This is a topic of big importance that most people keep underestimating. There is a big chance that if you're very familiar with GC and the process/"game", have your fundamentals, and still not seeing any result - this might me the reason.
You keep trying to pick up girls.
This is what I mean:
- it's obvious you're out to approach girls and girls can feel that
- they can feel that you've approached 50 girls today, and have approach 1000 girls the past months
- they can sense that you're learning how to approach and that she's just that to you - another approach
- she can feel that you're running a process and you've spent time thinking how and what to say
- she can sense that when she says something - you start thinking about your process/"game" and trying to figure out how and what to say yourself
Girls might not know specifically those things, but they sure as hell feel something is wrong with you. You're not genuine. You're fake and kind of a creep.
That's why it's so important to have an excuse why you're where you are:
- you're shopping at the supermarket
- you trying on clothes at the mall
- you're looking for a cool book at the book store
- you're walking to work/school/meet some friends when doing street approaches
- chilling to let off steam while in a park/coffee shop
- looking for inspiration - some times when I get stuck and can't figure sth out - I go out for a walk, get coffee, go to a park and talk with people, play some sport, pet some dogs - to get my inspiration and let my mind loose
Also when you approach a girl - you follow a process (giving compliments, asking questions about the girl, deep dive, flirt) that you don't follow with other people you talk to. If you talk to some guy at the gym or the old lady, do you deep dive? or ask questions and genuinely want to get to know the person? I guess no.
And this makes you feel that talking to a girl i different from talking to a person you don't want to sleep with. And you don't act really than genuine. And she can feel that.
No girl wants to be the 1000th girl you've approached that month and no girl wants to be picked up. They want to feel special, to feel that magic when you two click. To feel like it was destiny that you two met. She wants to feel that you are a real and genuine person not some PUA.
That's why things like: talking to all kinds of people,deep diving, giving specific compliments and qualification, are so important. They make a girl feel special.
She wants the guy who can have any girl he wants, but he wants her because she's soooo special. And the sexier you are the more special she feels.
That's one of the most important thing to remember - girls crave to feel special and be swooped by a strong sexy and sexual man, thrown in bed, man-handed, dominated,made feel small and weak, and pounded hard while you dirty talk to her and make her show her inner slut and she starts screaming while having a series of orgasms.
That sentence is in a nut shell what girls really want from men
But those things come a bit later
X
You keep trying to pick up girls.
This is what I mean:
- it's obvious you're out to approach girls and girls can feel that
- they can feel that you've approached 50 girls today, and have approach 1000 girls the past months
- they can sense that you're learning how to approach and that she's just that to you - another approach
- she can feel that you're running a process and you've spent time thinking how and what to say
- she can sense that when she says something - you start thinking about your process/"game" and trying to figure out how and what to say yourself
Girls might not know specifically those things, but they sure as hell feel something is wrong with you. You're not genuine. You're fake and kind of a creep.
That's why it's so important to have an excuse why you're where you are:
- you're shopping at the supermarket
- you trying on clothes at the mall
- you're looking for a cool book at the book store
- you're walking to work/school/meet some friends when doing street approaches
- chilling to let off steam while in a park/coffee shop
- looking for inspiration - some times when I get stuck and can't figure sth out - I go out for a walk, get coffee, go to a park and talk with people, play some sport, pet some dogs - to get my inspiration and let my mind loose
Also when you approach a girl - you follow a process (giving compliments, asking questions about the girl, deep dive, flirt) that you don't follow with other people you talk to. If you talk to some guy at the gym or the old lady, do you deep dive? or ask questions and genuinely want to get to know the person? I guess no.
And this makes you feel that talking to a girl i different from talking to a person you don't want to sleep with. And you don't act really than genuine. And she can feel that.
No girl wants to be the 1000th girl you've approached that month and no girl wants to be picked up. They want to feel special, to feel that magic when you two click. To feel like it was destiny that you two met. She wants to feel that you are a real and genuine person not some PUA.
That's why things like: talking to all kinds of people,deep diving, giving specific compliments and qualification, are so important. They make a girl feel special.
She wants the guy who can have any girl he wants, but he wants her because she's soooo special. And the sexier you are the more special she feels.
That's one of the most important thing to remember - girls crave to feel special and be swooped by a strong sexy and sexual man, thrown in bed, man-handed, dominated,made feel small and weak, and pounded hard while you dirty talk to her and make her show her inner slut and she starts screaming while having a series of orgasms.
That sentence is in a nut shell what girls really want from men
But those things come a bit later
X
