame like... with the first girl she mentioned how no one taught her how to ride a bike so I said "Don't worry, I'll be your daddy" - gold. But I can't say I do this usually well...

The other fuckup, it's almost my stop,I say this dimwitted thing, "Hey I think your pretty and I'd like to see you again, her give me your number(hand over phone". Not very good for connection building is it? Telling her I want to see her again because of her looks hahah.

Anyway I'm in NYC now, I'm seeing an old fuck buddy in the mean time but I've been getting my ass handed to me on day-approaches as well.

Tough tough tough.

I'm over it now but god damn are there pretty women here in NYC and part of it is they're tough, part of it is me screwing up big time....
 

Starboy

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Hey no worries man it happens even to the best of us. Even guys experienced like hector fucks it up sometimes so don't sweat it. It's hard to find a balance between being overeager,neefy and being too aloof,stoic. At least you're taking advantage of living in nyc. I live here too,but i'm too lazy to go out and talk to girls and I always have some kind of excuse for why I can't approach or won't approach. You're still on a higher level than most guys so keep it up!
 
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