Here's my geeky gaming analogy for seduction:
Gambits are magic spells, fundamentals are core stats.
Gambits are powerful tools that can turn the tide of the battle (seduction). However they are situational, must be transitioned into carefully, and can only be used once.
Fundamentals, on the other hand, are your core stats that will carry you through all seductions. By leveling them up, you become stronger overall.
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