If you want to be friend zoned sure , your plan is the shortcut towards that direction
those kind of things are intended to be used when you do something that really pisses her off , like making too much fun of her or whatever , not for your kind of situation .
the only way to have a chance is either to wait and game her at school , either to send a text like I explained you above .
the text explained above is not really what people will advise you to do , because it is playing more the Russian roulette than seducing girls , but I think that in your situation is the only thing that you can do to move on .
if I were you I would try it , you might get lucky
Too late! I'm friend zoned.
Lossanzo:
(14:52) Thank you! :slightly_smiling_face:
(14:52) Where are you from?
(14:52) You seem to have origins outside Portugal
Ana:
(15:01)I was born in Mozambique, I have a mix of indian, mozambican and portuguese origins (note: I actually was pretty sure that she had indian origins by her looks but I didn't say anything. Maybe in the future I should be more bold with my cold reads if I have a feeling that they might be true)
Lossanzo:
(15:13) Makes sense!
(15:15) Another thing
(15:16) I don't know how you interpreted me when I asked you if you really had a boyfriend
(15:16) I don't want you to think that I have a problem with that or that I doubt what you said is true
(15:16) I suppose I just wish you were still single
(15:17) And to be honest I would have prefered to have spoken to you in person and earlier but I can't change the past
(15:17) You are a fun and intelligent girl and I enjoyed talking to you here
(15:18) Friends? :slightly_smiling_face:
Ana:
(15:19)(quotes me:"I don't know how you interpreted me when I asked you if you really had a boyfriend") I did not interpret anything :laughtingface: I am very chill. I just told you that I had a boyfriend because, at all, I don't want you to get hurt, it's better being straightforward at the beginning than letting you feel more and then hurt you at the end, right?
Lossanzo:
(15:19) Haha understood
Ana:
(15:19)(quotes me:"And to be honest I would have prefered to have spoken to you in person and earlier but I can't change the past") Ahahah maybe, do you know when you wanted to talk to me?
(15:20)(quotes me:"You are a fun and intelligent girl and I enjoyed talking to you here") Thank you!
(15:20)(quotes me:"Friends? :slightly_smiling_face: ") Sure :smiling_face_with_smiling_eyes:
Lossanzo:
(15:20)(quote her"Ahahah maybe, do you know when you wanted to talk to me?")Around in the 1st semester of last academic year
(15:21) I wasn't going through a good phase
(15:21)And the way to deal with it was not to socialize so much I suppose
Ana:
(15:22)I understand :sad_face:
(15:22) By chance at that time I was also not in a good phase :sweat_smile:
Lossanzo:
(15:22) You are better now right?
Ana:
(15:24) Yes!
(15:24) Much better
(15:24) And you?
Lossanzo:
(15:25)(quote her: "Much better") Good!
(15:25)(quote her:"And you?")Better but this covid thing is boring :sweat_smile:
Ana:
(15:27)A little, but we have to go on and adapt to the situations
(15:27)This in an instant passes
Lossanzo:
(15:28)(quote her:"A little, but we have to go on and adapt to the situations")No doubt
Ana:
(15:30)I sincerely, being more selfish, I really like being at home, so COVID doesn't bother me
Lossanzo:
(15:31)I also happen to typically like to stay at home
(15:31)But sometimes I have limits
(15:31)What do you like to do at home?
Ana
(15:32)Well, listening to music, watching series, reading, dancing... but what I do most at home is not even enjoy, is to study :face_with_tears_of_joy:
(15:32)And you?
Lossanzo:
(15:33)(quote her:"Well, listening to music, watching series, reading, dancing... but what I do most at home is not even enjoy, is to study :face_with_tears_of_joy:")What do you read?
(15:33)(quote her:"And you?")Nothing out there
(15:34)I spend too much time on Youtube :sweat_smile:
(15:34)I have also taken an online programming course
Ana:
(15:38)(quotes me:"What do you read?")Now i'm reading management and economics books: Zero to One and Rockonomics
(15:38)(quotes me:"I spend too much time on Youtube :sweat_smile:") And me who used to spend my life :laughtingface:
(15:38)(quotes me:"I have also taken an online programming course)You do well! I'm also trying at an online programming college
(15:39)But I think I will give up
Lossanzo:
(15:46)(quote her:"You do well! I'm also trying at an online programming college")I was learning at codecademy
(15:46)Search it on Google if you're interested
(15:47)(quote her:"But I think I will give up")Little time for that?
Ana:
(16:21)(quotes me:"Search it on Google if you're interested")Uuuh, thank you so much!
(16:22)(quotes me:"Little time for that?")Yes, I have to apply to enter and it is at the end of November - beginning of December
(16:22)I can't, because I have to go 40 hours a week
(16:23)Impossible if I want to study and have a life
Lossanzo:
(17:01)I see
So there it is. I really went straight to platonic zone. To be honest, I don't think I could have gone any other way through texting. I still don't have game.
In the end, I think this is for the best. I very likely won't be thinking about this girl a whole lot. The "mystery" is gone, both for me and for her. Maybe in person if I have a good vibe and be able to act a bit sexual around her, but to me at this time I don't think she has any "fascination" left for me. Likely didn't even before.
At least I won't be thinking that I hurt this girl. She knows what my deal is/was now. From me there is nothing left hiding.