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You become fully detached once it becomes a matter of just testing things out to see whether my process works

And not whether I get this specific chica

You are ,in essence, leaving the process to put the neck on the line for you (lol)

Whereas if you are too attached on getting that one girl, you are basically signing yourself up for an ego bruise
Chad Tyrone
Chad Tyrone
Moreover, it's way easier to tighten up your process and game enough that it can land you more girls in general than it is to get this special girl

And who knows, maybe after letting your process “do the work” for you , you can end up getting that one girl you’re after

Because she can tell that it doesn’t really matter to you, whether you get her or not
Chad Tyrone
Chad Tyrone
I’m not saying you shouldn’t care …of course ,you should make her feel special

I’m saying it’s okay if it doesn’t lead to wherever you want it to

That’s true detachment
Test things out for yourself first

Constantly asking for advice

Or looking for some obscure YT video that'll will get girls jumping on your dick right out of the gate ,

Ain't gonna get you anywhere

Believe you have it in you to always figure things out

Go fail...

Fast and forward
There are a billion ways to fuck it up with a chick and only few ways to get her

There are more things you should not be doing than there are things to do

Get out of your head

Easily avoid the things you should not be doing

And follow the patterns
You don't pursue getting better with women to impress people

Some do

But the smart ones ultimately realize that it was never really about impressing others

You pursue greatness because it's how you choose to operate and realize that it's the only way to have control over your reality

You do it for you
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Chad Tyrone
Chad Tyrone
And if you are doing it for others...I'll let you in on a harsh truth:

Most can't decipher greatness when they see it


Quit wasting your time


Do it for you!
Fool is him that mistakes genuity for politeness or weakness

If people can walk over you and you call yourself genuine

You are not there yet!

Truly genuine men are also unfuckwithable

Drill that into your skull everytime you try to talk yourself out of cultivating genuity for a fear that it's "weak" or "uncool"
She can be above all human laws

But she can never be above the laws of woman nature

Who she really is deep down doesn't change

There is a point of diminishing returns once you get good

A point where you never have to bother racking your brain up to come up with new tactics or strategies on how to get her

Certainly you can but you don't need to
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Chad Tyrone
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In essence, once you have mastered how to "manipulate'' (lol) her brain and seen the effect on her, you can be damn sure she'll behave the same way again and again and again
Get close to those you most admire

And discover a being with human flaws

You can become whoever you want to be

Once you quit idolizing

I promise
For those beating themselves up,

Get this:

3 years from now...5 yrs...10,

It won't matter a flying fig whether you got rejected on your first approach,

Or you couldn't get that girl Penny out.

Nor would it matter how bad you wanted to make things right with Cathy ...once you messed things up

What would matter is what stuck with you

Is it the lesson(s) or the experience?
Chad Tyrone
Chad Tyrone
Fun fact: the loser effect and forehead slaps vanish and all you're left with are lessons

You may not get it(them?) from a single experience

But the patterns from all your fuck-ups are your lessons

Pattern recognition is truly a sign of genius

And hey if you're still feeling like shit and loser-y,years down the line ...one thing is for certain

-You just don't get it
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There's a kind of indifference that every guy that's been down the block embodies

And most importantly, during the escalation to sex

He doesn't get bitter when she's resisting his escalation attempts

Nor does he plead with her to put out like every needy guy she's been with before

He remains his normal self whether he gets the lay or not

And if he doesn't get the lay ,that's ok

No skin off his nose
Chad Tyrone
Chad Tyrone
At no point , though,does his investment in her increase( if he doesn't get the lay)

He isn't bitter , remember...just indifferent

His investment is lower relative to hers just like in the beginning

If hers drop,his drops too

Some part of him is still interested but he isn't chasing

And that's attractive to her

He still stands a chance(hate putting it this way) of getting her
Chad Tyrone
Chad Tyrone
Most guys lose it when they don't get the lay because they get chasey

It doesn't matter if she was chasing him all along

Once you flip the script, it's mostly over

She doesn't have to be chasing as much like she was before

But she should feel it within her that it doesn't bother you

And that she's still invested in the courtship
Here's my geeky gaming analogy for seduction:
Gambits are magic spells, fundamentals are core stats.

Gambits are powerful tools that can turn the tide of the battle (seduction). However they are situational, must be transitioned into carefully, and can only be used once.

Fundamentals, on the other hand, are your core stats that will carry you through all seductions. By leveling them up, you become stronger overall.
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Atlas IV
Atlas IV
Fundamentals should obviously be your main priority. But gambits are useful too, and I think every skilled seducer should have at least two or three memorized and ready to deploy.
Hello @Marcellus this is Hunter O I can't answer on the thread I posted since I lost my phone but what if I can't get proximity since we are on a recess break and I won't be able to see the girl for a while I'm talking about the relationship thread you answered in
Marcellus
Marcellus
read that article i posted on the thread then go meet some new girls in the meantime. meet more girls and whenever she's back you can try one more time
H
Hunter O-2
Thanks Marcellus 🤝
Everyone,when starting out, is out for that magic secret that will land him chicks easily and faster

We always think that we can magically skip to the good part and avoid the bad one

But Father Experience teaches you that easy and fast seductions are built on the back of 100s of little "nothings"

It looks superhuman ,from the outside , and sort of a magic potion that wannabes could drink from ...
Chad Tyrone
Chad Tyrone
And presto they are great and at the top of their game

But from the inside,for the experienced mind, it's 15-30 items that move the needle forward 5-10% each

It's a combination of tactics,techniques , mindset(s) ...name it, that gets anyone to do it that fast

In the beginning,all these don't seem to count

By themselves they may seem nothing to some
Chad Tyrone
Chad Tyrone
Put all them together and you've solved the puzzle

You've got your magic secret

And once you get to that point ,you can do it as easily and as fast as you want
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