- Jul 26, 2018
The guys I know who are great at this stuff, they're willing to work for it. Not just to get any girl... but incredibly hot ones. If you're not getting those sorts of girls, then you aren't doing enough approaches. That's all there is to it.So a question about that; how do you not feel approaching that many women as daunting? I'm talking specifically cold approach day game.
One chick Is hard enough, imagine 50.
I could see 20 not being too bad, but 50 is a lot for day game.
I mean, gotta do what you gotta do, so really don't care what the numbers are, but it's just hard doing it so many times with little to no results.
1. How do you look at that number of approaches and not feel like it's too much and keep approaching knowing you have to approach many women to get one chick?
2. Why does it take so many approaches to get a lay?
That said, it is a skill based game and the more you do it, the better you get. Still... cold approach is very inefficient. It's hard for me to explain why this is true, because it's like telling an air breather how to use gills. Sure, you might get lucky on your first try, or your 100th. But the law of averages shows it's closer to 50. Fifty can be done in a few days if you're serious. In a daygame session we would do ten or fifteen approaches, in about 2 hours. Easy. That's why we're coaches, and we get the hottest girls, and everyone else asks "How?"