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    Cold approach: stuck on field

    This post is Following my one of the last recent post reg " what u say doesn't matter , but how you say it" . I have gone through many youtube PUAs videos, but unfortunately there is no video which focuses and elaborates on " how you say it". All the pickup videos including the great PUAs, just...
  2. Daedalus

    How Do You Date With A Busy Lifestyle?

    Like many early-stage entrepreneurs, I have a very busy life. My time is planned down to the quarter-hour (did the "to the minute" before, and it just breaks discipline and self-trust when life happens). I wake up at 5:00, go to sleep at 21:00, and work 12-hour work days, 6 days out of 7 each...
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    Cold approach: I open great, but struggle reg what to say next

    I can boldly cold approach any girl anytime even in front of their male friends. 95 % of the times the girls stop smile and say thank you . 20% number close rate but none of them meetup afterwards. 50% of my total approaches interact warmly for atleast 5 minutes. But as soon as I say the 2nd...
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    Cold approach worth it ? Desptie doing good game, still no results ( no meetup , no lay)

    I am 33 year old, level : beginner to intermediate in terms of game skills. have been cold approaching ( mostly in malls ) for past 4 years inconsistently like twice a week . Here are my total results: -65 % of my approaches interact well. - 20% number / instagram close rate - out of which 0...
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    Street Pickup In A Middle Eastern Social Environment

    I've always been on the fence when it comes to trying cold approach in a place like the Levant (a Middle Eastern region that spans Lebanon, Syria, among others); yet, I've always heard about the locally hailed 'catcalling' approach method to reportedly get laid, which I've yet to see any...
  6. G_shp

    Correlation between length of conversation with a girl at cold approach and success of getting her to give you her contact details, to see you again

    Hello everyone, Some of the titles of the posts I made lately may look a bit like scientific research or pseudo-scientific articles. This is not at all my goal but I truly find this to be the best way of formulating my findings. And I definitely post my observations only after having heavily...
  7. Aureliusdk

    I´m attractive, 6´3, but am i crazy for not doing cold approach? Let´s find out (Journal, Denmark)

    After reading chase´s article about cold approach and meeting my first and only girlfriend through that, i am certain that´s the way i should go. Do you guys have any tips on how to start? I could start in the gym i am working at, but the thing in Scandinavia is that people don´t talk to About...
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    What to do on cold approach when caught she catches you using confidence boosters

    The background story is this usually to overcome my approach anxiety l drink commercial komboucha ginger drink and mouthwash which boost my energy and confidence levels without being too drowsy like alcohol does. But problem is today l got caught when l sort of cold approached a student nurse at...
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    Positive thinking and getting girls

    A while back, I was listening to Tucker Max’s Mating Grounds podcast. In one podcast, Max critiques the idea of meeting women through mass approaching, arguing among other things that getting rejected by tons of women is a great way to undermine confidence. This strikes me as logical, that...
  10. AspiringStoic

    Daygame: Probability, Randomness & Large Sample Sizes

    This is a an aspect of cold approach that I feel is severely under discussed though @Chase has written an amazing article on it here : https://www.girlschase.com/content/picking-girls-and-game-asymmetric-returns I think what has helped me progress this far with my journey with cold approach...
  11. AspiringStoic

    Do you LOVE cold approach?

    Hi guys! Please answer honestly, how many of you guys actually LOVE cold approaching? What I mean is this: You like it so much, that any free time you find, you are looking to go out and cold approach. Its like videogames or the gym, you can spend hours doing it and ENJOY it, and it...
  12. Pedro P

    Socializing Upcoming date with girl with recent Ex???

    Yo So I finally set up a date today with a girl who I met 2 weeks ago at the park. I tried to close her for the two weeks ago when we met and the interaction via text was good. But she said she was working the whole Labor Day weekend. So I hit her back last Tuesday to soft close her. She said...
  13. AspiringStoic

    A question to Cold Approachers

    Hi guys, This is something that has perplexed me for a while, and it came up again recently when another member mentioned something similar so it would be great to hear your guys' experiences on this. I mainly approach in everyday locations i.e. street, malls, bus stops, shops etc. Every since...
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    Getting to Yes in seduction

    Can the negotiation classic help down on their luck seducers? While some guys put on bravado about how they rarely get rejected, the reality is rejection is bound to happen in day game. It is a noisy universe: a girl might be in a rush, have a boyfriend, whatever. However, if you are hearing a...
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    FR FR: Field Report 2 at my local mall 7/13/25 daytime

    This is from memory and my memory is not perfect, I may have forgotten a few lines Came up to two girls from behind while we were walking, one of them dropped her phone so while she was picking up her phone I made my opener. I was attracted to the other one but I spoke to the one who dropped her...
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    FR FR: Field Report at my local mall 7/13/25 daytime

    Ok, so I walking through my local mall when I saw a woman with another person and a child. I stopped them and said, "Excuse, me is this y'all kid?" They replied yes so I continued, saying something to the effect of "Yeah, I just wanted to say hello, I thought she looked interesting, so I...
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    Socializing I don't know how to cold-approach

    it's honestly ridiculous I've been approaching since 2018-2019 It's 2025 and I still don't know what the fuck I'm doing It seems like no matter what I do or say women aren't interested And on the rare times I do get a number, it doesn't go anywhere I wonder if I'm just not smart enough or...
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    Socializing Approaching while she's buying something

    I got a question for y'all
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    Socializing About the "Devil May Care" attitude and cold approaching

    I was reading an article about having a "Devil May Care" attitude and it had me thinking about my experiences with cold approaches. Some of the things the article mentions of how a guy with the DMC mindset thinks, I find myself relating to that. I also understand the bit about the one with the...
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    FR [FR] Lighting festivel

    This will contain some juicy info so yea let's get into it. I was at the festival because I wanted to take pictures and put together a collage. There was an eyeball art piece there. There was an Indian 10 (note I didn't find her physically attractive. I called her a 10 because she's dolled up...
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