Y's journal: Building game into life

[Mr STIF]

Damn it bro! You make me want to start 'day game' despite the pandemic.

Anyway, just watch videos on YouTube to see what exactly these guys are doing. Just by doing this I found RSDTYLER's method for a number close.

Here it is:
1) I see Woman
2) I open Woman
3) I talk to Woman
4) I close Woman

I modified it as I'm still a beginner, besides your words play a big role in your thinking. Here's mine:
1) I check for IOI
2)I open Woman
3) I sex talk Woman
4) I exchange contact info

Because of this process I'm good at noticing IOI's, I worked on my openers now I open with pretty much anything.

I got good at opening and starting conversations but I didn't know how to drag it to chaseframes, sexual innuendos, sex talk. No 3 reminds me to sexualize the conversation, the same with the last.

Obviously, you'd encounter scenarios where you need to skip steps. These method keeps you following a process, it's like magic. I got 7phone numbers in an hour, on a Sunday when everyone is in church, I'm in Nigeria where the game is really tough.

If I could do all that imagine all what you could do. The difference between the master and green horn is experience, work hard and smart that's what the GET-THE-WOMAN-PROCESS taught me. Enjoy the walk brother.

 

[Merchant's-Kin]

Damn it bro! You make me want to start 'day game' despite the pandemic.

Anyway, just watch videos on YouTube to see what exactly these guys are doing. Just by doing this I found RSDTYLER's method for a number close.

Here it is:
1) I see Woman
2) I open Woman
3) I talk to Woman
4) I close Woman

I modified it as I'm still a beginner, besides your words play a big role in your thinking. Here's mine:
1) I check for IOI
2)I open Woman
3) I sex talk Woman
4) I exchange contact info

Because of this process I'm good at noticing IOI's, I worked on my openers now I open with pretty much anything.

I got good at opening and starting conversations but I didn't know how to drag it to chaseframes, sexual innuendos, sex talk. No 3 reminds me to sexualize the conversation, the same with the last.

Obviously, you'd encounter scenarios where you need to skip steps. These method keeps you following a process, it's like magic. I got 7phone numbers in an hour, on a Sunday when everyone is in church, I'm in Nigeria where the game is really tough.

If I could do all that imagine all what you could do. The difference between the master and green horn is experience, work hard and smart that's what the GET-THE-WOMAN-PROCESS taught me. Enjoy the walk brother.

Thanks for the advice brother! I encourage you to start day game during the pandemic... Just be tough-minded and see it as a challenge rather than a handicap. If you can pull it off now, when this whole thing's over you'll be going at Formula ONE speed!

Hope game has been going well for you in Nigeria. It'll be a while before I get significant results I can feel.

Cheers
Y

 

[Merchant's-Kin]

Saturday

Due to harsher Corona restrictions, junction that I had high expectations for didn't turn out so well. Probably approached 6-7 in the span of 3 hours today.

For all but one of them I wasn't able to get any significant investment from.

Best approach today: So this girl says she can only give me her email address
Things done well: I knew where this girl's walking destination was so before we walked too far in a certain direction I stopped her.
Good that I managed to formulate the logistics plan in mind while walking and while talking to her
Remained unfazed and confident in a very open public area: Despite her testing for even just the smallest investment
Change her decision from giving me her email address to having her scramble for a peice of paper and write down my number.

May not seem like much. But quite cool that I've got this bit of the process down. This is significant improvement for me.

 

[Merchant's-Kin]

Tuesday: Still scouting out locations and must have approached about 6-7 girls today though I more or less got blown off by all of them.
Initial road junction that I thought was good in the end did not turn out to be a good place: Not even on the days of the weekend.
Tonight I found a jogging spot where quite a few chicks were either walking or running.

Apparently, you're allowed to go out without a mask if you're working out. So I think that that's what I'm gonna try. Will try that for one day lettting girls see my smile. Will see how much better interactions go.

Tried to approach a two-set and honestly they were more keen to talk to me than most of the girls who were alone. Both under 25. Still had the don't talk to strangers vibe of this country.

Over the next few days will try to open sets of multiple women more. just go and deep dive. I absolutely need the deep-diving training.

Some thoughts on how to train deep-diving:
I really can't train my deep-diving with women because I'm either still half-tackling approach anxiety or not being able to reach the hook point.
I believe it is a bad idea to train deep-diving with men for me. Deep-diving men is to me completely different from deep-diving women.
This means before I train deep-diving I have to train getting to the hook point.

Tried using takeaways for the first time during one of the approaches, and I can imagine how it can even help with getting to the hook point. Will just keep practising this skill specifically

Currently, skills to train:
Takeaways and push-pull
If I get to the hook point, Deep-diving (sort of mixed in before and after the hook-point as well)
Everything else just understand briefly and wing it if I actually get there

Notes: Don't ask for major investment until I have deep-dived. Just keep pushing for conversation and circumstances conducive to conversation. See how far I can push for conversation

 

[Merchant's-Kin]

Next day
Major achievement: Discovered a good venue where there's a chick that's near enough to my screening requirements every 5 minutes or less.
Overall: Probably approached about 10-12 times in the span of 3 hours (quite an improvement for me) and only got one phone number.
Was also interesting that I approached sets of 2-girls who were walking together twice.

I think it's the first time ever that I've actually done 4 approaches an hour.

Today I was not using a mask and it did not have that much of a greater impact but I will continue to do this.

Biggest learning experience: Set of 2 Vietnamese girls. At this stage, the direction I should take with 2 girls at the same time is a mystery to me. I fcked up this one because I could not calibrate. I was just trying to learn to use takeaways and did not listen that well to what they were saying and did not reward the investment that the key Vietnamese chick was giving me. I was using takeaways when she gave me small signs of interest. Mistake.
Laying out thoughts:
Deep diving: listen, listen, and listen
Use takeaways only when the chick gets significantly annoying

Another thing I learnt to do, command chicks to take out their ear pieces. I tried it once today and it worked.
Idea: When a chick tries to walk off. Let her walk then 30 seconds later then side stop her again. Then grab her upper arm and lead her.

It's gonna be a month since the day I started going out a week from now. Can't say that I've actually learnt very much. In the span of this month perhaps my total number of approaches have gone from about 70 before this month to about 150.

Important note: I'm still clammering for isolation too quickly because of fear of public judgement. Solution: Specifically train myself to get the chick to stay there or to get her to some location and deep dive. I'm ready to do this now. I have the venue. I'm dealing reasonably with AA.
Chasing girls and deep diving: Right now all of the approaches that I'm doing are street stops. As Chase said in the article, it's always some form of chasing. I'm going to give up on extracting isolating and setting dates, and just go straight for the deep dive and creating circumstances for the deep dive.
I'm going to lie about where I'm going and follow chicks and give more investment than I should just so that I can have more time to deep dive.

Of course, if it's so obvious that I notice that this chick wants more than deep diving then I'll go for it. But the focus now is deep-diving. If I don't get this right I'm not going anywhere. Corona world or after

More reading to do:
Confusing reactions with results
Rewarding investment: Another thing I'm shit at

My fundamentals are not too bad (Nah not really there's a ton I don't understand about fundamentals) but AND my game is really nowhere near there. Good. That's why I'm here

 

[Mr STIF]

About deep diving brother, read articles on conversation or even watch videos on deep diving.

Whenever I meet people both old and young I talk about childhood memories and they eat it up. I don't know why, even a 70yr old man would get into trance recalling childhood events.

Find a way to open a thread about childhood memories amidst your conversation. You can tease them with it and they'd love it.

Me: Hey there, how's it going?
Her: I'm fine just shopping
Me: shopping uh?
Her: Yeah
Me: I can see lots of kiddies stuff in your basket.
Her: yea yea it's diapers for my babies
Me: just the same way your mum had to wipe your ass. Now, it's your turn to wipe your babies'asses. (said in a sarcastic way).
Me: so tell me how long did it take you to stop sucking breasts?
Her: haha like a year I guess
Me: greedy woman, you finished it and left none for your siblings now it's your turn to breastfeed. Haha

I just did a demo above. You can see how the conversation started and you can see how I have directed it towards her childhood. I could ask her how long she crawled as a baby and laugh about it and tease her but this is just a demo.

 

[Merchant's-Kin]

Writing this post while I'm not actually exhausted after a night of trying to approach. Some fear that I'm not learning fast enough and etc.

Did some reading on the more advanced seducers field reports and makes me like absolute shit. Oh well.

Thoughts I wish to write:
Harsh Corona restrictions are going to last for the course of the whole of next month. Will keep hitting in the current venue that I have but will also spend time looking for better locations.
Observation: Chicks I'm hitting are dresssed skimpily because they are working out. Not actually "out in the field"
Regardless of where I going to be hitting over the next month, it's going to be some kind of street stopping.
Realisation from last night is that a lot of times I'm not actually stopping the girl or girls. I should stop using the word "chick" now I realise it's some kind of pedestal. Will just use "girl" from now

Every time I do a street stop, if I don't manage to stop a girl, I'm just going to let her walk away and don't go after. There isn't that much volume during to do this tbh. But that's what it is. I can invest a bit more just to gain experience deep diving but not at the most initial stop stage.

Sexual talk, sexual framing, flirting, etc:
Holy shit I cannot even imagining myself doing that. I will not worry about this for now. I'm not 100% comfortable with talking to women even at this stage.
Just going to train deep diving solely with girls over the course of the next 1-2 weeks. Will have the discipline to stick to the plan. See what happens after I do it.

A note on mindset: The reason why I'm not going to give up training is that I'm doing this for my own benefit. But I'm thinking that this may perhaps not be a good mindset. Will try changing it up to thinking that I'm doing it for the girl. Feels much more elegant and natural and something that makes me even more happy to think about myself. Follow-up more on this in future posts.

 

[Merchant's-Kin]

About deep diving brother, read articles on conversation or even watch videos on deep diving.

Whenever I meet people both old and young I talk about childhood memories and they eat it up. I don't know why, even a 70yr old man would get into trance recalling childhood events.

Find a way to open a thread about childhood memories amidst your conversation. You can tease them with it and they'd love it.

Me: Hey there, how's it going?
Her: I'm fine just shopping
Me: shopping uh?
Her: Yeah
Me: I can see lots of kiddies stuff in your basket.
Her: yea yea it's diapers for my babies
Me: just the same way your mum had to wipe your ass. Now, it's your turn to wipe your babies'asses. (said in a sarcastic way).
Me: so tell me how long did it take you to stop sucking breasts?
Her: haha like a year I guess
Me: greedy woman, you finished it and left none for your siblings now it's your turn to breastfeed. Haha

I just did a demo above. You can see how the conversation started and you can see how I have directed it towards her childhood. I could ask her how long she crawled as a baby and laugh about it and tease her but this is just a demo.

Hey shit bro thanks for following my posts,

Ok. I'm gonna take your advice that I should not just be learning on my own (which is what I have been doing so far on here)

The sex talk is quite far away for me. I will work on the deep diving first. Will go find and watch some videos. And will practise practise and practise

Hope you get a SHIT TON of lays during Corona,
Y

 

[Mr STIF]

Another thing again I notice whenever I cold approach I tend to ask a lot of questions from the beginning. Don't fall into that habit as it may seem like an interview.

Instead mix up your questions with sentences of teasing or sentences about yourself.

Remember to stand in front of the girl, remember to stand close and try to match their subtle languages.

And don't forget to be free Don't stand with closed legs like a scared puppy,
you can switch from standing akimbo to putting your hands in your pocket to rubbing your head sometimes e.t.c

 

[Merchant's-Kin]

Another thing again I notice whenever I cold approach I tend to ask a lot of questions from the beginning. Don't fall into that habit as it may seem like an interview.

Same here. Alright will try swithc it up

Remember to stand in front of the girl, remember to stand close and try to match their subtle languages.

And don't forget to be free Don't stand with closed legs like a scared puppy,
you can switch from standing akimbo to putting your hands in your pocket to rubbing your head sometimes

Some of it we really just need practise. OH YEA


Yep. Stand in front of her. Great piece of advice. Something that I did once with success but forgot

 

[Mr STIF]

Once you decide you wanna cold approach that day. Before you leave the house do pick a mirror and smile, smirk or wink for about five minutes. Do twenty push ups too.

When you get outside try to get in state by talking to your neighbor, the security guard at the gate. Buy a bottle of water at a shop and talk to sale's girls, nothing more than that.

All these ideas are to reduce approach anxiety by making you really warm up to conversing with human beings.

You'll improve drastically, and you'll be in good terms with your security guard lol.
Get on it brother

 

[Merchant's-Kin]

Great job to everyone who's been getting all these lays on the fielf report board recently!

Thoughts on self-motivation and the long walk:
Women have been in general very nice to me and for the whole month I've been going out no one has even said anything mean to me. Based on previous post on here, I went out and got more or less blown off by literally every girls. I approached 10-12 girls in about 3 hours. Not a good day so felt quite bad after.
Lessons learnt:
1. I didn't expect to have some short bitterness come up but it did, I have come to peace with those thoughts based on the following logic:
It's not their fault that they are blowing me off but that my game is really shit. It is my job to get my game up and keep going
2. Expectations management: It helps for me not growing bitter, but the fact that girls are not being mean to me somehow makes me enjoy the process of just staying at this stage of shit learning and not progressing to higher levels of seduction.
Solution: I simply have to really keep pushing for sex.
Perhaps post some questions to more advanced people on the beginner's forum.

Important point:
I am literally just going out and getting blown off and not learning very much which is an ineffective use of my time.
Perhaps that is the nature of doing street stops.
Ok so the situation is this. At this point in time, there are not many resources for me to convert girls who are not keen to having sex into girls who are keen to having sex. Country's Corona restrictions make going on dates almost literally impossible.
If I get any sex right now it's mostly going to be instant lays.

Thoughts on sex and learning being 2 different things:
In order to get to sex, I have to approach many girls, because it's hard know/encounter girls who are really horny right there and right then
This whole approach many girls and get blown-off by all of them thing is something that I have to get used to. The culture in this country is not so favourable to instant lays
The problem where I am right now stuck: What does it mean to go out and only focus on one thing when most of the chicks who are willing to talk to me are those already interested in having sex? For example, I get almost no training with deep diving from girls who don't already want sex with me. For the girls who want me to fck them, if I just keep deep diving and don't do sex talk, then I'm not moving the interaction fast enough I can feel.

Articles to read
Confusing reactions from results

Things I need to ask:
What's the balance between the grind that all seducers have to go through and ineffective learning? How do I know I'm on the right track?
Is this just the case because I'm learning from street stops?
Do girls only want to get deep dived by attractive men? Yes that is for sure.
Should I consider Tinder?
Question on focussing on one skill at a time.

 

[Merchant's-Kin]

Two days later

Approached about 7-8 girls today. Managed to talk to only 4 girls for more than 2 minutes and including one really long interaction at the end where this girl gets in my car.

Collection of tests that I am always encountering that I should spend some time forming responses to:
1. Why are you not wearing a mask?
2. What are you doing here?
3. Isn't me talking to you right now illegal?
4. But everything's closed. There's nowhere we can go

More problems identified with my deep diving:
I can actually have a conversation, but when I'm deliberately training deep diving I'm always fcking it up because I'm just worried that the deep diving doesn't go well ah fck. So it's a law of least effort issue? THINK ABOUT THIS.


Just going to write the report here not going to get people to read this because I fcked up because I simply lack the skills:

I drive her to a seduction location but (I believe because I don't do any prior sex talk which I have zero experience doing) and then there's just this huge unbreakable barrier of resistance (I can't kiss her)

A useful thing to be in my mind
From a lay report from Lao Che: "As long as the girl is doing anything with you that she doesn't necessarily have to do, assume she wants you to fck her"

Skills/knowledge that I lack
Knowledge of the roads. I only really recently started driving. First time even drivinga stranger around in car lol
I don't even know any seduction location I can drive to.
I don't know anything about car sex
I don't break touch barrier very well because I'm driving. I don't know how it's supposed to work logistically
I don't know how to do sex talk


Her behaviour
Quite friendly to me when I approached from the front, she slowed down and stared at my face for a bit.
Says it's illegal to talk bla bla bla
I don't even need to detail her behaviour, essentially it's fucking obvious that she wants me to fck her just going to document the skills that I lack above.
She lets me drive her to a place I clearly haven't even been to myself more or less without uttering a word of resistance. Enough said.

Flow of interaction
Approach on jogging path. She walking opposite way back to her house where she lives with landlord. I turn around said you know what my car is this way as well. I tell her let's get something to eat.
I keep getting lost and don't know the roads well at night. I lose my bearings luckily we end up near one of the coffee places we were chatting about and I know the way from there
We go to the coffee place and my deep diving is still no good.
We get coffee and I look for a place to stop the car and chill.
I finally find the place
She hits me for teasing her at some point so well I'm like sign of interest ok green light
Then I look for seduction location which I'm trying to find
I eventually find one
I get there after 15 minutes might be too long and no sex talk before. It's not completely private. Just the dead end of a row of private one-family houses (not apartments)

Me: Take off your seatbelt
Her: What are you going to do? (Some sort of fear in her eyes)
Me: Just take off your seatbelt

She takes off her seatbelt.
I try to manhandle kiss her. Fail.
This part idk how to handle: She gets out of car. Somehow threatens me that she going to walk back on her own. I look at the facial expression she's giving and give up. She doesn't look like she wants sex anymore
I start driving her back. I officially give up on pushing for sex and don't care about interaction anymore
All of a sudden I ask

Me: Have you had good sex before?

To which I get the fastest, most deadass, and honest-sounding answer from her of the entire night: "No". Says she can't be in LTR if she has no feelings etc
This is the first time I'm feeling like its a fun conversation
THE END

Remarks:
Regarding the overall lack of skills, I just have to learn it no choice. Will naturally get exponentially more confident after I've done this a couple of times. consider this the first time I've done this. Will try this a total of 5 times acquiring the required skills along the way and seek some help if I need it
Not going to worry too much about bitterness. I'm going to keep training deep-diving every time I deep-dive a girl I'm going to understand girls more. I'll win the battle with myself so long as I keep at this.

Today showed me car sex in my country is within reach for me.
Will try some more then write some more.

 

[Merchant's-Kin]

Next day

Approached about 7-8 girls and 4-5 of them resulted in more than 2 minute conversations. I'm gonna measure both total number of times I approach a girl regardless of whether I get blown off and the total number of times I have conversations that last 2 minutes or longer.

 

[Merchant's-Kin]

Next day

Once again approach about 7-8 girls. This time its all street stopping and I manage to only have conversations that last 2 minutes or longer with 2 out of the total number of approaches I did.

Realised from the car report with the Korean girl a couple of days back how important sex talk and the sexual vibe is so I spent time reading on it before I went out today.
I tried building some sexual vibe today and realised still how far behind my conversation and deep-diving is from where it needs to be:
Problems
1. Too much of the friends vibe. Both of the times when deep-diving
2. First time actively tried putting in sexual presence and emotion into my street stops. Much more amused smiles from women today than other days
3. Based on some advice from Chase, and one of the longer conversations today, a problem with me is that I'm not pushing enough for the girl to open up to me.
Observation: There's this friends vibe going and I could tell that this girl had some dark shit in her story that she held back from telling me and lied that that was the end of the story. I let the conversation descend into this bad boyfriend role dynamic thing so just more practise necessary.

A good time to start learning about sex talk. I have come to understand how crucial this is especially since this I only have car logistics.
I can feel that my listening skills are slowly improving.
Screening and qualifiying I don't even know since I haven't been doing this too much

For now: Will train deep-diving, mainly listening, screening, qualifying until the end of this week. Do a reevaluation then
Will also try pushing more sexual emotion into the interaction and the approach.
I'm still training to deal with approach anxiety but the how I'm dealing with it right now is successful enough for me to keep learning deep-diving and what skills I'm focussing on now
I gotta deal with stamina:
1. Getting rejected and relying on approaching more to have a higher chance of reaching girls who are in the mood for it. Learning to take it
2. Always remember to keep listening to girls. Sometimes I'm exhausted and lose focus. Does practise give stamina? Find out over the next few days
Stamina: Gonna rely on practise for now

More skills to practise after:
Sex talk
Pushing for investment on all fronts

 

[Mr STIF]

Brother Man, please don't beat your-Self up for lacking calibration or even an understanding of how the social skills work.

I'll advice you to pick one aspect of game and work on it rather than float aimlessly. Thereby, achieving very little within so much time, and energy spent.

How about working on your ability to notice indicators of interest? So you can know the girls that want you. You will spend more time in different sets and this will add to your reservoir of experiences.

The difference between the newbie and the advanced is- EXPERIENCE!

Give your-Self time, brother, women love you and want more than intimacy from you.

You just need to know how to gauge IOI's, then from there, you have a chance to work on your 'opener'. After that you master conversation and reaching the hook.

Practice for days and come back to write the different IOI's you saw that day. I bet you will start seeing a pattern of hair tossing to the side to show you more of their pretty faces,.

Be good at identifying green lights, those subtle body language that doesn't make sense in the grand scheme of things.

Brother, You got this.

 

[Merchant's-Kin]

Thanks Brother,

Hope shit's been going well with you!

Not been getting too many IOIs because fewer girls "out in the field" during this Corona period. Dead serious. When I do get IOIs I try to go for it though.

Now I'm just learning from street stopping but will take your advice on focussing on one aspect of game
I'm currently focussing on deep diving and verbal game.
However, I'm finding that if I just keep focussing on deep diving for example I can't move the interaction forward in anyway (correct me if I'm wrong but I feel like if I'm not moving it forward its just gonna go downhill and less deep-diving training for me) so I'm trying to learn sexualised conversation as well as that is the next step.

Saw some posts that you may be from Lagos.. You currently "day gaming" in there? or Night game?

Will enjoy the walk

 

[Merchant's-Kin]

Some additional things to keep in mind:

Deep-diving discipline: Don't ask for investment or move her until after some rapport has been built/deep-diving. Not actually sure what the stance on this should be. Check the street stopping article again

Pretending to focus on something else before the approach works well. I particularly like looking at my extreme behind and pretending to be considering something intensely. It really some how gets girls to check me out and lower their guard.

Been falling behind on aggression, every time a girl walks away from me I'm gonna do some smooth walk around and try to lead her by her upper arm. The thing has been, I trust my sensitivity and calibration on this, that most of the time a girl walks away from me they're not actually unattracted to me, it's more of a I don't usually go with guys who approach strangers in the day kind of thing so I really need to be sure of myself
Will work on the smoothness of this.
Will try not even saying anything because that looks like chasing and just smile and take her upper arm and lead her

The sexual frame and sexual vibe: At this stage, complete beginner at this. Gonna feel my way around, and generate as much sexual emotion and language as I can over the next 1-2 weeks

I'm younger than most women and always afraid to communicate that I'm younger than them. will have a look at what the best approach towards this is

A possible response to the common tests I receive:
What are you doing here? Flirty response: I'm out having fun! Jealous. Something along these lines. Or maybe even something more sexual. Come up with it as I go.
Now I realise most tests can be responded to with sexualised and flirtatious responses
Search skilled seducer boards for

Things to focus on:
Communicate to women that I want sex. Based on really cool article written by Chase that I just discovered

Articles haven't read:
Confusing reactions from results

Back log of more skills:
I've always been quite uncomfortable with touch even incidental touch during instant dates from street stops. Now I have a smooth way to do it. I'm just going to naturally touch her because I want to have sex with the girl. And the undertone that I want sex is the perfect excuse to touch her!

 

[Merchant's-Kin]

Possible questions:
Opening: Is it the case that someone can get so good with openers and opening that 75% of girls are just willing to get into conversations with them from meeting them on the street? I would imagine that if it's from the street I'm naturally just going to have to deal with a lot of rejections.

OK. Serious here. I am perhaps actually used to getting very strong forms of IOI before this Corona period started (because I actually get quite a few) so perhaps I have not been noticing some very subtle forms of IOI over the past few weeks and do not have the skill to differentiate between very very subtle IOIs and no IOI. Now that I think about it I may have missed some very very subtle IOIs.
Simple: Look out for it. If I see it, go for it. Can't see it. No worries.

What does it mean to focus on one skill at a time? Does it mean if the interaction no longer involves that skill then you just exit and look for another interaction in which you can train that skill? I don't really get it. Or is this skill that I'm focussing on just something that I keep pushing for?

 

[Mr STIF]

Thanks Brother,

Hope shit's been going well with you!

Not been getting too many IOIs because fewer girls "out in the field" during this Corona period. Dead serious. When I do get IOIs I try to go for it though.

Now I'm just learning from street stopping but will take your advice on focussing on one aspect of game
I'm currently focussing on deep diving and verbal game.
However, I'm finding that if I just keep focussing on deep diving for example I can't move the interaction forward in anyway (correct me if I'm wrong but I feel like if I'm not moving it forward its just gonna go downhill and less deep-diving training for me) so I'm trying to learn sexualised conversation as well as that is the next step.

Saw some posts that you may be from Lagos.. You currently "day gaming" in there? or Night game?

Will enjoy the walk

I practiced cold approach

Thanks Brother,

Hope shit's been going well with you!

Not been getting too many IOIs because fewer girls "out in the field" during this Corona period. Dead serious. When I do get IOIs I try to go for it though.

Now I'm just learning from street stopping but will take your advice on focussing on one aspect of game
I'm currently focussing on deep diving and verbal game.
However, I'm finding that if I just keep focussing on deep diving for example I can't move the interaction forward in anyway (correct me if I'm wrong but I feel like if I'm not moving it forward its just gonna go downhill and less deep-diving training for me) so I'm trying to learn sexualised conversation as well as that is the next step.

Saw some posts that you may be from Lagos.. You currently "day gaming" in there? or Night game?

Will enjoy the walk

Yea, I'm in Lagos. I practice mainly in shopping malls, streets and campus. Although I'm not a student but I've been busy this year, working on the financial aspect of life is taking most of time.

I work everyday and no time for daygame at the moment.