Your experiences with cold approaching.

[Suave]

I just want to know how your approaches went before doing it myself, yep, AA.

Although it is much less than before(thanks to the boards), I think I can wrap my head around it a little better if I know a litte about how the interactions go.

1. How do girls usually respond? Have you ever had a girl react in a weird way?

2. How do the inexperienced ones respond to a direct opener?

3. How does it play out in groups?

All the help will be appreciated.

Thank you.

 

[bobbybowden]

sometimes they will respond well, a lot of times they won't. if you are in your own head it will not go well, ever.

the key is just to do it. it's one of those things that sucks at first but gets easier with time.

I always "warm up" when I go out. you gotta get the first 2 or 3 approaches out of the way, they never go perfect. But after that you stop caring and just act/react in the moment rather than thinking about what to say.

 

[ray_zorse]

Hey mate check out this thread where I outlined my exact approach technology, may be helpful to you (but if it's TMI just save for later and do some approaches anyway)...
https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=8728

As to your question bobbybowden is correct, how they respond depends completely on your body language. As a newbie the first few women you open will likely run away (unless you use the newbie assignment to work up to it gradually) but you will rapidly figure out how to fix things, prob after 3~4 approaches you will start to nail it. When done correctly you will basically never receive blowouts or bad reactions except in rare circumstances beyond your control (she was just having a bad day that day or whatever).

Post some FRs I'll be keen to have a read

cheers, Ray

 

[ray_zorse]

Also read Raqimus's journal, I forgot where I put it until today but this has a list of a few go-tos of mine for building momentum and thus combatting approach anxiety. But the newbie assignment also helps.
cheers, Ray

 

[Suave]

Also read Raqimus's journal, I forgot where I put it until today but this has a list of a few go-tos of mine for building momentum and thus combatting approach anxiety. But the newbie assignment also helps.
cheers, Ray

Thanks for the replies mate, will definitely give it a try. Heading to the journals now, time for some reading.