cold approach

How do you respond if a girl ask if you are trying to hookup with her during a date? I went on a date where, when I tried to hold her hand, she rejected, and then ask me if I am trying to hookup with her. I said I didn't think so much for whatever a date brings, just go with the flow.

Most of the time after opening with the girls, they will give me attention and talk for a while. But there are a few times after I said my opener, the girls will just continue with what they do, sometimes it could be playing with their phones, or their eyes could be wandering elsewhere instead...

This outing went really well for me. I had fun talking to these women, low anxiety, and conversations went better than past approaches. Let's get into it: Girl 1: To set the scene, the mall was pretty low-key, not too crowded, not to empty, I'd say tame atmosphere. My outfit was beige skater...

Went on a date with a girl who I cold approached few days ago. This girl is a college student. During texting girls seems very interested, even asked me a few questions about myself. We went to starbucks for coffee. At the counter when buying our drinks, we chatted a while, then girl asked me...

Hello to anyone who reads this. Already did day 1 of the newbie assignment but I guess I'll do a little introduction first before getting into it. I'm a 21 year old college student at a large public university on the west coast U.S. I've never done a single cold approach or really much of...

So I dressed up well on that day and trying to cold approach few girls at a shopping mall. I have encountered a few cases where the girls seems to be receptive with my approach, but at the end of the conversation when I want to ask for their number, they refused to give it. I think it could be...

I recently have some audio of my daygame/supermarket approaches. It's good because I've listened to them and can see some possible areas of improvement. Is it worth posting any of it up? Is there any risk to that? I can silence out the name I give and some store location. If you sound stupid...

Hi lads, I am continuing my battle on the streets on London and pfew.. it's a bit frustrating let me tell you! I need a little advice here, so I open her, talk bla bla, then I go "we should go for a drink" she says "ok" MY QUESTION: Should I set the date? Like "cool, when u have some time?"...

So this is a quick one, I spoke to a girl in the gym yesterday and at some point she started to interrogate me like "where do you work, where do you live, etc." When girls start to ask me too many questions in succession that seem like a questionnaire, I start to play around with the situation...

It gets dark quite early where I live, at around 5 pm. I finish work around that time and I'd still have some time to go home and do some approaches on the way home but I'm not very experienced approaching in the dark/dusk/after sunset and also girls are usually rushing home. Most shops also...

Hi guys, TL;Dr : if a girl is not used to being cold-approached (regardless of the way I approach her - direct/indirect/situational etc) she'll Auto-reject even if she was attracted to me. How to overcome this? Sorry for the long post but I didn't want to miss out any details, that may be...

hey everyone, I recently went to a few outdoor events in my area, the kind that attract a lot of public. I did a few approaches when I saw obvious AIs, and noticed a trend. I would get a rather obvious AI from a girl, start a conversation (always indirect, i'm not ballsy enough to go direct...

Hi, I'm having some sort of a dilemma here. Quick intro: I've only been in 2 LTRs my whole life. Im single now and it's been a while since the last time I've been with a woman. I don't live in North America by the way, I live in a semi conservative, semi liberal country. Since it's been a...

So yesterday I went out solo, since my "wing" was doing something else (two weeks ago we went out and I approached 2 girls and made out with both, but nothing else came from it, still it felt good to "be back", last week we went to the same bar and the police shut it down like as we arrived...

Hello everyone, I've recently gotten a bit disappointed with the number and quality of women that I am meeting through social circle and tinder. And, there are a number of things that I want to iron out when it comes to my vibe, which I think will require a lot of trial and error to get right...

Hello everyone, I recently started meeting new girls again, and I noticed one specific type of body language that has me confused - Right after locking eyes with a girl for the first time, she rubs her nose and breaks eye contact looking to the side. This seems to me to be the opposite of...

I told myself I’d start writing field reports so that I can keep interactions I have tucked in memory. I tend to forget most approaches in a couple days and this one was pretty fresh so i’ll post my first report now. I don’t wanna put too many defining characteristics as to preserve some...

I am currently looking into methods of meeting new women. I have decent game, which I acquired through bars and social circle mostly, but abundance is a problem. I really want to bring more women into my life and achieve the feeling that no matter what, in 2-3 weeks I can find a...

Hi, I'm Richard, 24, I lived in Scarborough my entire life. I just discovered this sub-thread so not sure why I haven't utilized it yet. Background: I've been reading a lot of GC material and have done some cold approaching, bar pickups, and in-person speed dating. Even though I'm still...

A quick story about me. In my previous posts, I'm making an effort to balance out my natural game with technical skill and pickup acumen. When I was still technically inclined, one of the things I would do is I would go to the mall for 1 hour and try to find situations where I should practice my...