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Hey guys, did another gym approach, wanted to break it down, went better than the convo from “Dryer than the Sahara desert” but still some things to work on.
Near the end of my workout saw this really cute girl, probably a good few inches taller than me, however, on the opposite side of the gym. I waited for her to use a machine closer to me, and when she was resting, I opened her with complimenting her shoes.
She receives the compliment well, and I start to make some small talk about the shoes, which lead into the schools that we went to, and how old she is.
We traded names and I did the hand
I made her guess my age, which she got right for the most part(my beard is more trimmed down, making me look my age).
I make some insights about her school, gathering she’s more a beach person, which I say “who doesn’t love the beach” to build similarity.
She says she’s not a club girl so I say “I guess you don’t like dancing that much… or probably the drunk guys hitting on you…” to which she laughs and agrees.
She said she likes the bars, so I tell her a bar town near us, but she’s too young to go(19 in America), but I tell her that maybe one of the bars accepts fakes, and she should come out.
We also talk about travel, to which I tell her I spent 4 months in Italy, she says she wants to do something like that, but won’t be able to, I give her some advise on how to, then ask if she’s traveled anywhere in Europe. She said Portugal once for a wedding, to which I replied “must be beautiful.”
I asked her where she would study abroad, she said “Barcelona or Florence” which I used the opportunity to tease her by calling her basic. She laughed, after I agreed that Barcelona in particular is an amazing place.
Sensing I had been there for a while, I told her it was nice to meet you, I said we should get a coffee sometime.
She responded with the classic “I have a boyfriend” which I responded “its just a coffee, no big deal, up to you tho” to try to seem chill. She said no again, so I said no worries, nice to meet you, I’ll see you Iater, to which she agreed.
Some good, some bad, anyone have any other advice on things I could have improved on. I kind of threw the coffee idea out of nowhere, need to come in smoother next time. Also with a girl who’s considerably taller than you, it’s always gonna be more difficult. She was sitting while I was standing, so it didn’t seem as apparent.
Near the end of my workout saw this really cute girl, probably a good few inches taller than me, however, on the opposite side of the gym. I waited for her to use a machine closer to me, and when she was resting, I opened her with complimenting her shoes.
She receives the compliment well, and I start to make some small talk about the shoes, which lead into the schools that we went to, and how old she is.
We traded names and I did the hand
I made her guess my age, which she got right for the most part(my beard is more trimmed down, making me look my age).
I make some insights about her school, gathering she’s more a beach person, which I say “who doesn’t love the beach” to build similarity.
She says she’s not a club girl so I say “I guess you don’t like dancing that much… or probably the drunk guys hitting on you…” to which she laughs and agrees.
She said she likes the bars, so I tell her a bar town near us, but she’s too young to go(19 in America), but I tell her that maybe one of the bars accepts fakes, and she should come out.
We also talk about travel, to which I tell her I spent 4 months in Italy, she says she wants to do something like that, but won’t be able to, I give her some advise on how to, then ask if she’s traveled anywhere in Europe. She said Portugal once for a wedding, to which I replied “must be beautiful.”
I asked her where she would study abroad, she said “Barcelona or Florence” which I used the opportunity to tease her by calling her basic. She laughed, after I agreed that Barcelona in particular is an amazing place.
Sensing I had been there for a while, I told her it was nice to meet you, I said we should get a coffee sometime.
She responded with the classic “I have a boyfriend” which I responded “its just a coffee, no big deal, up to you tho” to try to seem chill. She said no again, so I said no worries, nice to meet you, I’ll see you Iater, to which she agreed.
Some good, some bad, anyone have any other advice on things I could have improved on. I kind of threw the coffee idea out of nowhere, need to come in smoother next time. Also with a girl who’s considerably taller than you, it’s always gonna be more difficult. She was sitting while I was standing, so it didn’t seem as apparent.
