LR-- You can always pull in a bad night...

[Gaturro]

Hey I'm back with the reports!! Luckily now I have more time to write.

On Saturday night I left my house with one wing but ended up with another one. It wasn't my best night approaching, but we managed to pull two girls.

First venue​

You can ignore this, it's just the story of why I won't go out with my roommate anymore and why my state wasn't the best during the night.

There's also a few comments about how to get into nightclubs, how to talk to owners, it would be interesting to know your opinion on this topic.

Spoiler

I texted a nightclub promoter asking if he could let me in an upper class +25 club (I'm 23 and my roommate is 24). He said it was complicated but said I should go and we'd figure something out. We were supposed to arrive before 2 AM, my plan was to get there 1:30 am, but my roommate was super slow getting dressed, tying up the dog, etc, we ended up arriving at 2 o' clock...

At the door I was approached by a few girls, some knew me for my videos, others just wanted to know who invited me, I was just nice, with some banter and kino, but didn't pay too much attention to them. My focus was on getting in... the promoter I knew talked to the owner, he was taking too long to get us in (there were like 50 people at the door, around 10-15 people who were older than us got in really quickly, we were waiting...).

After 15-20 minutes at the door the promoter I knew told me that the owner believed we looked very young, so he didn't wanna let us in. I guess carrying a baby face has its cons haha but the promoter insisted, considering we are good looking, can pay for a bottle or two, have lots of followers, etc.

So all I did at the door was stand there, nodding at the owner, talking to the promoter, talking to the girls who approached me, and WAITING. But my roommate had other plans... he approached the owner and started telling him we had so many followers, we couldn't be waiting for so long at the door... he was like "I don't know who has as many followers as we do in there, but we can't be waiting here..." as soon as I heard this I was thinking WTF are you doing dude... of course the owner didn't care, he was like "ok if you can't then leave..", the club was practically full, and I knew that we would never get in after my friend said that. My roommate was pissed and left, but I stayed there for a bit, trying to differentiate myself from my friend, being nice with the owner, luckily he understood that I wasn't like my roommate and he said that another day I could get in...

Then we were going back to my car and my roommate started yelling at me, saying that I should have insisted more to get in, instead of waiting so much, because every girl saw how long we were waiting, I said that he shouldn't be insecure, it's ok to wait a little bit, and that he shouldn't have talked to the owner like that. He continued yelling, he was really aggressive (I'm always calm) so I called an uber for him. Maybe he gets aggressive when he smokes weed? I don't know. Anyway, he went back home, and I went to another venue, where an old friend of mine was waiting for me. After some bad experiences with my roommate, I've decided I'm not going out with him anymore...

Second venue​

Getting into this venue was so easy lol, it was full of people but I knew the promoter for more than 5 years, as soon as he saw me he let me in... I saw lots of friends in there, it was really nice, but I had a wing for the night: Wing. Wing is the guy who introduced me to nightclubs, and to my first social circle in nightlife. He had been a promoter himself. And that night he ended up introducing me to the girl I pulled (actually we pulled both her and her friend).

Some opportunities lost...​

As soon as I got in, at the entrance I noticed a girl waiting for her tickets, giving me a huge IOI, she was surrounded by 3 guys, but she wouldn't stop staring at me... still the 3 guys made my approach anxiety kick in, and after my bad experience at the other club, my main goal was getting in, so I didn't approach her. Couldn't find her inside what would you have done if you were me?

Inside the club I met Wing and we went to the toilet, the nightclub was nice, it wasn't so classy but it was really good, also lots of hot girls, so fine by me... noticed lots of IOIs but I really needed to pee... so my first stop had to be the toilet.

How I met the girls we pulled​

We were next to the bar when two girls said hi to Wing. One of them was an ex nightclub promoter who he'd known for 10 years (he was her "boss", a higher rank promoter), let's call her HB1, the other one was a girl from another city who's studying here, HB2. There was a bit of banter between me and HB1, because she said hello to Wing very respectfully and I joked that she still treated him as if he were her boss...

More opportunities lost...​

The conversation was almost stalling when a guy said "HEYYYY GAT", and pointed at another dude: it was an old friend of mine who was sitting at a table just right next to us. I was really happy to see him, and told him I would get him a drink, so we went to the bar with Wing and I bought 3 glasses of Jagermeister with red bull. I left the two girls to mingle, I wasn't gonna pull at the beginning of the night anyway...

When I went back to the table my friend wasn't there, only 2 random girls, I thought they were his friends so I asked "hey where did Friend go?", I was looking at one of them and she said she didn't know. Then the other one said "he went to the toilet", I turned to look at her and I literally felt butterflies in my guts: she was beautiful, I only managed to look at her as if I were turned on, said "oh, hi.." and then I left to the toilet. I thought they were friends with Friend, so I would be able to talk to this girl later, but apparently they weren't his friends. He has a pretty common name and maybe they got confused or something, Friend wasn't their friend, and he wasn't at the toilet either... I never saw them again

Then I found a guy who's more famous than I am but he used to be my fan like 4-5 years ago, we took a photo, it was funny.

The VIP​

The promoter saw me and Wing and got us into the VIP area. There I approached a few girls. A few of my approachs were:

• "Hey I know you... yeah play stupid" I followed up with "I know you from Instagram" got her instagram but she didn't follow back... it was a stupid approach, it works with a few tweaks, but my delivery was bad, maybe bad state?
• A 3 set, two were dancing one ended up rubbing her ass on my dick "accidentally", I only kinda liked the girl who wasn't dancing but I was waiting for a friend, before approaching another dude talked to her first, fuck...
• "Wow you got the best eyeliner in the club... did you do it yourself?" "Yeah" "Nice, hey you don't look like most girls here, you aren't from the city are you?" "Yes I am, why??" "Oh because everyone here are looking at each other and judging, you look like you don't care" "Yeah I don't" her body language didn't seem very interested so I just asked for her instagram...
• Next to the VIP i noticed a girl as well, I said "Heyyyyy you aren't from the city are you?" she was almost a neighbor of mine, said we should hang out sometime, she said that we would hang out the next day so I got her instagram, she never followed back and I noticed she wasn't so hot without being drunk, so I unfollowed her hahaha (update: she followed me, will follow her back, she actually has a nice body lol)

So my approaches were really bad, I didn't go with anything previously thought, only the Gunwitch SMMA openers and hooks but for some reason I always left the interactions early...

Playing safe​

So at the VIP I saw HB1 and HB2. I said "Hey you're everywhere... what are you, God?"

I danced with both girls, but vibed a bit more with HB2. We weren't talking much, just dancing and looking at each other, with a few words here and there. Wing bought a drink for the 4 of us, and I told HB2 it was a gift from me (as a joke). HB2 was giving me more IOIs, but after a while something weird happened. She had a lollipop, I asked her to give it to me for a while and she didn't want to... it felt weird that she wouldn't comply, so I talked to Wing asking him who his target was. He said he had been talking to HB2 for a while, so everything made sense: that's why she gave me IOIs but wouldn't comply, Wing was with HB2, so I went for HB1...

At some point, Wing started telling the girls that a friend of ours was hosting an after party, and the girls said "who cares, we're home alone" BOOM the deal was sealed, they wanted to do an "after party" with us... Now I had two options, to pull to my house (30 min away from the club) or to go their place, which according to WIng was 5 blocks away from there. I don't like pulling to places I don't know, but I didn't wanna take them home and drive for 30 minutes, so I decided to risk it and go to their place. After they said they were available for the after party, I didn't mingle as much, I tried to stay with the group a bit more, or at least I always came back. Maybe they weren't perfect but I wanted to play safe...

Then HB2 went to the toilet, and I took this as an advantage to isolate HB1, I joked about how she was a bad friend that left HB2 go to the toilet alone when girls always go together, then we kept talking and we connected a lot... she's a tattoo artist, and both of us play soccer. Even though she was playing for a different team, I managed to establish a connection without much banter. I asked her if she also played mixed genre games, which she did, so I invited her to play against me. She mentioned a friend of hers owned a place where we could play (I actually knew the dude) but I said she should come to my neighbourhood. She seemed pretty enthusiastic about it.

Then HB1 asked me for my name, I said "Gaturro" and she showed me her ankle... she literally had a tattoo on her ankle that said "Gaturro" (it was her brother's name), there was a lot of banter about that... (my name isn't common which was funny, I mean what are the odds...). There she asked for my instagram, she added me but I said "nono, also add me to close friends", it's good they always add guys they wanna fuck in there, so sometimes they'll post stories to their close friends when they want some dick... she also asked for my age, I made her guess, she guessed I was 23, she was 21 so it's more than ok...

The club was almost closing when some dudes started fighting, I grabbed the girls and moved them to a safe place, then the club closed and we left the club with HB1, HB2 and Wing.

The pull​

The pull was natural, we just walked to where my car was, I asked them where they lived, they said 5 blocks from the club, so we went to get my car. Walking to my car I isolated HB1 (we walked faster) and Wing was with HB2. There was a point where I was standing very close to her, I could have kissed her but decided to keep the tension going until we were at the pull location...

Their apartment was very small and messy... for real, you would think girls are tidier and cleaner than guys, but hell no... And there was only one bedroom, so it was more complicated than I thought. The girls went to the toilet, Wing and I went to the balcony, and I said to Wing "ok Wing get in the room with HB2, when you finish I'll go with HB1"...

They did, according to Wing there was some touching and kissing, but HB2 was sleepy. Meanwhile I was talking to HB1, it was good because we connected much more, she was talking to me about her family, about her ex, she said his friends would talk badly about her in their face and he wouldn't stand up for her, so she broke up. I managed to go from here to sex talk, and established some non judgemental frames. Then she mentioned something about always being tired after going out to clubs, so I don't know how I connected this with sex talk... I talked about how when you are sleepy, almost before falling asleep, you enter a trance state where you feel everything much more... you feel every kiss, every touch, everything, because you are almost asleep so your feelings are more intense (I don't know how to translate this). She didn't seem to agree but she didn't disagree either. I went to the toilet and when I came back she was in the bedroom with HB2 and Wing.

The bedroom​

So the room consisted of two small beds, you know those with wood under the mattress, that make a lot of sound. They were not more than 1 meter apart from each other. And there were lots of clothes on the floor. On one bed, HB2 was falling asleep (or already asleep) and Wing was next to her with all his clothes on. On the other bed HB1 was sitting.

I lain next to HB1, and she was still sitting but started resting against me (I don't know how to explain it, kinda like cuddling but I was lying on the bed and she was sitting down, with her back against my body). The three of us talked for a while about something, I don't remember what exactly (I think clubbing stories), then we said "ok let's sleep" and I started escalating.

She had a new earring that hurt her, so I said "ok just lay your neck on my arm" and wow it was a really dominating position: we were cuddling and I was grabbing her neck with my arm like a "rear naked choke". With my other arm I started touching her body while I was kissing her lower neck, then kissed right under her ears, and then when I noticed she started pressing her ass against me, I grabbed her face for a kiss. The kiss was very hot and it didn't take long for my hand to touch her panties, I felt she liked it so I made her lick my fingers and then started rubbing her clit and fingering her. She was all wet, I made her grab my cock as well, we were touching each other but she made me stop because those beds made a lot of sound and they could listen, so I covered her mouth like "shhhh"...

Then I started escalating from scratch, fingered her more, but her pussy started making the typical wet sound so we had to stop or we would wake them up (there was no way that I could fuck her without waking them up, and although I like the excitement of trying not to be heard, this was different, I knew for a fact that they would wake up, and I knew I wouldn't feel comfortable with that, so I stopped).

I couldn't sleep but all the others fell asleep, I think I only slept for 1-2 hours while the rest slept for like 6... fuck my life I didn't wanna take them home because it would be an hour drive, and ended up staying awake doing nothing for 4 hours hahahaha

When they woke up, the four of us stayed talking for almost an hour, HB1 showed me videos of her little brother, then I kept the banter going about the tattoo with my name that she had, and she said something like "it was destiny" (lol, wtf?).

After an hour of talking, HB2 said her brother was coming home so we had to leave. I asked HB1 if she wanted me to give her a ride to her place (they didn't live together, HB2 had a roommate who was on vacation at the time), she said there was no need, so I kissed her goodbye and left.

The follow-up​

That was Saturday night, we left their place on Sunday at midday. On Monday she posted a photo on instagram, and the tattoo with my name could be seen (I mean the photo was taken from a distance, so you can't read what it says in the photo, but she was showing her ass and her tattoo at the same time). So I shared the photo with her, our texts were like:

Gat *sends her post to her*: nice, showing my tattoo
HB1: hahahaa yess
Gat (here I meant I was gonna kick her ankle): that's where my boot's studs will end up when we play against each other
HB1 (liked my message): that's not gonna happennnnn hahahaa
Gat: pardon please??
Gat: we've got a pending match
Gat (referring to sex): two, actually
HB1: that's righttt
HB1 (was this a sex reference?): i'll beat you in a second
HB1 (changed team names just in case): like Real Madrid against Barcelona
Gat: i'll score 6 in 1
Gat: like Barcelona against Real Madrid

She didn't reply after that, but she was going on vacation so it makes sense... I'll send her a text when she comes back.

Conclusions​

1. Go early to clubs if it's uncertain you'll pass
2. Get rid of wings who don't help
3. Open as soon as possible, don't delay approaching (sometimes I'm blank and I don't know what to say, maybe I should read a few openers or something)
4. It's a good idea to stick to a set if you see you kinda "have them" (like when the girls said they were home alone for the "after party"). It's better to play safe (I was still approaching other girls while going to the bar or toilet, but I always came back to my "safe set")
5. I would've definitely fucked this girl had I taken her home instead of going to their place. But it was so close to the venue so I decided to take that risk...
6. Good wings can get you girls. I didn't even open this set, we just said hi naturally, it was like social circle.

Questions​

1. Do girls really care if you're waiting for 20 minutes at the door of a club?
2. Who do you think was right, me waiting for the promoter to convince the owner to let us in, or my roommate pushing the owner to get in? What else could have I done to get in (apart from going early)?
3. What would you have done to open the girl surrounded by 3 guys who was giving me IOIs?
4. There were times I was going to the toilet or waiting for a friend and saw a few girls giving me IOIs. Is it ok to open them, even if I know I won't be able to talk to them for more than a few seconds?
5. What do you think I could do to improve my approaches at the VIP? Any feedback about the examples I gave?
6. Any other comments?

Thank you very much for reading!!

Gat.