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Younger women easier than older gals. Why so?

kristian

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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As I've been testing myself a little this week I've come across an interesting pattern; younger girls seem more eager to meet and be led by me. It's been like that with many of my cold approach-lays.

*They are usually women in their late teens to early 20s.
*I used to be better with older gals a couple of years ago with online gaming.
*But now older women (those around my age) seem harder to hook and often excuse themselves.
*Younger women seem glad to talk and often happy when I ask them out.

Why is that?

I think I will explore this a little more before concluding but could it be my increased value?
 

Fuck This

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Elaborate with your age and background. I find I don't have tolerance for the younger girls silliness, posturing and drama. Older women I appreciate their "cut to the chase" attitude. They can see through the bull shit and insincerity. You gotta be genuine and confident with them.
 

readjusting

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Ohhh, I have the exactly same pattern. The girls just out of highschool, or college freshman are the easiest.
The older girls, they have seen it all before, so what make you different.
The younger girls, they haven’t seen (much) game before, so your game is new to them.
 

Sandman

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Right now I'm having problem with college age chicks. In Turkey people are a bit more conservative so the ones I come across are usually virgins and inexperienced (although there are certainly experienced young girls as well). I find these girls a bit tougher to crack. Maybe because my game is very sexual and I don't calibrate well... But I didn't have this problem abroad and I don't have this problem with experienced young girls.

It's easy to get them attracted to you yes but fucking them on the first date is a different matter. Hard to pull them to a hotel, and I have come across I am a virgin caveat a lot. I usually don't persist hard and make them do something they may regret later.

Older gals are easier for me (22+).
 

kristian

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Interesting points you all have here.

FYI:
*I am 31 years old.
*My style is more direct, more sexual and genuine than it used to be.
*When I had more success with my age group (28 - 33) my main markets used to be online and social circle. Younger girls where non-existent.
*I've had experienced younger girls and inexperienced younger girls in my dating career so far.

It could be that women in my age group are looking for something entirely different things than younger women. But who knows. This is is just a trend I am seeing more of lately.
 

demigod

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I've actually had better interactions with older girls, which I find interesting. Possibly because they are a bit more sure of themselves?
Then again I tend to cut conversations short I'f things aren't going exceptionally well.
 

ProblemSolving

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Girls in the 28-33 age group are usually looking to settle down and find someone to marry and start a family. They know that their time is short before that window closes, so their criteria for a man becomes a lot more stringent. Your financial stability becomes a lot more important as well as your attainability. They want you to be financially stable and have low odds of dumping her. If she thinks that you're a bit of player and that it will be tough to keep you in a relationship, she'll screen you out to find someone more attainable. This is because if you dump her in a few years, then her window for offspring closes that much more, and you have essentially wasted the precious time she has left to secure a man and start a family.

For younger girls it's a lot more simple because she feels no urgency to settle down and find "The One". Therefore, if you look good and she's DTF, you get laid. If she wants a relationship with you, they usually don't care about your financial situation or your attainability because if things don't work with you, she's got plenty of time to find someone else.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

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ProblemSolving said:
Girls in the 28-33 age group are usually looking to settle down and find someone to marry and start a family. They know that their time is short before that window closes, so their criteria for a man becomes a lot more stringent. Your financial stability becomes a lot more important as well as your attainability. They want you to be financially stable and have low odds of dumping her. If she thinks that you're a bit of player and that it will be tough to keep you in a relationship, she'll screen you out to find someone more attainable. This is because if you dump her in a few years, then her window for offspring closes that much more, and you have essentially wasted the precious time she has left to secure a man and start a family.

For younger girls it's a lot more simple because she feels no urgency to settle down and find "The One". Therefore, if you look good and she's DTF, you get laid. If she wants a relationship with you, they usually don't care about your financial situation or your attainability because if things don't work with you, she's got plenty of time to find someone else.


Pretty much this.

Younger girls are more attracted to the alpha at that stage in their life. So if you display those qualities (dress well, good fundamentals, etc) and move fast with her then you will not have much problem. Also, girls at this age like older men (for the most part). So age and experience is definitely in your favor with them.

I personally do the best with younger girls. I feel like I'm never really "gaming" them but instead getting them to talk (deep dive, some light flirting), build comfort, and move them at the right time.

Girls that are in their late 20s I have a harder time with first date sex or even seeing them a second time. It's not always the case, but more so than younger girls (21-24).
 
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