cold approach

Yo So I finally set up a date today with a girl who I met 2 weeks ago at the park. I tried to close her for the two weeks ago when we met and the interaction via text was good. But she said she was working the whole Labor Day weekend. So I hit her back last Tuesday to soft close her. She said...

Hi guys, This is something that has perplexed me for a while, and it came up again recently when another member mentioned something similar so it would be great to hear your guys' experiences on this. I mainly approach in everyday locations i.e. street, malls, bus stops, shops etc. Every since...

Can the negotiation classic help down on their luck seducers? While some guys put on bravado about how they rarely get rejected, the reality is rejection is bound to happen in day game. It is a noisy universe: a girl might be in a rush, have a boyfriend, whatever. However, if you are hearing a...

This is from memory and my memory is not perfect, I may have forgotten a few lines Came up to two girls from behind while we were walking, one of them dropped her phone so while she was picking up her phone I made my opener. I was attracted to the other one but I spoke to the one who dropped her...

Ok, so I walking through my local mall when I saw a woman with another person and a child. I stopped them and said, "Excuse, me is this y'all kid?" They replied yes so I continued, saying something to the effect of "Yeah, I just wanted to say hello, I thought she looked interesting, so I...

it's honestly ridiculous I've been approaching since 2018-2019 It's 2025 and I still don't know what the fuck I'm doing It seems like no matter what I do or say women aren't interested And on the rare times I do get a number, it doesn't go anywhere I wonder if I'm just not smart enough or...

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I was reading an article about having a "Devil May Care" attitude and it had me thinking about my experiences with cold approaches. Some of the things the article mentions of how a guy with the DMC mindset thinks, I find myself relating to that. I also understand the bit about the one with the...

This will contain some juicy info so yea let's get into it. I was at the festival because I wanted to take pictures and put together a collage. There was an eyeball art piece there. There was an Indian 10 (note I didn't find her physically attractive. I called her a 10 because she's dolled up...

I will be writing FRs or my approaches this year and may Include some reports from last year too. Anyways, while I was walking around at the mall, I saw a girl sitting at a table who's theme is red. I approached her and let her know she had a very artistic vibe to her. She was very polite and...

It's been a while since I used this forum. I'm probably gonna get downvoted into oblivion and have a lot of simp beta-esque assumptions thrown my way, but at this stage, fuck it. I live in Scarborough and in general the Toronto area. I notice GC is very pro cold approach, but some of the...

This happened yesterday. Its a beautiful sunny afternoon, if a bit chilly. Im walking on a bridge, and the mountains in the distance make for a wonderful sight. OPENING After a couple boring sets, another wonderful sight enters my field of view - a hot girl taking pics at the lake. Shes...

After almost a year of approaching, I really feel I have come up with a system where I trick my brain and almost completely surpass feeling any anxiety to approach girls. Bold claim I know. 😎😄. But this is not about how I have grown to not care and how I have become a stone cold pimp. Its a...

Hey guys! I have gotten a bit messed up and confused in the head reading many of these concepts here on the forum and the site. As I see it there is a slight disconnect between the way we look at these different things. Let me flesh out my understanding here with an example and I would like to...

Hey guys! So recently a friend of mine showed me a video where a guy asks out a 100 girls. He thought it was very "ballsy" and "courageous". I checked it out and found that there are several such videos now. I guess its a YT trend, one guy does it and then everyone follows. But to be honest...

Hi All, So I'm a beginner at cold approach and probably made about 50 cold approaches in total. Each week I usually do about 1 - 5 approaches. But the biggest issue for me, is that after each approach. I get what I call emotional whiplash, in the following hours and even days. In the form of...

I am starting this journal here with a lot of humility. I saw a few people doing daily approach challenges, got excited and created a challenge of my own. It was to give 3 compliments everyday. The challenge beat me already and I have realized that as a beginner, this is wayyy harder than I...

Hi Skilled Seducers! :) I am new here. I have always been quite shy and introverted all my life. Over the last few years however, I have made a conscious effort to change this. I have taken some Improv and drama classes and also some public speaking classes and have improved quite a lot. I have...

Hi Guys! Some backstory: [I've been a member of this forum for half an year and have been regularly active in the general section and field reports to gain insights about female psychology and perceptions of an experienced gamer. But it's my first time posting a thread myself though. Anyways...

I need to get my priorities in order. The most basic thing that I need to do in order to get good at cold approach, is to GO OUT and PRACTICE this. Without that nothing else can happen. This ability to take "right action" and exercising willpower and making approaching a priority is the thing I...