1. Why everyone has to exaggerate their lifestyle during the getting to know process
>>>> Getting a long term partner is important, especially for woman. She wants to select the best available option. While most men have quite simple requirements for woman (e.g. she has good looks, that is good enough) women usually have quite long list. They don't look for single characteristic or behavior in man, rather they assess the "whole package", they consider many things... Thus you want to "sell" yourself, meaning that you want her to have positive view on you. For simplicity, think about it as a car dealer - you want to hear all the good stuff about the car, you don't want to hear that it may break down after 10K miles. You also want to make sure that the car won't break down after 10K just because the car dealer say so...
2. Why women constantly ask me if I like my job when they first meet me
>>>> If she is looking for long term BF, does she want a guy who doesn't work, who has no income? Nope. She wants somebody who is financially stable, someone who has place to live, someone who can afford things...
3. Why women only seem to text or call me when I disappear for a while
>>>> What does it mean "while"? 2 days? 2 months? Either way, I would say that it is a good sign. She might be testing your patience. Say that you go for a date and there are good vibes, you seem to like her and she likes you. Many guys go home and they text or call her right away, maybe the same evening, or next day. The thing is, she may perceive him as being too needy, too clingy and too eager for the relationship. She might think that he can't wait because he is impatient. She may see the guy as not being too attractive because he has no other girls to go out with. On the other hand, a guy who waits several days is perceived differently. If there were good vibes she wonders whether he likes her or not. She may be thinking that the reason why he doesn't call is that he might be dating another girl(s). She may be thinking that he is not much interested in her. And, because she calls after several days, she is thinking about that guy - she is curious what he thinks about her, whether he likes her. She is interested becaues she is calling, and by making an effort to reach him she is investing into him. It is most likely against common sense, but it is all good, very good.
4. I'm not supposed to talk to a women I want to date the way I talk to my platonic female friends..............so what do I talk about?
>>>> Not sure how you talk to your platonic female friends... Anyway, you want to keep your emotions hidden. Say you like her a lot - but don't tell her that. Be careful, she may also test you, for example she can send you a text that she loves you. Unless you are sure that it is true, don't reply that you love her too, you may lose her. You ALWAYS want to look less emotionally engaged than she is. Keep your feelings for her to yourself, don't share them with her. Instead of feelings show her actions - take her to different places, don't just sit and talk at the table. She wants to experience different things. What to talk about? The best way is when you let her talk about herself, her life, her friends, what she likes and so on. She will try to get lots of information from you - tell her only minimum about yourself, always deflect the talk back on her. The less you tell her the better for you. Talk about anything but yourself - other people, other relationships, concerts, hobbies, events, music,...
5. I was told I don't have any GAME and I have no clue what the hell that is in the dating game
>>>> Yes. Game is popular today, you need at least some game. You should always make it seem like you are dating more women. Even better, you should be dating more women at the same time. Aim for 5. It may not make sense again, but in her eyes the more women you are dating the more attractive you are to her. Work on fundamentals. Have some plan for different actions, never make it seem that thinking about her consumes most of your time, never make it seem that she is the one you are thinking about all day long. Never...
6. I don't know what it means when a woman says "tell me something good"
>>>> It may just be a stupid question she memorized because she reads magazines about dating, but it doesn't have to.... What are you actually telling her? You might be too pessimistic, too negative. She is looking for long term partner thus she wants some excitement, some fun. I'm not saying that you should change your personality, but you should be careful how you are expressing yourself. You want to look optimistic, positive, fun. Like a guy who likes his life, guy who is motivated, ambitious to achieve something. Guy who cares about his life.
7. The question "what do you like to do for fun?" In my spare time or on a date?
>>>> The same, it could be memorized question, or you may appear too passive, too negative. Have plan what to say for next time, and have plan to do stuff with her. Again, she wants to experience things, not just talk about them. Take her to different places, food, trips, parks, zoo, swimming, exercising, movies... You don't want to appear that you sit home and just watch porn, TV or play stupid games... You want to appear like you are living your life. No, you should be living your life...
8. When a woman sends a text stating she may 10 or 15 mins late........."is it because she is wrapping up another date?
>>>> Most likely not. It is good when she lets you know ahead, and even better if she actually shows up.
9. When a woman sends a text after a 1st date that says........."It was a pleasure meeting you".........Is that not Interest?
>>>> I wouldn't analyze it too much. She might be interested especially if she initiated herself. The important thing is if she goes for another date with you.
10. If a woman comes home after a date and views your online profile is that a good sign or bad sign?
>>>> The same. If she wasn't interested at all she wouldn't look. But she is looking. Again, the important thing is if she goes for another date, not whether she is checking your profile...
These are the reasons why I am single because It's so much about the dating game that I just don't know.
>>>> Yes, there is A LOT of stuff to learn about, it is totally different world. At times it all even seem totally backwards, it is as if everything what you have been told since you were little is totally wrong. And it is totally wrong because you can't get woman...
