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One of my favourite lays of this year as it's a movie moment where I incidentally met a girl on a long distance train before she eventually ends up on my bed.
It's a sample of the type of game I want to 100% transition to where I don't really try and just lay girls while living my life.
TLDR:
Long version:
Train
Our conversation
Texting
Date 1
Date 2
Light shit test attempts
Sex
We're sat side by side and I gently move my hand in circles around her knee and thigh while talking. After a while she holds my arm to emphasis certain points and strokes me slightly. I take it as a sign that I'm actually being slow and she's ready to go lol.
I escalate on her and we have a good time. Her body was a pleasant surprise as she's more petite than I originally thought and she put a lot of effort to making me finish which I liked. I'm noticing these days it takes more for me to get off... Especially with a condom which I used.
Had a couple rounds with fun conversations in between... We'll see where this goes
Onwards & Upwards x
It's a sample of the type of game I want to 100% transition to where I don't really try and just lay girls while living my life.
TLDR:
- A girl is sat on my seat while I'm on a train to a different city. Weirdly turns out we were given the same seat reservation number
- I sit next her and ping her with "Travelling anywhere exciting?" and we end up talking non-stop for 2 hours. Maybe it was the indirect opener @Bacchus
- We exchange numbers (I picked up on her body language), text her sporadically over the week, then have our first date over drinks
- 2nd date she comes over mine for "smoothies", I pick up on queues where I can tell she wants it, pass shit tests then lay with no LMR
Long version:
Train
black knitted jumper, black slim fit tracksuit, white socks and white trainers
Medium curly haired white brunette, sharp blue eyes, slim fit sportswear and running shoes
"Think you're sat on my seat"... We have a moment where we both confidently share our phones and turns out we both had reservations... Maybe it was fate lol anyway I sit next to her, drop a casual "going anywhere exciting" and she completely opens up...
Our conversation
- Super easy sociable frame. She's easy to talk to and tease. I mock her for the area she lives in, make accurate cold reads about the places she likes to go drinking and deep dive her about her years of travelling around Australia, UK and overall partying lifestyle. Also get her to open up on how she had a stressful time qualifying to become a lawyer and joke about how she has no friends as she mentions the same friend like three times.
- Also pick up that this is a high energy/ professional archetype so I humbly mention my achievements when she presses me on what I'm competitive about. Tell her I only compete by myself and when she pushes me for an example talk about my 100% sponsored degree
- I don't bring up any sexual or 2nd gen frames as felt shy around the train lol. Essentially had a drawn out version of my daygame approach strategy. I also create a ton of inside jokes such as her small garden being the best place to visit in her area etc.
- Her stop arrives before mine 2 hours later and I contemplate about getting the number but not that bothered. She's attractive but not my usual type (seems long limbed while I prefer short/petite) as well as 40 minutes away by train. She ends up lingering and says something like "shall we..." and I just step in and make it smoother for both of us by saying "We should keep in touch, what's your number" or something along those lines. She enthusiastically agrees
Texting
- I recommend this at least x2 a week on this forum lol Skills text guide
- DWW: Pinged her saying: Hii X, cool meeting you, feel free to save me [her area] curry and gym gear"
- inside joke that's friendly but low investment
- Girl: replies a day later warmly saying "You too, if you're ever in my area we can do it"
- DWW: "I'm tempted if you show me your infamous garden"
- Based of her warm response I basically ask to go straight to hers in a sociably graceful way
- Girl: "Ahhh you'll have to work harder than that before you see it
- She picks up on my suggestion and doesn't bite lol
- DWW: Hahah jokes aside, be cool to hang out sometime
- I show that I can read undertones and not autistic but genuinely interested in her
- DWW: Pinged her saying: Hii X, cool meeting you, feel free to save me [her area] curry and gym gear"
- In the middle of handling logistics I'm also having a conversation about what she's up to. This naturally happened as she started double texting and I followed suit. Wouldn't recommend it to beginners but that's just how it flowed. Also a day or 2 between texts as we're both busy people (which I like)
Date 1
- We meet at a bar that's halfway between us. I basically run my stack that I've written already here
- It's an okay date where I'm just going with the flow but thing get better when I move from sat across her to side by side because "I'm struggling to hear that" then after digging around find out she's into meditation / spirituality which is a bit more niche and allows us to establish more of a genuine connection. If you can't tell from some of my reports I'm into that kind of thing too
- There's a lot of back and forth fun teasing humor between us. She's super quick witted which is refreshing. @hey_lover has told me about this and my interactions. He said they are like "tennis matches" and he's right aha. At one point I'm teaching her how to get free drinks from guys at bars (secret frame society frames I guess) and I call her "autistic" when she reenacts how she would do it before teaching her a better way.
- Towards the end of the date I seed the 2nd date for my place for smoothies 1 week later. The way I do this on dates is as follows:
- Validate (“I enjoyed this because of Xyz specific compliment” then wait for her to say the same) > Ping (“We should do this again” wait for positive response) > Close (What’s your upcoming schedule like)
Date 2
- She comes over, we make smoothies. I slow build tension by incidental touching at her lower back, warm smiles, feeding her a spoon of the drink to try etc.
- When moving from my kitchen to my bed she sits herself in the middle which is a good sign and shows how comfortable she is
Light shit test attempts
- She attempts to shit test me by saying I could be a murderer
- I address this by flipping the script and saying, you could be crazy especially because of the area in London you live (there's a popular serial killer in history who's from where she lives)
- Then make a pet name for her that's her "killer alter ego" and say "I will not be slandered by (nick name I just made up) in my own home thank you very much... Besides a serial killer wouldn't make smoothies as good as me"
- what I said didn't matter, it's the fun, confident and in control emotion that was important
- I also teased her for being autistic which was call back humor from date 1, clearly being influenced by our very own @Skills
Sex
We're sat side by side and I gently move my hand in circles around her knee and thigh while talking. After a while she holds my arm to emphasis certain points and strokes me slightly. I take it as a sign that I'm actually being slow and she's ready to go lol.
I escalate on her and we have a good time. Her body was a pleasant surprise as she's more petite than I originally thought and she put a lot of effort to making me finish which I liked. I'm noticing these days it takes more for me to get off... Especially with a condom which I used.
Had a couple rounds with fun conversations in between... We'll see where this goes
Onwards & Upwards x
