cold approach

I was reading an article about having a "Devil May Care" attitude and it had me thinking about my experiences with cold approaches. Some of the things the article mentions of how a guy with the DMC mindset thinks, I find myself relating to that. I also understand the bit about the one with the...

This will contain some juicy info so yea let's get into it. I was at the festival because I wanted to take pictures and put together a collage. There was an eyeball art piece there. There was an Indian 10 (note I didn't find her physically attractive. I called her a 10 because she's dolled up...

I will be writing FRs or my approaches this year and may Include some reports from last year too. Anyways, while I was walking around at the mall, I saw a girl sitting at a table who's theme is red. I approached her and let her know she had a very artistic vibe to her. She was very polite and...

It's been a while since I used this forum. I'm probably gonna get downvoted into oblivion and have a lot of simp beta-esque assumptions thrown my way, but at this stage, fuck it. I live in Scarborough and in general the Toronto area. I notice GC is very pro cold approach, but some of the...

This happened yesterday. Its a beautiful sunny afternoon, if a bit chilly. Im walking on a bridge, and the mountains in the distance make for a wonderful sight. OPENING After a couple boring sets, another wonderful sight enters my field of view - a hot girl taking pics at the lake. Shes...

After almost a year of approaching, I really feel I have come up with a system where I trick my brain and almost completely surpass feeling any anxiety to approach girls. Bold claim I know. 😎😄. But this is not about how I have grown to not care and how I have become a stone cold pimp. Its a...

Hey guys! I have gotten a bit messed up and confused in the head reading many of these concepts here on the forum and the site. As I see it there is a slight disconnect between the way we look at these different things. Let me flesh out my understanding here with an example and I would like to...

Hey guys! So recently a friend of mine showed me a video where a guy asks out a 100 girls. He thought it was very "ballsy" and "courageous". I checked it out and found that there are several such videos now. I guess its a YT trend, one guy does it and then everyone follows. But to be honest...

Hi All, So I'm a beginner at cold approach and probably made about 50 cold approaches in total. Each week I usually do about 1 - 5 approaches. But the biggest issue for me, is that after each approach. I get what I call emotional whiplash, in the following hours and even days. In the form of...

I am starting this journal here with a lot of humility. I saw a few people doing daily approach challenges, got excited and created a challenge of my own. It was to give 3 compliments everyday. The challenge beat me already and I have realized that as a beginner, this is wayyy harder than I...

Hi Skilled Seducers! :) I am new here. I have always been quite shy and introverted all my life. Over the last few years however, I have made a conscious effort to change this. I have taken some Improv and drama classes and also some public speaking classes and have improved quite a lot. I have...

Hi Guys! Some backstory: [I've been a member of this forum for half an year and have been regularly active in the general section and field reports to gain insights about female psychology and perceptions of an experienced gamer. But it's my first time posting a thread myself though. Anyways...

I need to get my priorities in order. The most basic thing that I need to do in order to get good at cold approach, is to GO OUT and PRACTICE this. Without that nothing else can happen. This ability to take "right action" and exercising willpower and making approaching a priority is the thing I...

Really think about this: What do women/girls do to us that is so bad? Like really.... Men do horrible things to women. Like: They murder them. Beat them up. Abduct them. Rape them. Stalk them. Women do none of these things to us. They just leave us alone. Whats the worst things women do...

it’s day 1 of officially getting back to day game. I haven’t day gamed in about 2-3 months since i got back to college so i’m a bit rusty. Today, i focused on getting over my approach anxiety (again) so i started off too scared to make approaches (reputation scares but i go to a big enough...

I’m pretty decent at cold approach but i have to consciously think about approaching women, otherwise my brain just goes, “she’s bad” and i keep on moving. Whenever I realize this and try to turn back around, i feel like i’m violating the law of least effort and i sometimes get in my head...

I've been in the game for a few years, and I've recently moved to San Diego a few months ago. But I've been struggling to find people who are actively wanting to approach and Improve. For myself I've done plenty of cold approaches and have gotten results one night stands, instant dates...

Just started learning game at the beginning of the year and resumed this semester for my senior year. The girls i’ve gotten with so far in college, before i learned game, have been through social circle. these situations were completely spontaneous and just happened when i ended up alone with...

I've lurked on here for a while now and read that the general consensus is: social circle game is king. However, I go to a commuter university with well over 30,000 students in SoCal, USA. Social Circles are too loose here, it seems, and the kinds of girls I have cold approached have completely...

Intro This is a B2B lay after a bad slump. I had a combination of like 4 different social circles and the main one randomly befriended this hot (but crazy) chick that I had cold approached just a few weeks prior. It felt a bit dicey since I don't want to create reputation issues, but I...