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People bitch on lowering your standards

Take it from me tho...

Once you get to be the buyer and have so much choice

You decide whether the interaction is doing it for you or not

Maybe a cute girl is making things harder for you while another more cute one is all over you .

You get to decide whether the just-cute girl is worth the bother
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Chad Tyrone
Chad Tyrone
Lowering your standards isn't about shagging your way through anything that breathes


It's more about giving yourself easy wins/ experience to pick the chicks you most want.

And picking the chicks you most want is getting to decide if you're willing to stick in there if she ain't doing it for you

Being the buyer+ lowering your standards makes for a killer combo
J
justonemoreperson
My mentality is similar at the moment. Building up my wins and honing my seduction skills with girls who aren't as hot as the hot girls I might have some trouble with. Little by little my caliber will go up and up and those girls I had issues with wont mean anything to me. Im already seeing how much more outcome independent and smooth I have become in only 6 or so dates. We only go up from here
You don't have to be contentious to win at frame control

If you do ,you really aren't winning others over

Instead you are outing them

Your frame can come out on top while still making others feel included.

Aim for that
At the top , you get to test lots of different stuff

While starting out,you tend to ,and should, stick to the rules

Past a certain level,you get a big picture of the game

And it gets easier to break the rules without hurting yourself or messing your process

Thinking of this ,more and more lately

Curious to hear what others think too
Chad Tyrone
Chad Tyrone
But you won't be going out there and forcing yourself on chicks just because attraction will expire if you don't close this first time .

Instead, you can keep your cool , maintain your process or ,come up with a different strategy without chasing her of course

And see how that plays out

Maybe you got used to replacing all chicks you couldn't get at first
Chad Tyrone
Chad Tyrone
But what if you could change things up and see if you still can win?

Sometimes you may

Sometimes you may not

But it's good to have those experiences in your mind so you know when to persist and stay in there in the future and when not to

Best of all, you get to see more marginal improvements rather than when you used to be rigid and didn't want to see the flip side of things
Chad Tyrone
Chad Tyrone
And that brings you closer and closer to the big picture ,if you ask me
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