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Hey all,
Like me, I'm sure there are those of you who began your seduction journeys as newbies, as beta-s with no game, pedastalizing women, oneitis and texting the same girl consistently, etc.
We have those secrets in the closet and the past that we'd rather remain secrets. Now that we've become (or are on the process of becoming) seducers, lovers, and genuine men, we are starting to see some improvements, approaching girls at will, getting them attracted based on our fundamentals, closing the deal, etc.
But then a hammer falls.You get into a relationship. She meets your friends or you meet hers. You find out you have a mutual friend of a girl you used to be crazy about (or had oneitis for). That girl doesn't respect you, and she tells your current gf. Your current gf goes cold and suddenly stops respecting you.
This scenario may or may not have come across the mind of many a man who was on the path to improving himself with women from a position of weakness. What would be a good way to go about: either avoiding or dealing with the negative preselection that may show up years after you've moved on from the one-itis?
Like me, I'm sure there are those of you who began your seduction journeys as newbies, as beta-s with no game, pedastalizing women, oneitis and texting the same girl consistently, etc.
We have those secrets in the closet and the past that we'd rather remain secrets. Now that we've become (or are on the process of becoming) seducers, lovers, and genuine men, we are starting to see some improvements, approaching girls at will, getting them attracted based on our fundamentals, closing the deal, etc.
But then a hammer falls.You get into a relationship. She meets your friends or you meet hers. You find out you have a mutual friend of a girl you used to be crazy about (or had oneitis for). That girl doesn't respect you, and she tells your current gf. Your current gf goes cold and suddenly stops respecting you.
This scenario may or may not have come across the mind of many a man who was on the path to improving himself with women from a position of weakness. What would be a good way to go about: either avoiding or dealing with the negative preselection that may show up years after you've moved on from the one-itis?
